Diam diam also got wrong.
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Early in the morning I sit at living room sofa. My aunt find her sibei busy husband go my room trying to change the damn tv. I walk to room ask why must change. She say my small aunt need that tv so need change to another one. I think how problematic is my small aunt who insist on changing the god damn tv TODAY and so I have this buey song look on my face while thinking where to place the Big TV set as my room got no table big enough for it. I was stading there thinking for a short moment as I need to figure it out where to place that BIGGG TV as my gf is coming my hse later on.
My gf reached and I sms her to wait outside till the changing of dumb TV is done. Den I sit at sofa diam diam. Never ask them to hurry up and change the tv or wad. Just sit there nicely wait for them to change. Den she blardy hell keep on ask/shout whether I want to use com anot, whether I want to slp anot, if want just come in wun disturb until me(She got freaking loud voice). Den I shout back dunid(Shout cuz I at god damn living room.)
Den duno wtf is wrong with her still keep on repeat say want use com come use etc etc. Den my ah ma on wheelchair go to living room see me sit there do nth. She go back to room tell my aunt say my gf is coming.My aunt then say'SAY LA,GOT COME SAY MA'
Den its ok for me one lor so i say "NVM NVM, CONTINUE CONTINUE"(Loud cuz she was loud too)Den blardy hell come kpkb to me say I shout so loud for wad. Den I say back loudly too, NVM JUST CONTINUE(Trying to stop this thnig). Den she walk out kpkb here kpkb there.Keep on sticking to her "GF COME SAY LAAAA, SO NOT HAPPY FOR WAD, FACE MUST SO UNHAPPY??"
I den reply "I SAY NVM LIAO, U TWO CONTINUE, I SIT HERE NV SAY ANYTHING THEN U TWO CONTINUE LAA"
I was at fault for shouting. But knn early in the morning kpkb so loudly and trying to find fault with me when all I did was to fcking sit there diam diam.
Den we two kp here kb there, i say "U WIN LIAO LA, U WIN THE ARGUEMENT OK, MY FAULT"
then she further more kpkb here and there regarding my lj face. She then go back room fix back the small tv and kpkb back to her room say want find my lao bei settle.
"Settle ki lan", I thought.
Den can hear her kpkb in her room and cry for duno wad fck.
Lao Bei call me and I thought, hey, I didnt start this shyt ok, and I explain to him.
Knn that lao jiao say "NW U LIVING AT OTHER PPL HOME, MUST BE POLITE. UR AUNT SAY SHE TAHAN U VERY LONG LIAO. IF U GO AH MA HSE(Mother side) STAY U WILL BE TREATED LYK DOG. I 14 YEAR OLD COME OUT WORK ALREADY, U 18 YR OLD DUNO DO WAD SHYT"
Hello, you giving me money and you want me to go work? Think I siao or wad? Free money take leh uncle.ccb want me work dun give me money and kpkb la, buey song gif me gum lan ah.
And my aunt, tahan me gum lan, not happy say la, early in the morning find lj fault with me.
Then go cousin blog find her toking abt this shyt say I ill-mannered dun appreciate everything the family do for me.
Eh wtf. I sit there diam diam duno who find fault with me. Suddenly I got jerked up and argue with my aunt nia and I become ill-mannered.
I know I shout is my fault. but wth why find me trouble for no reason. And I shout only after she ouuta no shyt keep on irritate me with her annoying questions/askings/sayings.My face also not unhappy abt my aunt but my smaller aunt also got wrong. I ask them to continue also got wrong. My gf coming didnt tell them also I wrong. I nice nice ask my gf wait outside dunwan disturb them work also got wrong. All listen to my aunt who can tok story until she win.
PCB!!
Then my father call and ask me go say sorry. No matter what she is still older than me.
But wth la, first time im so defensive with myself ok, really is outta nth find me trouble one lor, want me say sorry? Soh lj!
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Silence is also a form of communication.
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I tried to keep silence when she ask me those stuffs. But she keep on asking and I got irritated by her and so I reply her loudly(due to buey songness and Im in the living room and I need to cover over her voice)
The rest is all caused of feeling malign, out of nth kena all these shyt and got jerked up -
Most of the time, it does not mean that keeping quiet will solve matters. It may just help to disappear totally, rather than staying around and showing a pissed face.
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just let them say what they want lo
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I didn't show that face on purpose. I was trying hard to think where to place tat TV set. And I wasn't piss with my aunt, I was pissed with my small aunt. My aunt may tot that I'm pissed with her but I just walk to the sofa and sit down.(Sofa is behind the wall, not facing her direction so I wun be showing her my face)
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u could have gone out with ur gf to avoid all these..
