What should I do ?
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If I have a female friend who is going to hurt herself
because she did badly for a test
A big fight occur in her family
All her close friend left her
She is single and currently in a pre u ...
What can I do to help her???
I am very confused now... -
Be her friend lor.. be her listening ear lor.. be her pillar of support lor..
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I have been doing..Originally posted by Gackt247:Be her friend lor.. be her listening ear lor.. be her pillar of support lor..
I am afraid that she might be emotionally attrached to me..
I have been seeing her out of concern frequently.. -
wah.. den u put it very clearly tt u are there for her as a concerned friend.Originally posted by soulwinner:I have been doing..
I am afraid that she might be emotionally attrached to me..
I have been seeing her out of concern frequently.. -
I saw her new wound in her stomach today..Originally posted by Gackt247:wah.. den u put it very clearly tt u are there for her as a concerned friend.
I really pity her..
such a nice and sweet gal... -
Maybe I should allow her to cut me...
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cutting oneself will be a passing phase. it will stop at some ptt of time. but why not earlier. be there for her. persuade her not to self-mutilate herself.
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Can't sleep now..
Must give her a call..
Thought of sending her to sch.. : -
I don't understand why some nice gal like to do this..Originally posted by Gackt247:cutting oneself will be a passing phase. it will stop at some ptt of time. but why not earlier. be there for her. persuade her not to self-mutilate herself. -
But I am confused whether is this a right time...
I have a gf... -
I am a trained counsellor...
But I never handle gal case before... 
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Walao.. u only treat her as a fren right? Den it's ok u show concer to her.. she needs it. But u have to be clear tt u are only acting in good faith bcoz u care for her as a fren.
If u r attracted to her den tt's another matter. But i feel it's not the time to stir in r/s stuff. Only make things more complicated. -
Thank for a word of concern...Originally posted by Gackt247:Walao.. u only treat her as a fren right? Den it's ok u show concer to her.. she needs it. But u have to be clear tt u are only acting in good faith bcoz u care for her as a fren.
If u r attracted to her den tt's another matter. But i feel it's not the time to stir in r/s stuff. Only make things more complicated.
I am faithful to my gf.. -
aiya..
ur fren is juz complicating the mess she's already in. make her aware of tt. guide her so tt she'll learn to manage her problems objectively and learn to take things with a pinch of salt.
good luck for ur fren.
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Dear lord Jesus...
Why have you forsaken my friend qianqi?
I am helpless now but Lord i know u love her..
I pray that you restore peace in her, comfort her..
Reveal you unfailing love to her
Father I pray protect her through this night till I am home with you
Lord protect me from all evil thought and deliver you goodness...
I the mighty Lord JESUS I prayed.. Amen...
I prayer for her until i am home with the Lord.. -
Very hard... She's is Over stress..Originally posted by Gackt247:aiya..
ur fren is juz complicating the mess she's already in. make her aware of tt. guide her so tt she'll learn to manage her problems objectively and learn to take things with a pinch of salt.
good luck for ur fren. -
I should maybe bring her to my house
and get my maid to look after her...
They will at least lighten my worried.. -
now now.. tt's going over board n out of ur way.. i duno la.. u juz do wat u feel is right.Originally posted by soulwinner:I should maybe bring her to my house
and get my maid to look after her...
They will at least lighten my worried.. -
hmmm...i hope ur worry is true...
if u bring this gerl to ur house....u noe u r lokking for trouble...
first ur gf will suspect u, and den u two might develop feeling forone another...
Really, u as a counsellor pls use ur head and not ur heart....
caring for her and handpecking her is diff issue...
wake up b4 sumthing happens. -
i agree.. not proper to bring her to ur place.Originally posted by firediviner:hmmm...i hope ur worry is true...
if u bring this gerl to ur house....u noe u r lokking for trouble...
first ur gf will suspect u, and den u two might develop feeling forone another...
Really, u as a counsellor pls use ur head and not ur heart....
caring for her and handpecking her is diff issue...
wake up b4 sumthing happens. -
I have sent my driver and maid to pick her out from sch...
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I made me so that I lost my sleep yesterday..
Just don't want to see a friend died around me.. -
I think you must try to contact her close friends that she is having some sorts of problems and really need their help to help her through this..
More helping hands is better than 1 and you are a guy some things is hard to do when you both are different gender..And if you are too good to her maybe she will Misunderstands that you like her or she will fall in love with you..
And when that happens i know you trying to help but by the time you will make things more complicated ^^~~=P i Know your Sincere on Helping..Just do a friend Does
dont do extras^^
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Most of her friend are scared of her now..
She just cut one of her friend hand while she is trying to help...
Now... the issues turn very complicated..
I spoke her parents they replied " If you care so much then marry her".
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Have a heart-to-heart talk with her. If time allow, lent her your shoulder.