agony workmate.
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yeah she is so irritating , she disturb u, ask u to do things for her that she thinks she is the almightly one, she feel everybody is so scared and afraid of her, i just don't want to cos trouble or stir, so everybody gives alot of in to her, so she is hard headed now. she seem to get off, awaay with all her bad doing, even no one can say anything, wat am i supposeOriginally posted by honeymouse:Hey alba,
You're not alone there. I am in the same situation at the moment.... the worse thing is the ranking is different. The person is my new project manager. Ever since she came on board, we had 4 resignations.
In a way, I have been considering to resign too but hey, why should I? I will play along until I think there's no more opportunity for me in the company.
Everywhere you go, there will always be people like that. Don't let them make you lose a good job with good opportunity.
In your situation, since she's not your boss, just stand up for yourself. Ignore her, let her bark like a mad dog as much as she wants. When people start ignoring her and stop giving in to her "command", she will soon learn to shut up.
All the best there and cheer up eh!!
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the reason i wish to resign is becos just can't stand the bully. if only she keep quiet and leave us alone or just don't bother it is fine, i can forget,but she is like a ....hauting every moment, and make u feel so angry by asking to do her things when u just dont want to look at her and just don't wish to hv anything to do with her, and got to do for her actually it is a help but to her it is a must.i don't understand everyone seem to give her too much face and way. that is the problem. do u undersrtnad when u work together but u just feel so stress when tat ...is nearby, u just lost your mood, focus to do your work, no peace.
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Nope, you shouldn't be doing her work for her. You have your own work to do. Someone will have to be the first one to show her that she can't get away with bullying people at work.
Be strong Alba!
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i don't know why all theese ppl esp yr office ppl tht bitchy one lah, i don't know why i never bother her or kpo abt her life or things, but she is so kpo and want to attack, hantam me only, waiting for opportunity, to hurl remarks and condemn, they r always on the time to see yr performance even though they r not the boss, they r just ............
ok, this one, is so kpo, until if i go on leave or medical leave, this ppl will ask around and condemn like commenting i am not efficient worker taking leave and medical leave, and they spread the words around to make ppl see me like a failure or not efficient, they want ppl to see u down, why r they so black hearted and still survive, any retribution? it hurts, when like me i never bother abt wht they do or been, i am not interested, but they r always picking on ppl. i guess that is their attitude, they think they r too good or efficient when they carry their own shit on top of their head without realising it ha ha. they r so irritating, they did so much problems, and totally not efficient at all with so much mistakes, but they never realised. other ppl 's things they r so alert and want to dig it out. why r some ppl like that, so pathetic.sometimes i pited them, i wanna get angry but i just pited them and make me laugh realising that they carry their own shit but didn't know -
ts,
when I first joined my company, I was told by this admin manager that everyone have to help throw out the rubbish.
eventually when I actually started, then I realised she meant clearing all the bins in the company, and usually I am the only one doing.
and I dont mean paper bins.. there's leftover food in their bins.
i beared with it for a while, until one day I cant stand it any longer, I stopped clearing the bins, and dont use my own bin either. (i packed whatever trash I have into NTUC bags i bring specially to work and throw on my way home)
when she confronted me, i retorted: "i thought everyone have to help? then since I've done it for 2 months now, maybe it is your turn."
Then there is no longer such arrangement. We eventually hired a cleaning auntie.
what i want to say is... ignore her if you still can... when you cant, retaliate. what is the worst that can happen? quit the job! -
Try allying yourself with your other colleagues. Do your other colleagues oso find her irritating & troublesome? If so, all of you should join forces to tell her off! She has no place to stand if all the rest of you are united to ostracise her.
She'll know that she's unwelcome and may even leave in time to come...... -
too bad everybody hates her, but everybody is trying to please her and scared of her, and tried to be good to her likei did in the past, i treated her as a friend, but she betrayed me.Originally posted by :Try allying yourself with your other colleagues. Do your other colleagues oso find her irritating & troublesome? If so, all of you should join forces to tell her off! She has no place to stand if all the rest of you are united to ostracise her.
She'll know that she's unwelcome and may even leave in time to come......