Diam diam also got wrong.
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Don't lie la! you miss us, cant bear to leave us to Poly, so u decided to stay in ITE with us! You cannot lie to me!Originally posted by lihuanlo1988:Yeah.. that's why I looking for room to rent.
My dad will scold me for doing that. He look down on me in everything. That's why I have to do these myself. My younger brother O lvl 9 pts and got work so he very satisfied with him but not me. My plan was to work only after I finished my NS as I know how boring and dull working is. After ns = work for life until retirement which is very sad imo. So I didnt really go out to work and hope to enjoy life with my father's 'donation' until Im done with my ns(And I'll start working with the cert/hobby/wadeva I have). And I'm eligible for Poly too, Im in ITE becuz I failed my Eng the 1st time, and after retaking it, I manage to go off with D7 and L1R4 20pts and I can get into poly. But I didn't as I dunwan to stop smthing halfway and its possible to proceed to poly from ITE too.
Too him no wrk + ITE = Leech sucking his money and wasting time away. -
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x2Originally posted by kalach:Dude. mai huanlo already. I know its hard on you to live there. Sometimes friend by your side can share problem de. =) Just ring us up. Other than S. think the other 2 will be there de =) No more hard feelings. Jiayou. you got us as ur support!
wait...whose the other 2?
confirm not me de
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lol, B.E.D.S
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=) Common. tell us the truth. u cant run away with just that lame sign!
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if my parents are the one moving tv in the room
and i come in, LOOK ONLY, then go out to living room sit there
NEVER HELP I will also get scolded
u 18 years old, ur auntie uncle so much older
just help la, help liao everything done faster
everyone happy
sometimes u also can contribute to making the environment a little better. -
OHHH!!!! Puppy. LOLS. got any job to intro mahx? Both of us need money for a living!
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depends wat kind u wantOriginally posted by kalach:OHHH!!!! Puppy. LOLS. got any job to intro mahx? Both of us need money for a living!
since u 2 always gay de...i reccomend geylang or changi
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err.. cannot. i dun do things that betray Xiaoyi nor Sarah nor maybe Hannah
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u dun let them know can leOriginally posted by kalach:err.. cannot. i dun do things that betray Xiaoyi nor Sarah nor maybe Hannah
p.s: this is the net..so wat u type..ppl will know hor
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nahx. I m a noob here. nobody know what I am toking. Muahahahahah. I need a job. so does him!
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TS life sound difficult. gud luk to you.
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your family reminds me of a family in our blk, everything must shout n talk loudly, then all the colorful words fly around like nobody biz. the family got 2 very small kids, i really pity the 2 kids as you know wat will happen when they grow up
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seriously
you should post at whinehouse -
here.....let me rephrase that advise for your situation.
TEENAGERS,
TIRED OF BEING HARRASSED
BY
YOUR STUPID ELDERS?
ACT NOW!
MOVE OUT, GET A JOB,
PAY YOUR OWN BILLS,
WHILE YOU STILL KNOW EVERYTHING! -
Yeah, gona do that~
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i see dat sign b4 dunno where..
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hello...
u're only 18 n u think u know everything???
u're still immatured...
n know y i said dat?
dat's cos i've been thru ur stage...
don't think i say it bcos i haven't go thru it...
i was rebellious once...
i was disrepectful once...
i tot i know everything...
but the farkin actual fact is...
i DON'T...
it's all bcos of ur farkin attitude...
if ur attitude is better...
nothin of dis sort would have happened...
hw would it have been better?
hw about walkin to ur room n tell them "it's ok"
or walk to ur room n help them...
have u ever tot abt ur father's sentence of 14yrs old come out work?
have u ever tot abt hw hard ur father's life was without education?
have u ever tot abt hw hard ur father's life was to come out work at 14??
rite now u're takin everythin for granted...
him givin u money is bcos he cares for u...
he doesn't need to give a flyin fark to u if u not his son...
but bcos he don't wana farkin givin u a farkin hard life n ask u go work by urself...
though he has farkin neglected u in a way...
look at another side...
he is A MAN!!!
he can't shower u with MOTHERLY love...
he's still playin 2roles of parentin...
ur aunty probably just wana let u have a bigger TV to watch or...
she just wan a smaller TV...
so wat were u tryin to say abt no space to put?
u mean they still have to think for u where to put it?
can't u just think of a way?
u mean they still need to BUY somethin for u to put the TV on???
pls lah...
HARD EARNED MONEY!!!
ur father put u there so dat they cn take care of u...
ur father put u there bcos there are females ard to at least provide u with motherly love...
ur father put u there bcos he don't wan u to suffer...
have u tot abt that?
everyone does things for a reason...
not sayin the reason doesn't mean UNREASONABLE...
have u ever ask ur grandma or aunty/uncle if they mind ur gf comin over?
it's their hse after all...
just a simple qns like dat shows hw much respect u have for them...
i'm farkin tellin u now is bcos i almost did a mistake in the past...
i don't wan u to farkin step into dis path...
zhu4 zai4 fu2 zhong1 bu4 zhi1 fu2
know wat dis means? know rite?
but i doubt u understand it...
u think movin out shows u very macho??
pls lah...
don't make urself suffer lah...
let me just ask u dis qns...
ever wonder what ur father wants/needs from u??
and if u're a farkin gangster...
let me ask u dis...
wat is the first law of gangster...
if u can't ans it...
