Originally posted by Tyris=Flare:
This is really headache sia...
I have to look at the whole family: You get along with your Grandfather? If so it should be easier: just kindly advise him, tell him consequences, not to ruin his life etc... something like asking him to quit smoking... Grandparents on the whole dotes on grandchildren, so it might be possible to strike gold if this is the situation.
If possible, ask him to join the "le lin" club. That should keep him busy enough to keep dirty thoughts off the maid.
Er.... if both of you all are on rocky terms, theres no harm in advising also... but your family will have a "conscience heart" to report to the proper authorities if anything nasty happens...
Seriously, I also very struck... If my advice can help you, then great. Else.... I also don't know... sorry.
thanks for your advice... well i get along quite well with my grandfather but seldom communicate.. he actually does not know that the whole family know about this matter as we act ignorant and i am not in a position to say anything to him. all the advice i seen is to talk to him about this matter but how to start??? and who to say?? this is the problem i am facing right now.. as u all know its easy to say but difficult to put words into action! sighz.. how to start the conversation... well.. so for now maybe we wont leave him alone with the maid cause he will request only when nobody is at home..