student-teacher relationship
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totally social condemnation.
u'll hit the papers. -
R u crazy!!!! 
R u serious !!!
if u admire her, just admire her....
what is ur age???? what is the fac age??????
How ur brain function???? -
better dun try this kinda stun..
cus there'll be no outcome..
surely, definitely, 100% guarantee plus chop.. -
hey TS, here is my 2 cents worth.
I HAD a girlfriend who was ten years older than me. (I won't reveal my age) At the time we were dating, she was earning at least four times more than me.
We met while attending a 'talk' and she was really nice and caring. In fact, she drives me around and pays for our dinner. And as you know, as time goes I felt more of the subordinate party. And since our relationship was more physical that anything else, it didn't really lead anywhere.
To be honest I feel that older women who is willing to go out with younger guys are either those who are 'motherly' or those who wish to re explore the 'physical' side of a relationship.
Age is not a factor, just a facade. Its a whole different experience getting an older woman. -
as the saying goes " love knows no bounds "
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haha.. Join NIE...
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I have tons of friends to hang out with,so much that i can take them for granted and have excess to throw.Originally posted by darknessfall:ASK YOURSELF......can you provide for her?
i suggest you concentrate on your studies and get to know more people of your age group.
Probably lack of friends could be one of the reason you are having thoughts for your teacher. Open up your social circle and you will realise there are so many other gals out there who are more suitable for you...
good luck
ok beside the point.
I find older and mature gals attractive,period.
They know what they want unlike gals my age,18,who loves being chase and playing hard to get.
sickening game bores me off.
and being a chauvunist,i don't entertain such nonenses -
All I can say is, this is probably an infatuation.
Give yourself some years to cool it off first. Finish your poly and NS. When you ORD, ask yourself if you are still attracted to her.
Chances are that, you will have probably lost interest in older women by then.
Everyone has his/her own infatuations when they are growing up. It is all up to you on how you want to handle it, control it or let it control you.
Your choice bah, remember, do not jeopardise her career or your academic life in any sense. It is a lose-lose situation, definitely. -
well not true i'll grow over it.Originally posted by teraexa:All I can say is, this is probably an infatuation.
Give yourself some years to cool it off first. Finish your poly and NS. When you ORD, ask yourself if you are still attracted to her.
Chances are that, you will have probably lost interest in older women by then.
Everyone has his/her own infatuations when they are growing up. It is all up to you on how you want to handle it, control it or let it control you.
Your choice bah, remember, do not jeopardise her career or your academic life in any sense. It is a lose-lose situation, definitely.
If it's what i'm naturally attracted to then there's nithing to grow out of.
U gotta admit older women in general don't play games becuase they can't afford to.
they do have to get off the shelves asap.
Thats what i like about them-all serious and no monkeying.
Wife material is also what they are,which what we guys love -
the teecher can provide for him watOriginally posted by darknessfall:ASK YOURSELF......can you provide for her?
i suggest you concentrate on your studies and get to know more people of your age group.
Probably lack of friends could be one of the reason you are having thoughts for your teacher. Open up your social circle and you will realise there are so many other gals out there who are more suitable for you...
good luck -
You can try and ask for her mobile but frankly I don't think she will respond to you. She is at the losing end, not you, and she might worry about losing her job. This is Singapore. Many people here are narrow minded.Originally posted by boka:I want to know if the society condone student-teacher relationship on an intimate level.
I am attracted to older ladies aged 25-early 30's.
And so happen,there this teacher in Rp whom i think is really nice and plain but pretty.
Nice is applied on a general term here so i won't go into details.
I could be wrong that her caring attitude stems from her professional as a mentor.
How can i get her out to know her better.[It'll be good if i can date her but i'm only talking about getting to know here on a personal level] -
Go ahead and hope to hear good news from you...
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no no no no no no no
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Hi,
Seeing your post made me think of myself many years ago. I can understand your feelings.
My advice is do wait till you graduated. I made my move only after I graduated from my Sec School. Be prepared to take many rejections of course. But, if you can show your persistence and sincerity, she may be eventually touched by you.
It's been more than 10 years, and we are married with kids already. -
Polytechnic lecturers are friendly to students to build a rapport, make their teaching job easier too by knowing students to encourage them etc. Trust me, I was a poly student 10 years ago.
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I do date my lecturer or teacher sometime.. but i don't fancy them...
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and that teacher is still single after so many years,after u gotta a job upon completion of NS?Originally posted by fireball777:Hi,
Seeing your post made me think of myself many years ago. I can understand your feelings.
My advice is do wait till you graduated. I made my move only after I graduated from my Sec School. Be prepared to take many rejections of course. But, if you can show your persistence and sincerity, she may be eventually touched by you.
