What should I do ?
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sent in a female trained counsellor to help out.Originally posted by soulwinner:I am a trained counsellor...
But I never handle gal case before...
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No point being furious some parents are like that.Originally posted by soulwinner:Most of her friend are scared of her now..
She just cut one of her friend hand while she is trying to help...
Now... the issues turn very complicated..
I spoke her parents they replied " If you care so much then marry her".
I am very furious now with this type of parental behaviour..
I do not have much data to help can provide me some more info.
1) What type of girl is she?
2) Is her family rich or poor?
3) what is the main cause of problem? -
You tell her parents She is starting to hurt herself Whats next after hurt?Suicide?
So when her daughter die they also dont care?I dont believe any parents would
do that if seriously they dont be bother i have nothing to say..
Close friends scare of her just because one of them is hurt..?whats close friend and friend for..?Whats so special between close friend and just friends..
You tell all her close friends one day if anything happen to her will they regret on not helping her..?Just because one of them are hurt maybe just a cut...? -
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hand her to your fellow counsellors who have more experience lorOriginally posted by soulwinner:I am a trained counsellor...
But I never handle gal case before... -
I only afraid that she might fall in love with me..Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:Have a heart-to-heart talk with her. If time allow, lent her your shoulder. -
very hard...Originally posted by zeny:sent in a female trained counsellor to help out.
This is some form of depression that need love.. -
she is a nice , gentle , like to keep thing to herself and lonely gal..Originally posted by zeny:No point being furious some parents are like that.
I do not have much data to help can provide me some more info.
1) What type of girl is she?
2) Is her family rich or poor?
3) what is the main cause of problem?
She 's from a rich family having $5000 a months as allowance
the main root is lack love plus self inflicited stress.. -
No.. most of her friends she have is $$ minded..Originally posted by Shanks23:You tell her parents She is starting to hurt herself Whats next after hurt?Suicide?
So when her daughter die they also dont care?I dont believe any parents would
do that if seriously they dont be bother i have nothing to say..
Close friends scare of her just because one of them is hurt..?whats close friend and friend for..?Whats so special between close friend and just friends..
You tell all her close friends one day if anything happen to her will they regret on not helping her..?Just because one of them are hurt maybe just a cut...? -
i going to check on her now...
It rport back here tonight.. -
how come u get to see the wound on her stomach huh?
$5000 allowance per mth is damn filthy rich..
so, does she have a missy temper? some rich children are juz damn spoilt. That could explain why she has no fren.
What u can do is introduce ur frens to her lor, help her look for activities to devote her time in.. -
What this means..Originally posted by SGpork: -
haha.. If she have not missy temper then i must be lying...Originally posted by browniebaobao:how come u get to see the wound on her stomach huh?
$5000 allowance per mth is damn filthy rich..
so, does she have a missy temper? some rich children are juz damn spoilt. That could explain why she has no fren.
What u can do is introduce ur frens to her lor, help her look for activities to devote her time in..
She hate to be rich..
She see $$ as useless as her parents use $$ to neglect the parental love she needed...
Tyring to maybe can provide me with some suggestion.. -
If you are a trained counsellor, you should know the very basic rule of all counsellingOriginally posted by soulwinner:very hard...
This is some form of depression that need love..
1) never ever be attached to the person that you are counselling.
It clouds your judegement and abilty to give proper advice. -
anyway she's quite stable today...
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try this method which i tried and found it to be useful.Originally posted by soulwinner:haha.. If she have not missy temper then i must be lying...
She hate to be rich..
She see $$ as useless as her parents use $$ to neglect the parental love she needed...
Tyring to maybe can provide me with some suggestion..
Since she is rich she does not know the importance of money.
challenge her this to stay outside in the street without any money for 24 hours.
She is not allowed to have a hp or any form of help from others. no place to sleep . -
Going to hurt herself because of a test?Originally posted by soulwinner:If I have a female friend who is going to hurt herself
because she did badly for a test
A big fight occur in her family
All her close friend left her
She is single and currently in a pre u ...
What can I do to help her???
I am very confused now...
Why all her friends left her?
What sort of 'big fight' occurred in her family?
If what ya said about her current group of friends is true, perhaps she should start making new friends and start life afresh? -
it going to be very hard..Originally posted by Devil1976:Going to hurt herself because of a test?
Why all her friends left her?
What sort of 'big fight' occurred in her family?
If what ya said about her current group of friends is true, perhaps she should start making new friends and start life afresh?
I should no reveal much...
Anyway someone are just engross in thing they do..
when thing start falling apart, they felt they fail their life.. -
Next moments you will find her lying under a high-rise apartment with aOriginally posted by zeny:try this method which i tried and found it to be useful.
Since she is rich she does not know the importance of money.
challenge her this to stay outside in the street without any money for 24 hours.
She is not allowed to have a hp or any form of help from others. no place to sleep .
pool of blood.. -
if im so rich and so frustrated, i'll go on a trip and san xin.
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She is enough to keep for busy for several week..
Just hope she don't hurt herself after I left her along.. -
if people treat life as easy as it is, then wats the point of living in it anyway?Originally posted by soulwinner:Next moments you will find her lying under a high-rise apartment with a
pool of blood.. -
She hates to be rich and cannot stand even one day of being poor?Originally posted by soulwinner:haha.. If she have not missy temper then i must be lying...
She hate to be rich..
She see $$ as useless as her parents use $$ to neglect the parental love she needed...
Tyring to maybe can provide me with some suggestion..
She rather die then be poor? -
It just too much of perssure.. Satan has his part to play..Originally posted by zeny:if people treat life as easy as it is, then wats the point of living in it anyway? -
Ever seen a guy who is working 3 jobs to keep the family afloat?Originally posted by soulwinner:It just too much of perssure.. Satan has his part to play..
Pressure?