Wife Likes another Man?

• civicster

  24 Apr 07, 21:53

  Hi all...What would you do if you found out that your wife likes another man even though she is married to you. To pretend noting ever happen or confront her? But somehow you will feel very upset about it. Would appriciate your inputs.
  
  Regards
• blahshit

  24 Apr 07, 22:00

  i think 1st thing the guy should do is to find the truth before jumping into conclusions before confronting her or wadever and break the whole relationship.. maybe the guy is jus too sensitive.. but if really the wife likes someone else, what can u do? kill her? of course no la.. jus remain calm and tok to her.. ask her wad's going on..
• gigabyte14

  24 Apr 07, 22:02

  Originally posted by blahshit:

  i think 1st thing the guy should do is to find the truth before jumping into conclusions before confronting her or wadever and break the whole relationship.. maybe the guy is jus too sensitive.. but if really the wife likes someone else, what can u do? kill her? of course no la.. jus remain calm and tok to her.. ask her wad's going on..

  well, that settles the whole problem.
• Eric Cartman

  24 Apr 07, 22:05

  bargain for rights to like another woman
• jojobeach

  24 Apr 07, 23:20

  Originally posted by civicster:

  Hi all...What would you do if you found out that your wife likes another man even though she is married to you. To pretend noting ever happen or confront her? But somehow you will feel very upset about it. Would appriciate your inputs.
  
  Regards

  How did you find out your wife likes another man ?
  Was it your imagination ?
  Was it from a rumour someone is spreading ?
  
  Did she tell you she likes someone ???
  
  
• browniebaobao

  24 Apr 07, 23:27

  Do something to rekindle the flame and salvage the relationship.
• firediviner

  24 Apr 07, 23:57

  yup...agree with brownie...
  
  try a soft confrontation...and look for solution..not start to blame one another...
  
  Woman are like AA batteries: Affection and Attention.
  
  You got it??
  
• soulwinner

  24 Apr 07, 23:58

  A green cucklo..
• pierre^^

  25 Apr 07, 00:00

  u need to act as if u are still chasing her
  
  so do start doing all the sweet things u done for her b4
  like making her a AI XIN breakfast
  
  and surprise her with present
  play her fav song
  bring her to sing ktv
  
  
• Yunhaier

  25 Apr 07, 01:25

  Originally posted by civicster:

  Hi all...What would you do if you found out that your wife likes another man even though she is married to you. To pretend noting ever happen or confront her? But somehow you will feel very upset about it. Would appriciate your inputs.
  
  Regards

  Tell me about your relationship before marriage, during marriage and everything leading to your discovery.
  
  Cheers
• missqi

  25 Apr 07, 01:26

  Ever read Othello?
  Jkjk.
  
  Such problems should always be ironed out.
  
• allentyb

  25 Apr 07, 01:37

  
  
  this is not an ideal place to seek advice for your marriage problem
  
  please consult a marriage counsellor asap
  
  
• beavan

  25 Apr 07, 08:41

  Originally posted by allentyb:

  
  
  this is not an ideal place to seek advice for your marriage problem
  
  please consult a marriage counsellor asap
  
  

  actually i think this place is perfectly fine to give advice.
• viciouskitty74

  25 Apr 07, 13:26

  Originally posted by civicster:

  Hi all...What would you do if you found out that your wife likes another man even though she is married to you. To pretend noting ever happen or confront her? But somehow you will feel very upset about it. Would appriciate your inputs.
  
  Regards

  If you figure confrontation will bring you out of suspicion and misery. Do it.
  
  But if you want to pretend nothing ever happen, and keep imagining her motives or her intentions.
  
  Then its your right.
  
  Its however, your imagination against her real liking.
  
  You can badmouth her all you want. But when she finds out. Would you be actually pushing her to leave you for a 'better' man?
• <Precious>

  25 Apr 07, 13:31

  Hanor..... hanor..........
• Ah Cek

  25 Apr 07, 13:46

  too late to do anything liaoz...
• zeny

  25 Apr 07, 13:56

  Originally posted by Ah Cek:

  too late to do anything liaoz...

  depends on wife.
• Ah Cek

  25 Apr 07, 13:57

  Originally posted by zeny:

  depends on wife.

  no, shld depend on wife's new lover
• SGpork

  25 Apr 07, 13:58

  if she is married to me..
  how can i pretend nth happen
  
  
• zeny

  25 Apr 07, 13:59

  Originally posted by Ah Cek:

  no, shld depend on wife's new lover

  the question is which lover?
  opps
• zeny

  25 Apr 07, 14:00

  Originally posted by SGpork:

  if she is married to me..
  how can i pretend nth happen
  
  

  humm
  if she is rich and you are poor.
  will you?
  
• viciouskitty74

  25 Apr 07, 14:01

  the lover rich or not?
• browniebaobao

  25 Apr 07, 20:09

  Originally posted by firediviner:

  yup...agree with brownie...
  
  try a soft confrontation...and look for solution..not start to blame one another...
  
  Woman are like AA batteries: Affection and Attention.
  
  You got it??
  

  this is something new, but I think it's true. hehe.
• de_middle

  25 Apr 07, 20:30

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  Do something to rekindle the flame and salvage the relationship.

  couldn't agree otherwise......best solution
• viciouskitty74

  26 Apr 07, 01:39

  Dunno. Some men has this inferiority complex.
  
  Because the wife was seen with a man with $$$.
  
  They assume that the wifes lover is very rich. Thus the wife likes the guy.
  
  Somehow, its the common excuse of males regarding their partner.