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Don't underestimate the powerful aura of silence. You still don't get it yet huh?Originally posted by lihuanlo1988:I didn't show that face on purpose. I was trying hard to think where to place tat TV set. And I wasn't piss with my aunt, I was pissed with my small aunt. My aunt may tot that I'm pissed with her but I just walk to the sofa and sit down.(Sofa is behind the wall, not facing her direction so I wun be showing her my face)
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Ya, I always ignore stuffs like this and im known being a happy go lucky guy, got problem I also ignore but this time really is kena a gun shot at me for nth lor. the feeling is so freaking badOriginally posted by gigabyte14:just let them say what they want lo
ignorance is bliss. -
I planned to watch DVD with her and Im short of cash this week =(Originally posted by browniebaobao:u could have gone out with ur gf to avoid all these.. -
well, if you just keep quiet they won't have anything to scold u liao rite?Originally posted by lihuanlo1988:Ya, I always ignore stuffs like this and im known being a happy go lucky guy, got problem I also ignore but this time really is kena a gun shot at me for nth lor. the feeling is so freaking bad -
bring her to nearby coffeeshop or neighbourhood walk walk lor..Originally posted by lihuanlo1988:I planned to watch DVD with her and Im short of cash this week =(
after abt 1 hour or so, go home lor. -
I don't ._. meaning I hafta keep quiet till the end?Originally posted by Rock^Star:Don't underestimate the powerful aura of silence. You still don't get it yet huh? -
I keep quiet she sure say stuffs like "U DUMB AH,REPLY ME" kinda stuffOriginally posted by gigabyte14:well, if you just keep quiet they won't have anything to scold u liao rite? -
lol so sian. No chance to go walk walk also mar, unless is b4 the arguement. But I want to wait leh but still kena this thing, haizOriginally posted by browniebaobao:bring her to nearby coffeeshop or neighbourhood walk walk lor..
after abt 1 hour or so, go home lor. -
Silence can be powerful if you use it well. It can also work against you. Once you understand how others around you perceive silence, you can use it to your advantage.Originally posted by lihuanlo1988:I don't ._. meaning I hafta keep quiet till the end?
Imo, keeping quiet on the sofa while doing nothing, your aunt saw it as a form of rebellious demonstration. She felt threatend and had to size you up. Obviously, you had no idea of the effect of your silence on your aunt. -
pardon me for asking, answer if u dun mind..Originally posted by lihuanlo1988:lol so sian. No chance to go walk walk also mar, unless is b4 the arguement. But I want to wait leh but still kena this thing, haiz
why are u staying with ur aunt? -
Then I think there's smthing wrong with her perception of my silence being a rebel act. It's not right for her to start this arguement base on that only.
and thats pretty unfair to me when all I hope for is to let them finish that thing asap without any troubles. Well, life's unfair, what to do~
Guess in thier mindset I'll be the ill-mannered ass who is trying to move out. People just love one sided story~ -
Parent divorce and my father and mom want to live alone lol. Pretty hard to be living in other people's territory..as how my father put it~Originally posted by browniebaobao:pardon me for asking, answer if u dun mind..
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That's why she kept hinting you to "xxxx off" right?Originally posted by lihuanlo1988:Then I think there's smthing wrong with her perception of my silence being a rebel act. It's not right for her to start this arguement base on that only.
and thats pretty unfair to me when all I hope for is to let them finish that thing asap without any troubles. Well, life's unfair, what to do~
Guess in thier mindset I'll be the ill-mannered ass who is trying to move out. People just love one sided story~
Maybe you need to look for a home elsewhere? Domestic troubles can only spell unhappiness.....you know like.....cannot even hang around at home in peace. -
guess as much..Originally posted by lihuanlo1988:Parent divorce and my father and mom want to live alone lol. Pretty hard to be living in other people's territory..as how my father put it~
y not u and ur dad go rent a flat? -
Dude. mai huanlo already. I know its hard on you to live there. Sometimes friend by your side can share problem de. =) Just ring us up. Other than S. think the other 2 will be there de =) No more hard feelings. Jiayou. you got us as ur support!
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Yeah.. that's why I looking for room to rent.
My dad will scold me for doing that. He look down on me in everything. That's why I have to do these myself. My younger brother O lvl 9 pts and got work so he very satisfied with him but not me. My plan was to work only after I finished my NS as I know how boring and dull working is. After ns = work for life until retirement which is very sad imo. So I didnt really go out to work and hope to enjoy life with my father's 'donation' until Im done with my ns(And I'll start working with the cert/hobby/wadeva I have). And I'm eligible for Poly too, Im in ITE becuz I failed my Eng the 1st time, and after retaking it, I manage to go off with D7 and L1R4 20pts and I can get into poly. But I didn't as I dunwan to stop smthing halfway and its possible to proceed to poly from ITE too.
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LOL u got sgforum acc lmao.Originally posted by kalach:Dude. mai huanlo already. I know its hard on you to live there. Sometimes friend by your side can share problem de. =) Just ring us up. Other than S. think the other 2 will be there de =) No more hard feelings. Jiayou. you got us as ur support!
Yang me leh =x -
just like the trailer for the new ch 8 show says: 'men are scared of women noisy, women are scared of men quiet.'