Should you pay for all the things when you are dating a girl

• chin36

  4 Jul 07, 16:07

  if in doubt, ask him what he prefers. i think he will tell you.
• eagle

  4 Jul 07, 16:21

  Originally posted by TerenceYYK:

  if i'm on a date,seriously,i wont gek gao with money issues,its a date,not just a normal outing with frens.

  Last time honeymoon period, I paid for most. Then after a while, still meeting very often, share more becuz I'm not the rich kind. Even resorted to teaching tuition during army and taking extra duties for cash to have some savings (me is no savings cannot tahan one).
  
  But that was the past when i had less money to spend and more stingy with money. Nowadays the relationship more mature, meet less, so got more money to spend on each date. I also never go and count already. (Meet less doesn't mean talk less. Still a lot on phones and MSN)
• KenPlus

  4 Jul 07, 18:51

  I offer to pay for all,but she alway hand over her share to me and let me pay,only for special occasion like her bd ,v-day then she will let me pay for everything.
  
• Xephone_xenon

  4 Jul 07, 18:54

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  
  
  she clever leh.. one ticket exchange for a meal at swensens.
  
  last time when me and my first love was still dating.. not together yet, we went to watch 2 movies.
  
  first movie he paid for 2 tickets.
  
  then 2nd movie i paid.
  
  for meals we went food court, so we bought separately.
  
  [color=red]but then duno y, he went to buy same food as me.. then ate my tomatoes when he saw me putting them one side. [/color]

  WHA NICE TATIC!
  MUST LEARN!
• darkhour

  4 Jul 07, 18:54

  go dutch...unless special occasion...for heaven's sake shes richer than me la...making me pay will increase the income disparity actuali i dun mind paying for all if i can...its not shld or not la...but if u feel like its more gentlemanly to pay, n u can actuali afford it...then by all means pay loh...
• No9

  4 Jul 07, 20:08

  Originally posted by aHGer^83:

  er... dunno lei.. but i feel dat dun go on dutch lor... maybe like lunch u pay, dinner she pay this kinda things... like me n my guy.. we do this often.. like this mth he spend on me, next mth i spend on him.. alternate lah.. give ourselves time to save up abit oso...

  I think this shud be the way...
  
  unless the guy is rich, if its the guy that is always paying...
  dun blame him when he gives u a budget wedding..
• darkhour

  4 Jul 07, 20:09

  Originally posted by No9:

  I think this shud be way...
  
  unless the guy is rich, if its the guy that is always paying...
  dun blame him when he gives u a budget wedding..

  haha true true....