When should a person give up?
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To those in love or going after someone who they think they are in love with.
When is the rite time to give up?
1) After a quarrel?
2) After she rejected you with sms?
3) After she rejected you with email?
4) After she rejected you with a letter?
5) After she rejected you by asking her friends to inform you?
6) After she is been seen giving another guy a kiss?
7) After she is been seen giving another guy a hugging?
8 ) After she is caught by you in bed with someone else?
9) After she slapped you?
10) She threw your present away in front of you?
11) She threw your present away in front of your friends?
12) She threw your present away in front of her friends?
13) After she had sex with you and say that you are loser?
14) After she told you that she is a lesbian?
15) When you feels that you no longer love her? -
When you feels that you no longer love her
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thanks broOriginally posted by darkensun:When you feels that you no longer love her
forgot about that one. -
BTW, can someone explain their own definition of love?
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Can be quite subjective...
But I personally think it's when both parties no longer enjoying (tolerating?) the relationship like it used to be or when one party is EXTREMELY TAXED by it... And there really ain't no solution to remedy the situation seemingly for the future... Mmm.. Maybe that's it? -
SEX!Originally posted by viciouskitty74:BTW, can someone explain their own definition of love?
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many guy would say..
after sex..
ill give up when she give up -
You mean. After one sex session or multiple sex session?Originally posted by SGpork:many guy would say..
after sex..
ill give up when she give up -
if a guy really go for sex... I think multiple...until he finds another partner....Originally posted by viciouskitty74:You mean. After one sex session or multiple sex session?
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people
my thread is to help people to wake up to the fact the other person is not interested in them. -
that depends on the guys...how would i know..Originally posted by viciouskitty74:You mean. After one sex session or multiple sex session? -
hai..silly girls..Originally posted by darkensun:if a guy really go for sex... I think multiple...until he finds another partner.... -
get to the point lah.Originally posted by zeny:people
my thread is to help people to wake up to the fact the other person is not interested in them.
So you are saying. Your scenerio is
Mr Z likes Miss A.
Miss A bo hew Mr Z.
To what extent should MR Z wait for Miss A to obviously show her displeasure and MR Z can die heart? -
yeahOriginally posted by viciouskitty74:get to the point lah.
So you are saying. Your scenerio is
Mr Z likes Miss A.
Miss A bo hew Mr Z.
To what extent should MR Z wait for Miss A to obviously show her displeasure and MR Z can die heart?
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Originally posted by zeny:yeah
*really laughing at it* *serious* -
Originally posted by zeny:To those in love or going after someone who they think they are in love with.
When is the rite time to give up?
1) After a quarrel?
2) After she rejected you with sms?
3) After she rejected you with email?
4) After she rejected you with a letter?
5) After she rejected you by asking her friends to inform you?
6) After she is been seen giving another guy a kiss?
7) After she is been seen giving another guy a hugging?
8 ) After she is caught by you in bed with someone else?
9) After she slapped you?
10) She threw your present away in front of you?
11) She threw your present away in front of your friends?
12) She threw your present away in front of her friends?
13) After she had sex with you and say that you are loser?
14) After she told you that she is a lesbian?
15) When you feels that you no longer love her? -
Man only think about sex during in a relationship
woman think of romantic stuff during a relationship
give up the relationship, when you feel that she is not the right one for you~! -
Good question, VK. I am sure many have their own version of 'love' here. No one can really find the 'correct' definition of love here for whose or what standard we base love onto?Originally posted by viciouskitty74:BTW, can someone explain their own definition of love?
I know I based mine on the One I have faith in and loved, Christ Himself.
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I base love on what you are willing to do. to ensure your love ones are comfortable and happy.
even if it means losing him/her so that they can be happy. -
In AA some problems are very serious.Originally posted by viciouskitty74:
*really laughing at it* *serious*
To you is a simple thing but to others who love someone with all their hearts and is willing to go through extremes to get what they want is nothing to laugh about.
ok lets ask u then
when did you know when is the rite time to give up? -
have you done it before?Originally posted by viciouskitty74:I base love on what you are willing to do. to ensure your love ones are comfortable and happy.
even if it means losing him/her so that they can be happy. -
When the person you love, no longer needs your love.Originally posted by zeny:In AA some problems are very serious.
To you is a simple thing but to others who love someone with all their hearts and is willing to go through extremes to get what they want is nothing to laugh about.
ok lets ask u then
when did you know when is the rite time to give up? -
when you can't really it mentality...
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FF currency...Originally posted by zeny:
I think in all cases, a person should NEVER give up even when you have stated all the options and conditions. To me, giving up is akin to admiting losing and lose hope in the person or things.
There are some exceptions and different degrees of giving up.
Eg. You and another guy like this gal. Then the gal like the other guy and you know it. At this point you can choose to keep wooing her or 'give up'.
I want you to take note of this part of 'giving up' here. You know the guy like her and she like the guy. So common sense (if there is one) tells you that you should back off and wish them the best of luck here. In here you are giving up on 'wooing' her. You still have not gave up on being her friend or someone who loves her. Loving her as brother/sister or whatever.
My definition of giving up is when I lose TOTAL hope and faith in that person or something. What is described in the example is only changes and rearrangement. Or compromising if you like.
So from my stand, its NEVER give up. -
Yes.Originally posted by zeny:have you done it before?
But then. in this forum. personal experiences dont count. i was reprimanded several times that it instigate people to kill themself.