STFU n fark off from gang...
it's ppl dat don't understand the laws of gangsters make ppl of the society thinks that gangster r trouble makers, small time ah beng n watsoever...
farkin flame me if u think i'm wrong...
if not...
just think about it... -
can summarise into words between 50 and 100?
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me??Originally posted by Ito_^:can summarise into words between 50 and 100?
erm...
ooppss...
didn't realise it was so long...
haha...
summarise ah...
ok...
respect the elders...
cos u do not know wat kinda shit they've been thru b4 to provide u with dis life...
if ur life is hard...
bcos of them...
work hard cos they tried to work hard for u...
it's the tot that matters...
not just the action... -
Knows what threadmaster going through.My mum also like to kbkb me .. makes me fcuked up and irritated.Oh well
Having such a fking aunt you cant do anything bout it . Best of luck . -
Little brudder, your aunt sounds very lonely.. seems like got alot of other personal problems. Maybe she cry not just coz of ur actions, but also coz of other problems / relationships in her life that she can't solve rite now.. when u argue with her, she feel u are ungrateful & dun respect her... it's like adding to her problems so she got upset & cried.
It's not your fault if she has other probs, but since she's helping you by letting you stay with her, just tahan lor... be nicer to her once in a while, earn her respect ... small things like ask her whether she eat oredi, smile more, laugh at her jokes (even if they're not funny), da pao food for her, apologize... it's a sweet deal - if you make her happy, she will try to make u happy.
Relax, dun let urself get angry.. learn to forgive & forget.. Wad u learn from handling your family members now, u can apply to your future career de
Trust me, it's an important lesson... -
if mi,
go out liao -
arr....okay okay...xiong di bui yao ze me ji dong mah...this young man needs to grow up by himself.....i was once like him but then been thru ns and post-ns life...i realised that there are a lots of things that young people need to know themselves and experience themselves so that they can learn better....is it same like people teach u theory of some thing and u never do practical how r they gonna learn....life lessons are priceless because people who know abt sheng cun zhi dao the satisfaction they got is priceless.....another thing to TS is that by looking and not helping will make people hate u....soon ur gonna ns and i gonna tell u...continue be like that u will make ya ns life miserable as ya nsf mate will hate u and ya sergeants and officers zheng dui ni...do u wanna be a pathetic target board like those in SAFTI shooting range being 'shooted' at all the time or u just wanna serve and fuck off peacefully...the choice is yours my fren...Originally posted by RiverFoX:hello...
u're only 18 n u think u know everything???
u're still immatured...
n know y i said dat?
dat's cos i've been thru ur stage...
don't think i say it bcos i haven't go thru it...
i was rebellious once...
i was disrepectful once...
i tot i know everything...
but the farkin actual fact is...
i DON'T...
it's all bcos of ur farkin attitude...
if ur attitude is better...
nothin of dis sort would have happened...
hw would it have been better?
hw about walkin to ur room n tell them "it's ok"
or walk to ur room n help them...
have u ever tot abt ur father's sentence of 14yrs old come out work?
have u ever tot abt hw hard ur father's life was without education?
have u ever tot abt hw hard ur father's life was to come out work at 14??
rite now u're takin everythin for granted...
him givin u money is bcos he cares for u...
he doesn't need to give a flyin fark to u if u not his son...
but bcos he don't wana farkin givin u a farkin hard life n ask u go work by urself...
though he has farkin neglected u in a way...
look at another side...
he is A MAN!!!
he can't shower u with MOTHERLY love...
he's still playin 2roles of parentin...
ur aunty probably just wana let u have a bigger TV to watch or...
she just wan a smaller TV...
so wat were u tryin to say abt no space to put?
u mean they still have to think for u where to put it?
can't u just think of a way?
u mean they still need to BUY somethin for u to put the TV on???
pls lah...
HARD EARNED MONEY!!!
ur father put u there so dat they cn take care of u...
ur father put u there bcos there are females ard to at least provide u with motherly love...
ur father put u there bcos he don't wan u to suffer...
have u tot abt that?
everyone does things for a reason...
not sayin the reason doesn't mean UNREASONABLE...
have u ever ask ur grandma or aunty/uncle if they mind ur gf comin over?
it's their hse after all...
just a simple qns like dat shows hw much respect u have for them...
i'm farkin tellin u now is bcos i almost did a mistake in the past...
i don't wan u to farkin step into dis path...
zhu4 zai4 fu2 zhong1 bu4 zhi1 fu2
know wat dis means? know rite?
but i doubt u understand it...
u think movin out shows u very macho??
pls lah...
don't make urself suffer lah...
let me just ask u dis qns...
ever wonder what ur father wants/needs from u??
and if u're a farkin gangster...
let me ask u dis...
wat is the first law of gangster...
if u can't ans it...
