Nothing wrong if she likes another man. That man may be a good hawker, or a good fish monger, or a good butcher, or some one good. This is normal.Originally posted by civicster:Hi all...What would you do if you found out that your wife likes another man even though she is married to you. To pretend noting ever happen or confront her? But somehow you will feel very upset about it. Would appriciate your inputs.
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Sometimes I feel gals (even when they are married) will remember and think of past relationships where they still like or desire that person. As you mentioned, that guy is a flirt and probably have hurt your wife and there is still a love/hate feeling for that guy. As for what has happened between them I do not know but please note that all is in the past and it does not matter anymore. If she is sensible enough, she should build her future with you.Originally posted by civicster:Hi all, thanks for all you comments. Well, how do I find out about that? Just a few days ago I accidentally looked at my wife's dairy and she wrote that she still have feelings for this guy, although she didn't mention who, I more or less knows who this guy is as he and my wife used to be an item and somehow this guy is quite a filrt. In the end they didn't get together for some reasons.
From what I know, this guy tried to stay away from my wife and only treat her as a friend.
Since this is her secret and the guys know what he is doing and like what browniebaobao said, I should give her more AA instead. When problem arises we should not blame anyone but try to reflect what went wrong despite my hetic work and part-time studies.
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right on.Originally posted by EngAudListCo_Director:Affairs of the heart is difficult to fathom.
Originally posted by Eric Cartman:bargain for rights to like another woman
It all started way back before you married her. That's the root of the problem guy.Originally posted by civicster:Yup, am trying to rekindle the flame first. Seriously I don't mind what happen in the past before we get together. But right now since we are already married, one should know where their limit is and be faithful.
u will be surprise dat some guys prefer to bear the suffering themselves to try to save the marriage for the sake of the child by pretending not to know.Originally posted by SGpork:if she is married to me..
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I agree with dokono's stance...the wife will have an unfilled emotional abyss which no matter how well the TS treating her....she'd still be thinking abt her ex lover.Originally posted by dokono:It all started way back before you married her. That's the root of the problem guy.
I think you married the wrong girl. The interest wasn't even there to begin with. When her mind is not whole-heartedly with you, problems will arise. How can she think about you when she doesn't have much interest when you started dating her?
doko
If there are kids involved, it's better to try save the marriage. This is because ultimately, the victims will be the kids.Originally posted by 798:u will be surprise dat some guys prefer to bear the suffering themselves to try to save the marriage for the sake of the child by pretending not to know.
That's the problem with many guys. Many are in a rush to get married and forgot to see if the girl has any feeling for them in the beginning. If she doesn't don't go after her anymore. She must like you from the start and likes your style.Originally posted by Mid9Sun:I agree with dokono's stance...the wife will have an unfilled emotional abyss which no matter how well the TS treating her....she'd still be thinking abt her ex lover.
I think the TS can ready for the worst and hope for the best. Good luck
Originally posted by Eric Cartman:bargain for rights to like another woman
Hi,Originally posted by dokono:That's the problem with many guys. Many are in a rush to get married and forgot to see if the girl has any feeling for them in the beginning. If she doesn't don't go after her anymore. She must like you from the start and likes your style.
But many beg and wait, hoping she will change her mind or heart.
haiz..
doko
sorry but to ask u one question, did you neglect her after you got married? Start reflecting on what you might have done & confirm what you have written is true, never ever jump to conclusions or it'll be disasterous. Take care manOriginally posted by civicster:Hi all...What would you do if you found out that your wife likes another man even though she is married to you. To pretend noting ever happen or confront her? But somehow you will feel very upset about it. Would appriciate your inputs.
Regards