In Love With A Prostitute... The Story Continues
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You mean thai culture, its normal for the gals to make the guys full of confidence?Originally posted by fishylim:thai culture -
aiyoyo thambi... apa ini? wads tis?
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its been a terrible 6 mths. The on and off relationship with my Thai gf finally ended.
She just left SG last mth. And she left without saying goodbye or even a word. Felt cheated and devasted. I do miss her now. Don't even know where she is?
Is she going back into the same line in Bangkok? Will she heed my advice to start a biz? Will she remember me?
The memories of me and her will remain.
But I am feeling the heartache now. When will I find someone like her again? Will I ever see her again?
Can anyone help? -
no head no tail?
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I made a post already. Pls review.Originally posted by the.owl:no head no tail? -
Change country can??
Vietnam ones not bad oso...
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Whether the guy can accept that the girl is once a prostitue...
The story plot depend how the girl and guy want in the relationship
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My gal dun want me. How?Originally posted by Sakuraflower:Whether the guy can accept that the girl is once a prostitue...
The story plot depend how the girl and guy want in the relationship -
There's nothing you can do... I feel sorry for your situation, but there's nothing you can do once she's gone...
Try to get over it. You have to move on...
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How to help?Originally posted by The_Legend_Killer:its been a terrible 6 mths. The on and off relationship with my Thai gf finally ended.
She just left SG last mth. And she left without saying goodbye or even a word. Felt cheated and devasted. I do miss her now. Don't even know where she is?
Is she going back into the same line in Bangkok? Will she heed my advice to start a biz? Will she remember me?
The memories of me and her will remain.
But I am feeling the heartache now. When will I find someone like her again? Will I ever see her again?
Can anyone help?
WAKE UP and HELP YOURSELF. -
tis is when AA got no mod.Originally posted by mhcampboy:aiyoyo thambi... apa ini? wads tis?
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So you are in love.
Then why didnt you fly to thailand to find her?
Every woman, irregardless of their positions, status & lifestyle will want to be loved by someone.
And making an effort to show that love to be with her, instead of whining about it will definitely work better for you.
And if you want a real life example, here's one:
A man in his 30s, forsaked his family and went to thailand and acquired a prostitute as his companion in Thailand.
While in Thailand, he lost everything, becomes penniless and his Thai female companion went and apprentice herself to a hawker and learnt how to make bamboo rice.
So, the couple, made bamboo rice and peddled the bamboo rice at 10 baht a piece for sale in thailand on a rickety motorcycle cart. When they couldnt sell the bamboo rice, they eat the bamboo rice.
Eventually, the female prostitute got pregnant, and he eventually save up enough money to start a business.
Both him, ex-prostitute and their child are doing well finally in Thailand. -
Friend? You don't go to GL to look for friends.Originally posted by The_Legend_Killer:Finally I am awake from all the disillusions. The Thai gal is practically "charming" me to go back to see her time and time again.
What a good deal when a customer like me comes and finds her and do not ask for sex with her. I am a very good bait. I got this final wake up call, surprising from another Thai lady. She scolded me saying that they are very good in acting to lure their customers back.
I have not visited her for quite some time and we still talk on the phone. Finally, when I told her I will stop seeing her, she got so piss off that she slam the phone. I tried to test her back by calling her back to apologise. But she refuse to pick up and and sms me not to call her ANYMORE.
Sian. She is not even treating me as a friend.
All my good deed has gone down to the drains. I am not sad but very disappointed.
You have the cheek to talk about your good deeds?
Even if you did not ask for sex, you are as the same as the other guys there. You paid for intimacy.
Physical or emotional...it doesn't matter. That intimacy is not real. You should have known better.
They are service ladies!
You know what okts do nowadays once the Thai ladies come to our shore?
They give the girls a Thai - English dictionary. The service girls take note of all those short and simple English phrases like, "I miss you", "My day is not the same without you"
Then they mass sms to all their customers (esp. naive customers like you).
Naive customers who lost their girlfriends and are confused and easily deluded
Tell me honestly killer, do you still miss that girlfriend (I'm not talking about your tirak) of yours? Do you still hate her and can't get over the fact that you lost her?
If you are, go back to your first thread and look at what others wrote there. You did not move on. You are still at the same spot. -
woes of a cat 40 tirak
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But it will only happen one in a million cases. It is so rare. sigh. its too big a risk.Originally posted by viciouskitty74:So you are in love.
Then why didnt you fly to thailand to find her?
Every woman, irregardless of their positions, status & lifestyle will want to be loved by someone.
And making an effort to show that love to be with her, instead of whining about it will definitely work better for you.
And if you want a real life example, here's one:
A man in his 30s, forsaked his family and went to thailand and acquired a prostitute as his companion in Thailand.
While in Thailand, he lost everything, becomes penniless and his Thai female companion went and apprentice herself to a hawker and learnt how to make bamboo rice.
So, the couple, made bamboo rice and peddled the bamboo rice at 10 baht a piece for sale in thailand on a rickety motorcycle cart. When they couldnt sell the bamboo rice, they eat the bamboo rice.
Eventually, the female prostitute got pregnant, and he eventually save up enough money to start a business.
Both him, ex-prostitute and their child are doing well finally in Thailand. -
Maybe I am naive. Maybe I am stupid. But I love her looks and character.
They are service ladies!
