I am so lonely and having problem right now
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Hi there
Well i am having a problem right now....I am a guy still in secondary. well i feel lonely now
and I wan a gf but there 2 problem i am facing I am a quiet 1...
1. Well i having pimple problem my pimple are big lol that make mi ungly and well my boby size too skinny ;(...
2. Well as a normal technical student most of my classmate are ah beng ah seng.....I just hate to be tease like whne u have a gf they wil tease u like saying "U luv Bla bla bla"
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cheers, -
then go and find a gf....
hm.... go back n study la....
u still young man...
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focus on your studies, boi boi -
Go study little boi,dun think too much lah
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childish classmates u have.
pls la.. how old only simi feel lonely?
focus on ur studies better.
work hard to go to NA la.. then u think abt gf. -
ya lo~~ wad u know abt lonely??
bbb then know mah...
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u will get over it..
just go study..
girls like smart guys..
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If you think that getting a gf is to solve your problem of loneliness, you are absolutely wrong!
You should work on yourself first and there's a lot of work to be done there!
Working on yourself means building up yourself in as many areas as you can so that yoy prepare yourself to step into the real world ......
essential things you should focus on is performing well in your studies,training yourself up physically, participating in various activities and widening your social circle. Have you done well enough for all these categories?
You mentioned that you are quiet. There's nothing wrong with that but you could train yourself to be more expressive if you desire by joining social clubs & ccas.....
What I have stated sounds like the nag of parents, doesn't it? But of you take a step back and ponder, it makes a hell of a lotta sense! -
i tink u shld just make more frens...
u need be make frens with express or na students...
dun go n think dat they'll despise u or wateva, u're human too...
y don't u post a pic here n let us evaluate hw u look? -
lol..having a gf indeed will solve the problem of loneliness but l tell u..it will oso bring u another form of trouble and problems...
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ki si lah!Originally posted by sunny6110:ya lo~~ wad u know abt lonely??
bbb then know mah... 
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U love me huh??Originally posted by browniebaobao:ki si lah! 
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you wan a gf coz you are lonely?
Lets say you really found a gf, then what will happen if 1 day you found a hobby or dun feel lonely? Will you start to neglect her?
put yourself in other pple's shoes..
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Actually there is no need to find a gf to clear ur loneliness away
plz invest in a hobby or sumtinz... -
Study.... Take the advice of all.. Get a good education.. steady job.. etc.. den think of gf.. pr perhaps by then u wuld have gals chasing after u liao..Don feel inferior about where you are at... So what if NT? Just put in yr best effort and i have seen success stories ok...And pls body size dosen matter just study hard..
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Kid, you're just under peer pressure i am sure most of the people here had been through that including myself, so what if you get a gf? 1 more gf for you now brings much more trouble. More $ spend, less time to study etc etc. You think a gf is good at your age? -1
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booby??Originally posted by cybertaxi:Hi there
Well i am having a problem right now....I am a guy still in secondary. well i feel lonely now and I wan a gf but there 2 problem i am facing I am a quiet 1...
1. Well i having pimple problem my pimple are big lol that make mi ungly and well my boby size too skinny ;(...
2. Well as a normal technical student most of my classmate are ah beng ah seng.....I just hate to be tease like whne u have a gf they wil tease u like saying "U luv Bla bla bla"
=)
cheers,
thats explain everythig -
What is a problem of not having a gf??
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crazy.Originally posted by sunny6110:U love me huh??
hate u then got say.
love u? not even in ur next life. -
aiya he bo liao one lah...ignore him .Originally posted by browniebaobao:crazy.
hate u then got say.
love u? not even in ur next life. -
Yar. Since you don't want to be ah beng, then you go back to study. Dont bother about them.Originally posted by allentyb:
focus on your studies, boi boi -
Zzz your thinking smacks of immaturity. You want a gf just for the sake of having one.
Be mindful, you want to enter a relationship with someone else, a fellow human being. Even when animals can have feelings, what about a human?
Ask yourself, why you want a gf for? To give you a sense of security? There's no point getting a gf as a security blanket. You just view her as a source of security, not a source of love.
Put yourself in her shoes, would you want to be treated like that? Imagine your gf telling her friends, "Oh my bf is so and so. Now I got bf, I am no more that no-friends person."
And given your situation, you are probably no more than 18 years old. There's still a long path ahead of you.
Please hor, still the same naggy reminders.
Go expand your social circle. Your teenage years are the best time to know friends. Join a CCA and actually try to achieve something there. Also, care about the grades. Think about your parents who earn so hard just to put you to school.
Besides, what are your motives to get a gf? Love? Sense of security? To bed her? To show off to others?
For you, please think thrice before getting a gf. Your reason for getting one is rather shaky.
And if you think I am just lao ah peh with some generation gap, I tell you I am only 18 this year.
And yes, I do not have a gf and not looking for one.
Cos I do not want to be a jerk and have a gf for the wrong reasons.
Classmates tease then tease lor. Nothing wrong not being attached what.
As long as you know what you are doing can liao. -
Ultimately, there are two question you must answer.
1) Do you have alot of money?
2) Can you committe into a relationship? -
1. A girlfriend is not a toy for your own amusement. If you think that having a girlfriend will solve your loneliness issues, then you should buy a PSP instead.
Really.
2. Be in a relationship only for love. If you're in a relationship for the sake of wanting to be in the 'in' crowd, then I say you're not mature enough to be in one.
3. How old are you? You seem pretty young. -
still young la ah di... dun succumb to peer pressure... best is enjoy company of frens now 1st... the more u wan it the more u wun get... concentrate on ur studies 1st... normal technical now better work hard... u wun regret it...Originally posted by cybertaxi:Hi there
Well i am having a problem right now....I am a guy still in secondary. well i feel lonely now and I wan a gf but there 2 problem i am facing I am a quiet 1...
1. Well i having pimple problem my pimple are big lol that make mi ungly and well my boby size too skinny ;(...
2. Well as a normal technical student most of my classmate are ah beng ah seng.....I just hate to be tease like whne u have a gf they wil tease u like saying "U luv Bla bla bla"
=)
cheers,