STFU n fark off from gang...
it's ppl dat don't understand the laws of gangsters make ppl of the society thinks that gangster r trouble makers, small time ah beng n watsoever...
farkin flame me if u think i'm wrong...
if not...
just think about it... -
Sometimes you gotta learn.
Learn to keep quiet AND LISTEN. Dont think that this world revolves about you alone. Being an angry kid brings you nowhere.
I want to talk some sense into you. I thought I could. I thought if everyone else couldnt, I could. Because I am (was, if you insist) your gf. But I guess I cant.
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This is the only way I can communicate with you without having any arguments. So many things to tell you yet I have no choice but to do this.
( And on another side notice, look at the way you are treating me now. )
If you wana tell me that I dont understand how you feel right now, then I guess you are wrong. Do you remember the times I complained that my family members always picked on me for being rude? There was once,my bro even slapped me. I hated the family so much I wanted to leave. That night, I would have really walked out of that damn door and never go back if you agreed to come out and meet me yet you told me to stay and go to bed. You added that if they came to picked on me, stay silent.
I did. And now I am telling you the same.
I know you tried. Everytime I was at your house, I never left without hearing you people scream at each other. You told me it was a form of communication, yeah fine. Then all the more you ought to have been used to the high decibels.
Your dad placed you in that house. Surely he has a reason for it. Have you ever thought of it? He could have just rented a one-room flat and allowed you to stay there by yourself like you told me before. But he cared for your food, laundry etc. He knew you couldnt take care of yourself. He entrusted you into your aunty. Since then, she played that role of being your 'parent'.
You think its easy. Its like having another mouth to feed all of a sudden. Worse still, not even her own child. Her brother's child. She could have disagreed to let you stay with her. She didnt. She cared. Even if it was for the money that your father gave her each month, she could have just taken the money and ill-treat you. Afterall, your dad wouldnt know.
She didnt. You stayed in her house for how long? 5 years?
Moreover, like what spinsugar has mentioned, your aunt could be vexed about something else before arguing with you. If you have the rights to be angry, then she has the rights too.
By trying to venture out in that comfort zone of yours, dont you think its just mere stupidity? You are actually living a house that has practically everything. Food, Computer, Ps2, moral support etcetc...Best of it all, you have all the freedom you ever wanted.
Compare your situation with your brother's. You told me that he has little freedom and is forced to study. Which will you prefer? Being free to do whatever you want or forced to do what you hate?
I know I might be repeating myself here because I told you this before. But I guess some things need to be emphasized.
I dont look down on you. And I wont. Because I love you.
I know you have the ability to multi-task. But I dont want you to stress yourself up between work, studies and then income. You will be too tired to do anything else and your life will be even more mundane. You mentioned somewhere in this thread that you know how dull and boring working is. Then why not enjoy yourself now rather than make a decision that will totally oppose your initial plan?
WHY MAKE YOURSELF SUFFER?
And it is not as if your aunt took a broom and chase you out, kept your clothes in a luggage and threw it outside the house or even change the padlock right.
I am sure those words she said are just anger words lah...
If you are really hard up on leaving that house, then do it only when you are an adult. Not physically, but mentally. Afterall you know that you will leave that house one day. (And then we will fly to CHINA and leave happily ever after. Teeheehee )
But the time aint ripe. Wait for me k! next time I stay with you =x
Imagine returning to a house when you know there's only you? Imagine having problems yet no one to talk to? Imagine having to settle your food all by yourself? Imagine going to sleep without anybody in the house and then knowing it will be the same when you wake up?
I've gone through all that. You know it. There was one period, my bro and dad were barely at home. My sis and mum were overseas. Returning home from school was one of the saddest thing to do. I hated it.
You havent even reached the legal age for renting a house. So what?...You gona stay with Amos? Wont you feel bad for putting up at his house? Somemore he is just a friend..(Heheehe we are not hor.) How long can he take you in? Until you are 21? Without charging? I doubt.
The purpose of this is not to further continue our argument. I dont plan to insult/embarress you in any way. And I am just speaking from a neutral point of view.
I am not totally against you. (If you think I am) I just think its not the right time ok..
I will stand by your side for any decision you make.
But since there are more advantages than disadvantages + the people here are asking you to learn to forgive and forget. What for continue doing the wrong thing?
Seriously...Go think about it. I guess the majority cannot be wrong.
If there was one thing that your father ever wanted from you, I bet he hoped that you did well for your studies.
Bye. The best thing I ask from you is at least listen and accept what I have to say. Rather than insist that I am against you. Sadness.
(PS : I created this account SOLELY for you ok. I never posted here before, if this turns out wrongly, I am sorry.)