You know what okts do nowadays once the Thai ladies come to our shore?
They give the girls a Thai - English dictionary. The service girls take note of all those short and simple English phrases like, "I miss you", "My day is not the same without you"
Then they mass sms to all their customers (esp. naive customers like you).
Naive customers who lost their girlfriends and are confused and easily deluded
Tell me honestly killer, do you still miss that girlfriend (I'm not talking about your tirak) of yours? Do you still hate her and can't get over the fact that you lost her?
If you are, go back to your first thread and look at what others wrote there. You did not move on. You are still at the same spot.[/b]
I do not miss that gf of mine anymore. She is history.
Actually i have forgotten the tirak, but when i found out she left me last mth, I felt an emptiness in me. -
Dear TS, dont you watch Moulin Rouge?
One of the lines in there is, 'Dont fall in love with a woman who sells herself. The ending is always bad.'
Seriously, these gals are just doing their jobs- that is, to please men. If you fall for them, you are dead coz they are,well, just doing their jobs.
I'm not an expert in this area, but well, my words are some food for thought -
But how do u explain the recent article on the SG man who rescue the Thai Working Gal?Originally posted by Jerina:Dear TS, dont you watch Moulin Rouge?
One of the lines in there is, 'Dont fall in love with a woman who sells herself. The ending is always bad.'
I understand, but i really want to go all the way to Thailand to look for her.
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Originally posted by The_Legend_Killer:its been a terrible 6 mths. The on and off relationship with my Thai gf finally ended.
She just left SG last mth. And she left without saying goodbye or even a word. Felt cheated and devasted. I do miss her now. Don't even know where she is?
Is she going back into the same line in Bangkok? Will she heed my advice to start a biz? Will she remember me?
The memories of me and her will remain.
But I am feeling the heartache now. When will I find someone like her again? Will I ever see her again?
Can anyone help?
The problem arises when you pay for sex and secretly demanded more out from this transaction. I strongly agree with CuriousOrange.
If it's true love we are talking about here, everything VK had mentioned should have materialised. You don't rant about love and not do anything about it - that's simply being melancholy.
I had a friend who is single, never had a relationship before, paid for sex and ended up trying to forge a relationship with this prostitute. He spent over thousands of dollars and even took leave to accompany her back home.
Eventually? Nothing came out of it.
You are playing with fire my friend.
Cheers -
I agree. I think i am just a pawn that she is playing with. Just don't understand why she do not love me or even care for me. For what I have done, she is just leaving for good. Why can't we maintain as friends? She just left SG without informing me or leave anything for me?Originally posted by Yunhaier: The problem arises when you pay for sex and secretly demanded more out from this transaction. I strongly agree with CuriousOrange.
If it's true love we are talking about here, everything VK had mentioned should have materialised. You don't rant about love and not do anything about it - that's simply being melancholy.
Cheers
Love is so cruel. Why? -
By doing lotsa things for another person or sacrificing a lot for another person does not necessary make that person love you. That is not love. if love works that way, how easy, aint it? Then love is not longer as sacred as it is anymore aint it?Originally posted by The_Legend_Killer:I agree. I think i am just a pawn that she is playing with. Just don't understand why she do not love me or even care for me. For what I have done, she is just leaving for good. Why can't we maintain as friends? She just left SG without informing me or leave anything for me?
Love is so cruel. Why?
Love is not cruel. It is beautiful and sweet.
You are the one being cruel to yourself, by loving someone who does not love you. -
Look at that part in red. I know your pattern already lah bro...Originally posted by The_Legend_Killer:Maybe I am naive. Maybe I am stupid. But I love her looks and character.
I do not miss that gf of mine anymore. She is history.
Actually i have forgotten the tirak, but when i found out she left me last mth, I felt an emptiness in me.
You are the type who will suppress your thoughts and keep saying you are feeling ok already....then 3 months later you will come back here again and tell us actuallly you are not ok.
You need to be honest with yourself.
If it's a sense of emptiness you are feeling...you need to deal with it NOW.
I have only one piece of advice for you.
Stop going to that house, stop going to GL altogether. That place is not for you.
There is absolutely no reason for you to be there anymore! Let this be the end.
You made your first mistake when you paid to talk to that tirak to fill up that void your ex-gf left behind.
That emptiness feels familiar doesn't it?
If you revisit GL, you are likely to repeat the same mistake again.
Life is short, you don't need all these drama in your life.
There are plenty of other things you should focus on. Once you find another direction in your life, that emptiness will go away.
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She left without even seeing the need to bid you goodbye.Originally posted by The_Legend_Killer:But how do u explain the recent article on the SG man who rescue the Thai Working Gal?
I understand, but i really want to go all the way to Thailand to look for her.
What can I do?
To her, all those talks, cuddles and hugs are strictly business.
There is no love involved. Forget those memories...please come back to reality!
You seriously think she cares whether you go all the way to Thailand or not? I think she will avoid you if you really go there and find her because you remind her of her past.
Spare a thought for the lady as well. Her new life has just began. If she doesn't want you to be part of it...you just have to accept and move on!
You are not some superhero destined to save sad little damsels in distress.
If there's someone that needs saving...it's yourself.
Sorry for being harsh. I want you start finding things you enjoy doing and truly move on.
Take care. -
Not sure.. I will ask a thai gal for you..