Should you pay for all the things when you are dating a girl

• jasonsamster

  5 May 07, 18:05

  all things includes food, transport, gifts, etc
• aHGer^83

  5 May 07, 18:06

  Originally posted by jasonsamster:

  all things includes food, transport, gifts, etc

  er... dunno lei.. but i feel dat dun go on dutch lor... maybe like lunch u pay, dinner she pay this kinda things... like me n my guy.. we do this often.. like this mth he spend on me, next mth i spend on him.. alternate lah.. give ourselves time to save up abit oso...
• jasonsamster

  5 May 07, 18:08

  Originally posted by aHGer^83:

  er... dunno lei.. but i feel dat dun go on dutch lor... maybe like lunch u pay, dinner she pay this kinda things... like me n my guy.. we do this often.. like this mth he spend on me, next mth i spend on him.. alternate lah.. give ourselves time to save up abit oso...

  u and your guy must be together for very long
  if just start out how?
• aHGer^83

  5 May 07, 18:11

  Originally posted by jasonsamster:

  u and your guy must be together for very long
  if just start out how?

  oklah.. 1 yr nia.. not very long... when we just started, we oso lydat mah.. this meal he pay, next meal i pay or say we go for dinner, he wld pay for dinner den i wld buy smtng back in return for him lor...
• bladez87

  5 May 07, 18:16

  i would just pay. money is not a problem. haha
• browniebaobao

  5 May 07, 18:16

  dun have to.
• browniebaobao

  5 May 07, 18:17

  Originally posted by bladez87:

  i would just pay. money is not a problem. haha

  wah u earn a lot from shares har?
• browniebaobao

  5 May 07, 18:19

  Originally posted by jasonsamster:

  u and your guy must be together for very long
  if just start out how?

  then better compromise with ur gf..
  
  some girls are really ok with paying for her own.
  
  if u think u are not that financially sound to pay for all the expenses, better let her know.
• yihao93

  5 May 07, 18:23

  
• aHGer^83

  5 May 07, 18:24

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  then better compromise with ur gf..
  
  some girls are really ok with paying for her own.
  
  if u think u are not that financially sound to pay for all the expenses, better let her know.

  yeah... i will let him know dat this mth im tight.. he wld pay.. den when he's tight, i pay... go come go out mah... you lai you wang....
• mhcampboy

  5 May 07, 18:30

  NO!!
  
  I still remember.. a girl ask me out for date....
  
  Then she bought the movie tickets first... so i tot she blanja..
  
  Then while waiting for the movie to start...we hang ard...
  
  The she said.. oh btw.. u owe me for the movie tickets... its ok la.. u can buy me dinner at swensen...
  
  wtf!!
• Artiwizoras

  5 May 07, 18:34

  Whoever wants to pay, just let the person pay lah XD
• kristovorus

  5 May 07, 19:01

  heck no.. lol. equality between sexes man!
• Marco_Simone

  5 May 07, 19:03

  nah,gals shouldnt be treated like godness...
• browniebaobao

  5 May 07, 19:05

  Originally posted by mhcampboy:

  NO!!
  
  I still remember.. a girl ask me out for date....
  
  Then she bought the movie tickets first... so i tot she blanja..
  
  Then while waiting for the movie to start...we hang ard...
  
  The she said.. oh btw.. u owe me for the movie tickets... its ok la.. u can buy me dinner at swensen...
  
  wtf!!

  
  
  she clever leh.. one ticket exchange for a meal at swensens.
  
  last time when me and my first love was still dating.. not together yet, we went to watch 2 movies.
  
  first movie he paid for 2 tickets.
  
  then 2nd movie i paid.
  
  for meals we went food court, so we bought separately.
  
  but then duno y, he went to buy same food as me.. then ate my tomatoes when he saw me putting them one side.
• kristovorus

  5 May 07, 19:06

  so smart.. i like
• Shanks23

  5 May 07, 19:13

  I think if its girlfriend right.I usually will pay for stuffs like movie lunch icecream taxi fare those..But when it comes to shopping i got 1m also not enough..Most probably if got money can help abit if the stuff cost like 100bucks you can help like 30$ or 40$ but if no money no talk..=P
  
  Dont ever pay everything for your girlfriend she will be too rely on you after 6months..And when she go out with you she will not bring any money out..And when thats happens you better hit 4d everyweek...=P And when you are short of money you also dont dare to call her out...=P
• browniebaobao

  5 May 07, 19:16

  Originally posted by Shanks23:

  I think if its girlfriend right.I usually will pay for stuffs like movie lunch icecream taxi fare those..But when it comes to shopping i got 1m also not enough..Most probably if got money can help abit if the stuff cost like 100bucks you can help like 30$ or 40$ but if no money no talk..=P
  
  Dont ever pay everything for your girlfriend she will be too rely on you after 6months..And when she go out with you she will not bring any money out..And when thats happens you better hit 4d everyweek...=P And when you are short of money you also dont dare to call her out...=P

  not only gf hor..
  
  that day i brought my family out to eat..
  
  my elder sis so carefree, din bring hp and wallet..
  
  see anything she fancy, she pick, i pay.
• aHGer^83

  5 May 07, 19:19

  Originally posted by mhcampboy:

  NO!!
  
  I still remember.. a girl ask me out for date....
  
  Then she bought the movie tickets first... so i tot she blanja..
  
  Then while waiting for the movie to start...we hang ard...
  
  The she said.. oh btw.. u owe me for the movie tickets... its ok la.. u can buy me dinner at swensen...
  
  wtf!!

  
• Shanks23

  5 May 07, 19:28

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  not only gf hor..
  
  that day i brought my family out to eat..
  
  my elder sis so carefree, din bring hp and wallet..
  
  see anything she fancy, she pick, i pay.

  lol your sister is real clever =P
• jasonsamster

  5 May 07, 19:40

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  not only gf hor..
  
  that day i brought my family out to eat..
  
  my elder sis so carefree, din bring hp and wallet..
  
  see anything she fancy, she pick, i pay.

  ask her to stay back wash dishes to repay the debt
• beavan

  5 May 07, 19:43

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  not only gf hor..
  
  that day i brought my family out to eat..
  
  my elder sis so carefree, din bring hp and wallet..
  
  see anything she fancy, she pick, i pay.

  now this is hilarious! smart sister. you have only 1 sister with loads of brothers?
• browniebaobao

  5 May 07, 19:45

  Originally posted by jasonsamster:

  ask her to stay back wash dishes to repay the debt

  no wor.. i owe her abt $6K for my sch fees.
  
  im ok with it la.. coz for the past many years, she has been taking care of the family.
• browniebaobao

  5 May 07, 19:46

  Originally posted by beavan:

  now this is hilarious! smart sister. you have only 1 sister with loads of brothers?

  one elder sis, one younger bro.
• FocusPoint

  5 May 07, 19:46

  There are a lot of freeloaders in the world expecting the other one to pay for everything when going out on a date. Sad to say, (sure kena hantam from all the females one) majority of the females of these generations expect the males to pay for everything.
  
  Luckily for me, my wife before she marriy me knew I wasn't rich, so very 'jitong' one. Will offer to pay for food if I pay for movie tickets and transport fees. No need me to ask one. That is why after I marry her and as I grow in terms of dollar and cents I will always remember how she treated me so well. And now I will splurge on her without hesitation and also depends on my capability, which quite happy to say I am capable I must be blessed too for she is a very thrifty wife, not those big spender. Even spend also on the kids and for the house. My beloved honey for almost 18 years