Is There Any Wrong Saying To A Girl That You Love Her..?
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Is There Any Wrong Saying To A Girl That You Love Her..?
I And Her Get Along Quite Well When We Are Friends..
But One Fine Day That When I Told The Girl That I Like Her..
She Felt Angry And Ignore Me..
Is There Really Anything Wrong Done By Me..?
Why Did The Friendship Of Us Get Affect Too By The Proposal..?
Ever Since That Day Onward.. She Treat Me Like An Enemy..
So.. Wanted To Know Why Is This So.. Hope To See All Of Your Opinion..
Thank You.. -
She dun want u to misunderstand.
If u 2 were to remain as friends as before,she is afraid that u might thatk that u still stand a chance.
So she chooses to lose u as a friend -
There is no wrong saying your feelings out to her...Rather than keeping in your heart...I guess she is still young and still not mature enough to think?She is trying to avoid you and didnt want to give you any chance...
Buck up and move on you will meet the real gal for your life..
Jiayou -
No sh*t u did something wrong. You told her u love her I mean dude have u no social skills? You don't just tell a friend u love them all of a sudden. Now the best thing for u to do is apologise and say u weren't thinking straight and u actually don't love her but like her as a friend but it's gonna be pretty hard to fix things now that's it's so messed up.
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maybe that shes angry that you didnt treat her as a friend but a potential girlfriend and thought thats why you actually befriend her in the first place
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There is nothing wrong with saying such things. However, you must get the timing correct.
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Well yea you're right. The only time u should say it is when the both of u have been dating for quite a long time.Originally posted by iveco:There is nothing wrong with saying such things. However, you must get the timing correct. -
why must the TS beg to stay around as a friend?Originally posted by jondizzle foshizzle:Now the best thing for u to do is apologise and say u weren't thinking straight and u actually don't love her but like her as a friend but it's gonna be pretty hard to fix things now that's it's so messed up. -
well he obviously likes her so i'm just giving him a possible way to fix things. if he doesn't want to be around her anymore then fine just leave things the way they areOriginally posted by curiousOrange:why must the TS beg to stay around as a friend? -
I understand.Originally posted by jondizzle foshizzle:well he obviously likes her so i'm just giving him a possible way to fix things. if he doesn't want to be around her anymore then fine just leave things the way they are
My only advice for the TS is to be responsible for what he said if he wants people to take him seriously.
Say it and mean it.
I'm not a woman. But I feel that this is a trait women are attracted to. -
Next time can don't put colour anot? Very difficult to read leh.
HmM~ Maybe you say at the wrong timing bah. Or maybe you're not sincere?
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positions change
people change
rather than a friend
she sees you as something else
a possible irritant
to get rid of
at its bud -
actually nthin wrong lehz...but if gal reject u...juz suan le lor...
she dun wan be frenz...den out of her life lo..find another target perhaps -
You overestimated your chances; now live with the consequences.
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i will just move on -
yo! how to tell her??
what ways u tell her?
what is the relationship with her at the time?
what is her mood at the time?
did u consider all this thing when u tell her that u love her??
Well, from what i had analysis, pal , u had screw thing up...
best for u to apologize then see how first... -
Women... such inexplicable creatures....
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watch the show Love Actually. hahaha..
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ur eyes and fingers not tired ar?
typed in initial caps and use different colours for each sentence. -
I shall speak from a girl's POV. and being a girl, erm, that shouldnt be very hard.Originally posted by LagooN:Is There Any Wrong Saying To A Girl That You Love Her..?
I And Her Get Along Quite Well When We Are Friends..
But One Fine Day That When I Told The Girl That I Like Her..
She Felt Angry And Ignore Me..
Is There Really Anything Wrong Done By Me..?
Why Did The Friendship Of Us Get Affect Too By The Proposal..?
Ever Since That Day Onward.. She Treat Me Like An Enemy..
So.. Wanted To Know Why Is This So.. Hope To See All Of Your Opinion..
Thank You..
anyways, there could be several possible reasons why she's treating you the way she is:
1) love is a very strong word. perhaps she thinks that you're abusing the word, or doesnt think that you're being sincere? first of all, how long have you known this girl? do you truly believe that you love her? do you even know what love is? I'm not saying that I know what it is either, but sometimes it's better to think long and hard before you say anything.
2) maybe she's scared. maybe she only likes you as a friend, but she doesn't know how to say this through words, so instead of flatly rejecting you, she'd rather show you through her actions? or maybe she's scared of getting hurt. maybe she DOES like you, but she'd rather not get into any sort of relationship with you because of things that have happened to her in the past?
3) maybe she feels used? maybe she actually thought you were special until you told her that you like her. maybe she used to value you as a friend, but now she thinks that you only befriended her because you want to get into a relationship with her. ( I think someone already mentioned this previously.)
or maybe, you're just thinking too much. maybe you expected her to react in a certain way, but since she hasnt really reacted the way you expected her to, you now think that she's purposely avoiding you or mistreating you.
if something really IS wrong, I strongly advise you to leave her alone for a while. she needs to think things through for herself. you will only make the situation worse if you try to mend it. if you send her dozens of smses regarding her behavior, wont you just scare her off more? if she values the friendship you had with her, she'll come back on her own. if not, just forget it. -
dont think theres technically any wrong in saying that. i told my close friends i love them all the time.
i told my best friend i like him, and he shall always have a special place in my heart. he replied that he likes me too, and i shall always remain special to him.
we're still best friends.
fiy, he guy, i girl.
nuthin wrong meh.
of cos unless when u say like or luv, ur meaning u wanna enter into a bgr, and her reaction to u is like when her feelings arent mutual lor. dun wan u to have false hopes. -
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Originally posted by curiousOrange:
No you are wrong. It's the other way round.
I understand.
My only advice for the TS is to be responsible for what he said if he wants people to take him seriously.
[b]Say it and mean it.
I'm not a woman. But I feel that this is a trait women are attracted to.
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Why is she angry with your proposal ?Originally posted by LagooN:Is There Any Wrong Saying To A Girl That You Love Her..?
I And Her Get Along Quite Well When We Are Friends..
But One Fine Day That When I Told The Girl That I Like Her..
She Felt Angry And Ignore Me..
Is There Really Anything Wrong Done By Me..?
Why Did The Friendship Of Us Get Affect Too By The Proposal..?
Ever Since That Day Onward.. She Treat Me Like An Enemy..
So.. Wanted To Know Why Is This So.. Hope To See All Of Your Opinion..
Thank You..
Was it an INDECENT proposal ?
Did you try to touch her when you are proposing ???
Was that your FIRST time proposing ???
Did you try to force the issue after she rejected you ????
Something doesn't seem right here ? -
Originally posted by LagooN:Is There Any Wrong Saying To A Girl That You Love Her..?
I And Her Get Along Quite Well When We Are Friends..
But One Fine Day That When I Told The Girl That I Like Her..
She Felt Angry And Ignore Me..
Is There Really Anything Wrong Done By Me..?
Why Did The Friendship Of Us Get Affect Too By The Proposal..?
Ever Since That Day Onward.. She Treat Me Like An Enemy..
So.. Wanted To Know Why Is This So.. Hope To See All Of Your Opinion..
Thank You..
Congrats for getting your feelings out; it's just a pity that she didn't like you the way you did for her.
At least you know about her stand and position - you can't really force love out of somebody if she doesn't sees you romantically as a potential partner eventually.
Trying and fail beats not trying and still fail; the former notion alone is several notch higher than people falling into the latter.
Cheers