I regret.....
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Don't worry, I've got a couple of nice Christian friends myself...Originally posted by soulwinner:yes.. but a good friend of Devil 1976??"
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No backup list?Originally posted by soulwinner:It a pirvate function that the client as for 5 staff to run in charge of the
food operation. If one is absent, the client then refuse to pay for
the pay of the another 4 staffs plus make a demand for some discount
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Be ready with a 'standby' backup list next time.. For those who is willing to be on urgent 'back up' list of course...? Especially for important events..
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No use.. I called him more than 20 times before work and ha didn't pick up..Originally posted by airgrinder:Speak to parents?? Really? Nowadays parents side their children one, look at our poor teachers.
Relax lah get so work up for what, not concerning u directly also.
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Backup is also used up on this particular day...Originally posted by Devil1976:No backup list?
Be ready with a 'standby' backup list next time.. For those who is willing to be on urgent 'back up' list of course...? Especially for important events.. -
...as in write number behind toilet doors....Originally posted by soulwinner:No use.. I called him more than 20 times before work and ha didn't pick up..
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AA forum has become a forum where people vent their personal vendetta.
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Wow, business must be good!Originally posted by soulwinner:Backup is also used up on this particular day... -
I think should at least try. But if the parents really condone such attitude and behaviour from their kid, or defend the kid when he's clearly in the wrong, then it explains why he is like that. But still, it is assuming that the parents would defend him.Originally posted by airgrinder:Speak to parents?? Really? Nowadays parents side their children one, look at our poor teachers.
Relax lah get so work up for what, not concerning u directly also.
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Then how come it failed you?Originally posted by soulwinner:Backup is also used up on this particular day... -
Sumone you sure comment as if you are directly involve in this
even though you do not know much about the incident
and i agree with GHoST_18Originally posted by GHoST_18:he shouldn't come in and explain to everyone since it's none of our biz...
the only person he owes an explanation is soulwinner...
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If its posted in a public forum, it becomes everybody's problem. hurhurhurOriginally posted by ghimpheng:Sumone you sure comment as if you are directly involve in this
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I think soulwinner has provided enough info. Also, certain things are in line with your past as well as recent behaviour. It's easy to comment because of the situation involved.Originally posted by ghimpheng:Sumone you sure comment as if you are directly involve in this
even though you do not know much about the incident
and i agree with GHoST_18
Soul_winner has already posted it on an open forum, so you cannot stop people commenting on it. I can understand why you would want this to be kept quiet.
Besides, I think soulwinner decided to come forth on a public forum about the kind of person you are because you have not been honest and forthcoming in your conversations with him As much as GHoST_18 has a point in saying you owe soulwinner an explanation and an apology, your very posts here show how unaplogetic as well. I dare say you've not made an apology or attempts at amends even to soulwinner directly off this forum.
Soulwinner has merely highlighted the kind of person you are, I believe he would not have been so angry to post in a public forum had you been more responsible and at the very least apologise for not turning up for a job. You have even come up with excuses and turned the blame on soulwinner. Shame on you really. 17 yr old yet you are still acting as if you were till a primary school kid. Past postings by yourself have also shown you are very full of yourself too and are not one to take rebuke well, unless maybe by your own parents.
GHoST_18 has a point, but I believe you yourself have not done your part in solving this privately hence soulwinner's frustration and anger at you. Posting on a public forum may not seem right to certain people, but it does not absolve you from the wrong you have done either. As certainly you still do not realise what you have done, or rather are not mature enough to take responsibility for it. Choosing to push the blame elsewhere, even to people who offered you a job in the first place.
What soulwinner now has done is to warn the online community or at least, people on sgforums itself the kind of integrity you have as a person. That is after repeated attempts by him to resolve it with you privately. And your replies right now go very far in proving the kind of person you are.
I admit I am basing on soulwinner's posts, but he has no reason now to slander you would he? Are you trying to say none of this happened? That you didn't fail to turn up for a job as promised? Did you even apologise for not turning up? I would have given you benefit of the doubt but your reply below shows how unapologetic you are towards the whole incident.
