Terribly upset..
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That why I refrain myself away from gal physically till now...
I don't want to get hurt by them... -
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Wow, this thread is still alive?
Ya exactly, I have never met her parents before in my life. What a load of crap.
Suck it up, move on.
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I think you handled the whole situation well.Originally posted by UsedKill:We really liked each other at that point(which now I know was actually a one sided thing). Yeah, some mushy sms were exchanged as you have seen in one of my previous post. So how could I be at fault for thinking I was being lead on and that she was developing feelings for me?
I do admit it was partially my fault for being so foolish and gullible. Gotta watch out next time.
Just one slight reminder for you, something you might find useful (hopefully in the near future). IÂ’m speaking from experience.
Mushy SMSes donÂ’t mean anything They are a convenient medium for women to flirt.
Leave them as that.
Women can flirt with you for tons of reasons. Many of which bear no relevance to their interest in you.
Instead of getting all weak knees over her mushy but meaningless texts, use your hp to type
“ok”.
“Are you trying to get my attention? That’s cute.”
And nothing else for the rest of the day.
You should have more things waiting for you to do than to cater to her meaningless texts.
If you don't, start finding more important things to do.
Want to gauge how high her interest actually is?
Take real action instead of wasting your effort on flirting.
Use your hp only to set up dates.
Dates that are fun from your perspective instead of hers.
“There an important football match tonight, I’ll be watching the game at XXX. You should tag along.”
High interest = She hates football but tagged along anyway.
SheÂ’s highly interested in whatÂ’s going on in your life. She has good potential.
Anything other than a yes from her (unless for a valid reason), be slightly ruthlessÂ…keep her in the backburner and let her continue doing most of the work.
That's an alternative you can try. -
Originally posted by curiousOrange:
curiousOrange, that's a damn good post.
I think you handled the whole situation well.
Just one slight reminder for you, something you might find useful (hopefully in the near future). I’m speaking from experience.
Mushy SMSes don’t mean anything They are a convenient medium for women to flirt.
Leave them as that.
[b]Women can flirt with you for tons of reasons. Many of which bear no relevance to their interest in you.
Instead of getting all weak knees over her mushy but meaningless texts, use your hp to type
“ok”.
“Are you trying to get my attention? That’s cute.”
And nothing else for the rest of the day.
You should have more things waiting for you to do than to cater to her meaningless texts.
If you don't, start finding more important things to do.
Want to gauge how high her interest actually is?
Take real action instead of wasting your effort on flirting.
Use your hp only to set up dates.
Dates that are fun from your perspective instead of hers.
“There an important football match tonight, I’ll be watching the game at XXX. You should tag along.”
High interest = She hates football but tagged along anyway.
She’s highly interested in what’s going on in your life. She has good potential.
Anything other than a yes from her (unless for a valid reason), be slightly ruthless…keep her in the backburner and let her continue doing most of the work.
That's an alternative you can try.
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+1
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