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Hi all I have a problem here. well actually its my grandfather. he has a fetish for our house's maid. whenever we change a new maid he will alway ask her to provide with him "extra service"
Our whole family know about this matter but as he is our elder, no one dare to say anything about it. i am scared that the maid might make a police report and our family will be in trouble!
Now i hope some of you can give me advice on how to ask my grandfather to stop this foolish act in a indirect way.
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MAKE HIM SEE A SHRINK!!!!!!!!!!!
try tactful method. cannot, show him newspaper reports. STILL cannot, sorry, employ a gal to dress up as a maid n entertain him lor..... ur senior cannot scold him or throw him out right??
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his old after all,theres nottin much u can do abit it?
how abt finding one super duper ugly fat maid,
maybe he won't feel it anymore? -
Yar, agreed. Find ugly/ fat maid. Total turn-off type
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actually we did try to find an ugly maid.. but as this is a newly employed maid so we cant change her as she is good also.. no matter how ugly the maid is he still will ask for them..
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kaka_lim
but we cant even bring up the subject to him let along ask him to go see a shrink...
well actually he know about all those newspaper thing and the consequences but maybe he is really too horny.. sighz.. he alway stay at home and strike when both of them are alone in the house. today the maid just cried and told my mum what happen.. we cant just bring him a gal so we just act we dont know anything.. it has happen lots of time already.. -
Respect is earned and not coz of his age.
Tell him off(ask somebody else if u cant).
Tell him he's gonna suffer sooner or later
and if he doesn't mind, turn a blind eye to it.
u can even report it to the police urself!
And just in case, dun stay at home alone wif him
if u care.
As ppl grow older and more experienced, they become 'champions'. They tot the world most likely revolve ard them. Such is the nature of humans... no cure... and i aint an exception. Just a matter of knowing and hiding it under the rug. -
wah.... rilly jiak lark ar.... turn off he oso want ar.... *headache*
Bluff him to see doctor, then ask the doctors to remove his balls. w/o his balls he wont be horny anymore... heheh
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he is the most senior in the family! so even my parents dare not tell him off.. he is a very nice old man just that this is the only problem he has with the family.. my father even buy him pets like birds and fish to keep him occupied. but he will still .....
we cant report him to the police... family affair.. so i am thinking of how to tell him.. my father dare not say a word so does my mum. so i guess this problem will have to go on untill he get older till he cant "stand" -
.....ur wish...Originally posted by bluegalz:he is the most senior in the family! so even my parents dare not tell him off.. he is a very nice old man just that this is the only problem he has with the family.. my father even buy him pets like birds and fish to keep him occupied. but he will still .....
we cant report him to the police... family affair.. so i am thinking of how to tell him.. my father dare not say a word so does my mum. so i guess this problem will have to go on untill he get older till he cant "stand"
an alternative to the a/m...
u can get those kinky things they sell, there's this kind of thing that feels like an 'oyster'. maybe can get him one...
but i doubt he will like it.
cmon face it, he's going to jail anytime now...if he doesn't stop...
if he's the good man he claims to be, he will listen and take measures to contain his urge... -
Yup, there are those fake pussy 'toys'... or those blow up dolls...
But I think no hope one lar... -
hw old is ur grand dad?
i tot guys too old wum b able to 'stand' ?? =PPpPPpPp den hw cum ur maid oso allow ler? dat v strange ler... 
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so wat if he's the most senior in the family? does committing a crime have a age limit? juz maybe he will be spared of the rod!! your maid is also a human being.... not your grandfather sex slave! have you ever thought of their feelings? Now part of the reason why you guys can't report to police is because your whole family will also be guilty of it! do you know its a crime too for not reporting him to the police when you all knew abt it? This is not the way to love a family member by letting him continue doing the wrong things.Originally posted by bluegalz:he is the most senior in the family! so even my parents dare not tell him off.. he is a very nice old man just that this is the only problem he has with the family.. my father even buy him pets like birds and fish to keep him occupied. but he will still .....
we cant report him to the police... family affair.. so i am thinking of how to tell him.. my father dare not say a word so does my mum. so i guess this problem will have to go on untill he get older till he cant "stand" -
simple!!! get a male nurse
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jeramy, u interested? hahahaOriginally posted by jeramy:simple!!! get a male nurse
who knows.... later male nurse he also want! -
actually he only request and ask for the services.. he never force himself on them.. cause after that he will pay them money.. he is 70+ this year.. since he never force himself on them and pay them money is this illegal?
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ah? then why the maid still cries? she can juz reject him rite? never force himself on them of cos not a crime lah.... treat him as prostitute only mah. but is the maid allowed to do dat? yucks... 70+ old man (no offence)Originally posted by bluegalz:actually he only request and ask for the services.. he never force himself on them.. cause after that he will pay them money.. he is 70+ this year.. since he never force himself on them and pay them money is this illegal? -
its the previous maid who did that then this new maid feel offened so she complain to my mum..Originally posted by e|mo:ah? then why the maid still cries? she can juz reject him rite? never force himself on them of cos not a crime lah.... treat him as prostitute only mah. but is the maid allowed to do dat? yucks... 70+ old man (no offence) -
aiyoh, so complicated... but even if he paid the maid... doesn't mean it's right.Originally posted by bluegalz:its the previous maid who did that then this new maid feel offened so she complain to my mum..
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Hi blueglaz,
Y not get yourslelf a new grandma ?
this may solve the root of the problem.... -
haha.. well my grandma is still alive! just that they are not on good terms.. so they live seperately.. my grandma is living with my uncle while my grandfather is living with me..Originally posted by greenpasture:Hi blueglaz,
Y not get yourslelf a new grandma ?
this may solve the root of the problem....
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dun hire maid loh...Originally posted by bluegalz:Hi all I have a problem here. well actually its my grandfather. he has a fetish for our house's maid. whenever we change a new maid he will alway ask her to provide with him "extra service"
Our whole family know about this matter but as he is our elder, no one dare to say anything about it. i am scared that the maid might make a police report and our family will be in trouble!
Now i hope some of you can give me advice on how to ask my grandfather to stop this foolish act in a indirect way.
thanks
hehe..
or hire an ugly maid..=p
Givache -
hahhahah hire those ah sohs la something like housekeeper like thatOriginally posted by Givache:dun hire maid loh...
hehe..
or hire an ugly maid..=p Givache -
no lah i think i prefer u lah wahahhahha elmo so cuteeeee....Originally posted by e|mo:jeramy, u interested? hahaha
who knows.... later male nurse he also want!
wah elmo i peifu u, u join later than me but post 500 liao HOW U MANAGED THAT??? wahhhahahhah
u sit whole day at the comp and just keep posting ar? JUS JOKIN -
becareful...later we will read this in the paper..........