I am so lonely and having problem right now

• HolySniper

  14 May 07, 02:04

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  childish classmates u have.
  
  pls la.. how old only simi feel lonely?
  
  focus on ur studies better.
  
  work hard to go to NA la.. then u think abt gf.

  hi bbb!
  
  dun lecture him too much.. kids nids to learn too.. i find that those tat has long relationships during their secondary school lifes, has much more matured thinkings.. maybe it's just my absurd deductions la..
  
  been thru tat state be4... my thinkings matured alot but it's like hindering me from doing some stuffs.. my views on relationship has changed.. no more those puppy loves n stuff for me..
• kalach

  14 May 07, 03:04

  Well TS, if you are in the sec 1 or 2 period, my advice, juz dun ruin the gal! They need a life too! LOLS. as if you are in sec 3, you can get a gal watever way you wan, nobody give it a damn, if you are in sec, CONCENTRATE ON YOUR N. dont regret if u cant get your courses in ITE! Theres lotsa female in ITE for you. Its just you want it or not!
  
  As for HS, i agree to what u say though, long relationship often comes during secondary school days, I had 2 real life example from secondary school days till now. Though I juz graduated 2 years ago from my secondary school, but they were still as loving, I envy them! LOLS. Though, they might be so called immatured, but they can at least still feel wat is puppy love. At least even if they broke up, they still know what love is all about in the future.
• sunny6110

  14 May 07, 03:32

  Originally posted by browniebaobao:

  crazy.
  
  hate u then got say.
  
  love u? not even in ur next life.

  i thot ma shi ai mah....
  
  eeee. u will scold pple de... so serious...
  
  nxt time wun play wif u le..
• the.owl

  14 May 07, 04:01

  Originally posted by cybertaxi:

  Hi there
  
  Well i am having a problem right now....I am a guy still in secondary. well i feel lonely now and I wan a gf but there 2 problem i am facing I am a quiet 1...
  
  1. Well i having pimple problem my pimple are big lol that make mi ungly and well my boby size too skinny ;(...
  
  2. Well as a normal technical student most of my classmate are ah beng ah seng.....I just hate to be tease like whne u have a gf they wil tease u like saying "U luv Bla bla bla"
  
  =)
  
  cheers,
  
  

  I'm sorry I dont speak retard.
• the_fallen

  14 May 07, 17:01

  Originally posted by cybertaxi:

  Hi there
  
  Well i am having a problem right now....I am a guy still in secondary. well i feel lonely now and I wan a gf but there 2 problem i am facing I am a quiet 1...
  
  1. Well i having pimple problem my pimple are big lol that make mi ungly and well my boby size too skinny ;(...
  
  2. Well as a normal technical student most of my classmate are ah beng ah seng.....I just hate to be tease like whne u have a gf they wil tease u like saying "U luv Bla bla bla"
  
  =)
  
  cheers,
  
  

  please, know which is more important to you.
  
  love or studies?
  
  you will feel lonely because you see your frens having Gfs and you don't have right.
  
  i was once in your shoes, learn to judge and decide for yourself, which is more important, if you can't even get pass your own confidence of your looks, how do you expect yourself to get a gf?
  
  be realistic.
  
  first you worry about your pimples (which is normal for growing teens)
  
  second - for classmates that tease you, learn to ignore them..simple as that.
  
  third, worry about your future first, before you consider getting a gf
  
  forth, you ranging hormones are the reason why you feel u are lonely and need a girlfriend, but if you can't even handle yourself nor have confidence, than you will be a wuss in a girl's eyes even if you managed to get a gf.
  
  know your priorities and act accordingly.
• soulwinner

  14 May 07, 17:04

  Originally posted by sunny6110:

  i thot ma shi ai mah....
  
  eeee. u will scold pple de... so serious...
  
  nxt time wun play wif u le..

  Why make brownie bao bao angry??
• soulwinner

  14 May 07, 17:05

  Originally posted by kalach:

  Well TS, if you are in the sec 1 or 2 period, my advice, juz dun ruin the gal! They need a life too! LOLS. as if you are in sec 3, you can get a gal watever way you wan, nobody give it a damn, if you are in sec, CONCENTRATE ON YOUR N. dont regret if u cant get your courses in ITE! Theres lotsa female in ITE for you. Its just you want it or not!
  
  As for HS, i agree to what u say though, long relationship often comes during secondary school days, I had 2 real life example from secondary school days till now. Though I juz graduated 2 years ago from my secondary school, but they were still as loving, I envy them! LOLS. Though, they might be so called immatured, but they can at least still feel wat is puppy love. At least even if they broke up, they still know what love is all about in the future.

  He is right..
• Chin Eng

  14 May 07, 17:09

  Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:

  Can you committe into a relationship?

  what committe? committee?
• iceFatboy

  14 May 07, 17:35

  to TS, why you need a gf?
  
  as a trophy? so that similiar to your friends, you got a gal?
  
  or you need someone to share your life?
  
  cause having a gf means commitment, in terms of money, time. Are you ready??
  
  Basically, looks do matter, but there is only one brad pitt in this world.
  so if you appears neat, clean, you can be handsome too.
  A pimple just means you reach puberty.
  