It's been more than 10 years, and we are married with kids already. -
I'm not intrested wheather u have the hots for them or not.Originally posted by soulwinner:I do date my lecturer or teacher sometime.. but i don't fancy them... -
Yes. We were together even before I graduate from university. I must say chasing after her was definitely not plain sailing. She rejected me many, many times, because she always cannot overcome the fact that I was her student.Originally posted by boka:and that teacher is still single after so many years,after u gotta a job upon completion of NS? -
I am a polytechnic student and my institution have no lecturers..Originally posted by Ms Poh:Polytechnic lecturers are friendly to students to build a rapport, make their teaching job easier too by knowing students to encourage them etc. Trust me, I was a poly student 10 years ago. -
put your own feelings aside, and think about her.Originally posted by boka:I'm 18.
I shun drama series,especially dreamy and rosy ones.
For me,i have a hard time being attracted to gals my age,even thinking with my d!ck dosen't help.
put aside dating,trying to know her on a personal friendship level is good enough too.
I believe it's possible for teacher and student to know one another on a personal level outside the classroom-friendship.
do you know that she can be fired for having any kinda relationship outside the normal teacher-student relationship with you?!
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some how i do not like your terms.Originally posted by boka:well not true i'll grow over it.
If it's what i'm naturally attracted to then there's nithing to grow out of.
U gotta admit older women in general don't play games becuase they can't afford to.
they do have to get off the shelves asap.
Thats what i like about them-all serious and no monkeying.
Wife material is also what they are,which what we guys love
trust me if they are looking to "get off the shelves asap" they won't even look your way.
1) you cant provide for them
2) you are not at the age for serious marriage commitment
in other words, you will not be the 'final' guy. -
Don't understand if you're really mature or not....texts from you may seems that you're trying hard to convince ppl that you're mature enough...but i feel not....
Based on your personal "feel" & thoughts to conclude girls around the age of 18 are playing hard to get?
You're currently comparing girls aged 18yrs old with a woman aged >25+yrs old? Comparing a small plant to a full grown tree (Small plant doesn't have much branches or leaves as compared with trees, in general). Oh please....
Also, how can you not thought of how your lecturer think or feel?
Based on your CURRENT situation/age/vision, what commitment can you give/promise to her?
Are you finacially stable enough to provide her stability? Be realistic
Most important thing to a woman of aged >25+, Youth.
In short, if i'm a female of aged 25+ above, i wouldn't wanna take the risk..don't have many 2~3yrs to waste....who knows in the future you might fall in love with a girl who's 25yrs? By then, your lecturer will be 30+? -
female rely heavily on their biological clock and once they hit a certain age,they know they cannot afford to have flings.Originally posted by dcx:Don't understand if you're really mature or not....texts from you may seems that you're trying hard to convince ppl that you're mature enough...but i feel not....
Based on your personal "feel" & thoughts to conclude girls around the age of 18 are playing hard to get?
You're currently comparing girls aged 18yrs old with a woman aged >25+yrs old? Comparing a small plant to a full grown tree (Small plant doesn't have much branches or leaves as compared with trees, in general). Oh please....
Also, how can you not thought of how your lecturer think or feel?
Based on your CURRENT situation/age/vision, what commitment can you give/promise to her?
Are you finacially stable enough to provide her stability? Be realistic
Most important thing to a woman of aged >25+, Youth.
In short, if i'm a female of aged 25+ above, i wouldn't wanna take the risk..don't have many 2~3yrs to waste....who knows in the future you might fall in love with a girl who's 25yrs? By then, your lecturer will be 30+?
we all lose our youth by time and for gals,youth is one crucial aspect which they rely on to let lose their charm.
The fact that u question my finacial background and stability shows that you are not understanding my statement of "getting off the shelve Asap" because this statement was meant to be directed at my/guys choice of "why older ladies tend to be serious buisness".
Instead u phrase it as though the lady is doing the selecting and you giving me the 101 reasons why a older lady would never pick a younger guy.
Look i'm refering to a frame where the guy does the selection.
We don't have to thread into finacial area because we're discussing controversial issue as to why it is NATURALLY A SIN for YOUNGER GUYS TO DATE OLDER GALS.
Or
Are u putting this entire issue into the CONTROVERSIAL site whereby Student-teacher relationship is INAPPROPIATE.
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Oh...right....i'm actually off from your meaning of student-teacher r/s?....okok....Originally posted by boka:female rely heavily on their biological clock and once they hit a certain age,they know they cannot afford to have flings.
we all lose our youth by time and for gals,youth is one crucial aspect which they rely on to let lose their charm.
The fact that u question my finacial background and stability shows that you are not understanding my statement of "getting off the shelve Asap" because this statement was meant to be directed at my/guys choice of "why older ladies tend to be serious buisness".
Instead u phrase it as though the lady is doing the selecting and you giving me the 101 reasons why a older lady would never pick a younger guy.
Look i'm refering to a frame where the guy does the selection.
We don't have to thread into finacial area because we're discussing controversial issue as to why it is NATURALLY A SIN for YOUNGER GUYS TO DATE OLDER GALS.
Or
Are u putting this entire issue into the CONTROVERSIAL site whereby Student-teacher relationship is INAPPROPIATE.
Which are u speaking off?
Alright...go ahead & woo your teacher...good luck to you!