Most of us here were not directly involved, but it's quite obvious here whether this is a legitimate reason or simply an excuse. You know yourself which one it is. Be honest and take responsibility Ghimpheng.Originally posted by ghimpheng:you know why i never come or not ?
i keep asking you about the job scope and u keep reluctant to tell me what izzit about
so i tot it might be some illegal activity so i never go
i asked you about the job scope about 5 times
Even for a 17 yr old, your lack of maturity and sense of responsibility is appalling. What really disgusts me is even after all this, you are arrogant enough to think that you are in the right to boss people around. You think the world owes you a living? -
Let me ask you some questions thenOriginally posted by ghimpheng:Sumone you sure comment as if you are directly involve in this
even though you do not know much about the incident
and i agree with GHoST_18
1) Did you promise soulwinner to be available for a job?
2) Did you turn up for the job?
3) Why didn't you turn up for the job?
4) Have you tried to resolve the matter with soulwinner privately or at least apologise for not turning up?
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And you seem to be happy paying the $$ that you should not be paying in the first place ? What's up with you and yourOriginally posted by soulwinner:Forget about it..
Anyway a cheque of $500 have been already reach my client hand.. ? If I am in your shoes, I will be feeling 
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And apparently, Ghimpheng feels fine letting people pay that $500 for him, without even so much being sorry or feeling the least bit guilt about it. It's like his right that other people have to pay for trusting him. This kind of arrogance really disgusts me.Originally posted by Airbus330Captain:And you seem to be happy paying the $$ that you should not be paying in the first place ? What's up with you and your ? If I am in your shoes, I will be feeling instead of . -
Soulwinner, by this post, Ghimpheng is inferring that you have not been honest on your part. Is that true? Were there things about the job that he was prevented from knowing?Originally posted by ghimpheng:Sumone you sure comment as if you are directly involve in this
even though you do not know much about the incident
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How's he attacking you? To think at first you didn't name him..... You have been very kind to him it seems.Originally posted by soulwinner:oh i see... this bastard is attacking me..
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Let's focus on some questions.
1) Did soulwinner provide full details of the job?
2) Did ghimpheng agree to be available for the job?
3) Ghimpheng didn't turn up for the job, why?
4) Did Ghimpheng attempt to apologise for not turning up?
5) How did soulwinner try to resolve the matter with Ghimpheng?
6) How did Ghimpheng try to resolve the matter with soulwinner?
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IT is not.. I am just sharing my misery..Originally posted by ditzy:AA forum has become a forum where people vent their personal vendetta. 
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This is a major client, so I am thankful that $500Originally posted by Airbus330Captain:And you seem to be happy paying the $$ that you should not be paying in the first place ? What's up with you and your ? If I am in your shoes, I will be feeling instead of .
is enough to solve th problem..
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Originally posted by SumOne:
Refer to page 1 and you would see.. I highlight those thing that he need to know about the event. I did not keep thing from him... I even send him the detail by sms twice.. now I can't be bother with him..
[b]Let's focus on some questions.
1) Did soulwinner provide full details of the job?
2) Did ghimpheng agree to be available for the job?
3) Ghimpheng didn't turn up for the job, why?
4) Did Ghimpheng attempt to apologise for not turning up?
5) How did soulwinner try to resolve the matter with Ghimpheng?
6) How did Ghimpheng try to resolve the matter with soulwinner?
7) Why is soulwinner posting about this openly in a public forum?
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He is the one who ask me about the job I am offering ...
So there was apparently excuses that he slander me for
offering him an illegal job...
You know my company can sue his for "apppearing other
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Could I just ask why you are posting about this in a public forum?Originally posted by soulwinner:Refer to page 1 and you would see.. I highlight those thing that he need to know about the event. I did not keep thing from him... I even send him the detail by sms twice.. now I can't be bother with him.. -
I warn other of such irresponsible people who have in the forum...Originally posted by SumOne:Could I just ask why you are posting about this in a public forum? -
In what way was he irreponsible? Why not settle just with him directly?Originally posted by soulwinner:I warn other of such irresponsible people who have in the forum...
Your previously mentioned he's 'attacking' you. Can explain?