  As for the company you have, yes, perhaps you are in an all- boys class, and you have lesser chances but it doesn't means anything.
  
  cause you can always widen your social circle. How?
  
  go CC lor, go library, go macdonalds lor..
  
  but priority-wise, I advise you to put more effort into studies, and even get into a poly.. and then you will have much more choices..
• cybertaxi

  14 May 07, 19:56

  Thx guys for all ur advice =)
  
  K lor studie lor =p
  
  how bout pimple now lol i having problem with it lol my pims too big lol can combine some more XD
  
  Cheers..
• gobez14

  14 May 07, 20:11

  Originally posted by fudgester:

  1. A girlfriend is not a toy for your own amusement. If you think that having a girlfriend will solve your loneliness issues, then you should buy a PSP instead.
  
  Really.
  
  2. Be in a relationship only for love. If you're in a relationship for the sake of wanting to be in the 'in' crowd, then I say you're not mature enough to be in one.
  
  3. How old are you? You seem pretty young.

  code:

  
  
  agree wif no.1 totalli i got gd lobang if want buy PM mi       

• cybertaxi

  14 May 07, 20:16

  Originally posted by the.owl:

  I'm sorry I dont speak retard.

  Ur advise wah si bei "good" ar lol
  
  I seem to be kana pwn by all of u iin 1 conner XD
• Darkness_hacker99

  14 May 07, 20:18

  Originally posted by BrUtUs:

  still young la ah di... dun succumb to peer pressure... best is enjoy company of frens now 1st... the more u wan it the more u wun get... concentrate on ur studies 1st... normal technical now better work hard... u wun regret it...

  You sounded like my friend leh..
• cApitaland

  14 May 07, 21:41

  but dat is beri true. now still young better enjoy while you can. spend time wif ur frens and hu noes can make some brudders. later wen grow up can count of dem to help you wen in trouble.
  
  if realli dunno how to waste time i suggest CS or DotA. dats wat sec students like now days all the way till jc/poly.
• Darkness_hacker99

  14 May 07, 21:45

  Originally posted by Chin Eng:

  what committe? committee?

  Sorry, I spelled wrongly.. It's commit.
• Scania N113CRB luver

  14 May 07, 23:17

  Originally posted by cApitaland:

  but dat is beri true. now still young better enjoy while you can. spend time wif ur frens and hu noes can make some brudders. later wen grow up can count of dem to help you wen in trouble.
  
  if realli dunno how to waste time i suggest CS or DotA. dats wat sec students like now days all the way till jc/poly.

  Wah ....DotA all the way to JC think hard lehs ... Cuz DotA is addictive ! My friends all jia lad sia their studies .
• AndrewPKYap

  14 May 07, 23:35

  Originally posted by cybertaxi:

  Hi there
  
  Well i am having a problem right now....I am a guy still in secondary. well i feel lonely now and I wan a gf but there 2 problem i am facing I am a quiet 1...
  
  1. Well i having pimple problem my pimple are big lol that make mi ungly and well my boby size too skinny ;(...
  
  2. Well as a normal technical student most of my classmate are ah beng ah seng.....I just hate to be tease like whne u have a gf they wil tease u like saying "U luv Bla bla bla"
  
  =)
  
  cheers,
  
  

  "Girlfriend" is not something that because you want it, you get it. Like I want to live a big house in the most expensive part of Singapore and own the most expensive car in Singapore... just because I want it means I will get it?
  
  I don't have then what do I do?
  
  You don't have then what do you do?
  
  Well at least you are smart... one thing you can do is come to AA in sgforums...
  
  So now think, what else can you do? and... just do it.
  
  edited to add... just do it but don't forget about consequences... see my sig below...
• Icy_Candy

  15 May 07, 11:04

  you feeling lonely because you wanna have a girlfriend? might just be you saw your friends with their girlfriends or wat?
  
  if you have alot of friends why should you feel lonely, i think you might be feeling inferior example, your friends got girl girl leh, you leh? alone? if its so, go train your small bones lor, train big muscle, cure your blemish by simple tricks, wash your face with mild cleanser or pore cleaning ones lor.
• ilovethesun

  15 May 07, 20:28

  Originally posted by cybertaxi:

  Hi there
  
  Well i am having a problem right now....I am a guy still in secondary. well i feel lonely now and I wan a gf but there 2 problem i am facing I am a quiet 1...
  
  1. Well i having pimple problem my pimple are big lol that make mi ungly and well my boby size too skinny ;(...
  
  2. Well as a normal technical student most of my classmate are ah beng ah seng.....I just hate to be tease like whne u have a gf they wil tease u like saying "U luv Bla bla bla"
  
  =)
  
  cheers,
  
  

  like what the others have said, having a gf is NOT the solution to your loneliness. if you would like companion, get urself a pet or smthg.
• cyrusv2

  15 May 07, 23:08

  if u singaporean, then blend in to ur clique, become ah seng too. if u prefer not, then increase ur chances of a gf by studying hard. nerds do get laid..
• Scania N113CRB luver

  15 May 07, 23:43

  Originally posted by ilovethesun:

  like what the others have said, having a gf is NOT the solution to your loneliness. if you would like companion, get urself a pet or smthg.

  go usa lagi best. There got things such as "Big boys, Big toys!" man ! Sui arh ! Ofcuz its machines such as powerful cars lah .
  
  I agree with ilovethesun . GF isn't an object that is used any knowhow just to kill your boredom. SHE has a feeling . What if you someday find her boring and decides to kick her aside? Selfish act right? Think .