Loss of self worth.
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True, but this only happens when guys really is expose to the harsh working society, having to meet negative and bad-stabbing guys who bad-mouth people just to have a bit of pay-rise.Originally posted by mancha:Welcome to RESPONSIBILITY.
Shoulder it like a man, or bellyache like a wimp.
You are feeling that way because you are at the line between a man and a teenager. Don't take the number of your age as a guideline, take your mental maturity. You are neither here or there.
You cannot control those around you, but you can take charge of yourself.
Treat your self as a man, and others will follow suit
Behave like a kid, and the others will treat you as such.
We keep learning as we grow.
A young guy can't turn to a gentlemen overnight.
It takes experience and financial responsibility to slowly convert a young guy into a responsible young adult and to be a gentleman to his gf and other peers as well.
You need to know more people, know their growing up experience, perhaps that will help you speed up the process of growing up mentally.
I might be younger than you, but I do know what are the sacrifices that have to be made when we learn to shoulder the burden.
I took up the burden years back already. This taking up of respondsiblity has certainly change the way I look at things that happen around me and prepared me for the impending crisis due to come.
Ask more older guys on how they grow up, married guys (those who have a family already; I'm not talking about those young couples with no experience of supporting a family-i can intro you to them if you're keen to learn more) especially, they will be able to give you more experience sharing thus u learn faster this way. -
No matter how hard you try theres always some reason to feel not good enough, if ur aim in life is to prove that you are enough you have from the beginning lost the battle when you conceded that there is something to prove in the first place. Just so you know.. theres no need to be so hard on yourself..Originally posted by Hellraiza:. I had noble ideals about it at first, that i could make a difference, but this terrible feeling of uselessness has begun to overcome me. I'm not a good son. Neither am i a good enough bf. I feel that whatever i do is not enough. -
i should have orded last year. im a regular now
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huh, do you even exists? see : I do not exist - andrew pk yapOriginally posted by Hellraiza:I have almost everything i need. A stable job. Good family. Loving gf.
Yet. Something is missing. I feel i'm no longer an individual at work. I'm just another disposable number. I had noble ideals about it at first, that i could make a difference, but this terrible feeling of uselessness has begun to overcome me. I'm not a good son. Neither am i a good enough bf. I feel that whatever i do is not enough.
If my mum didn't call the police the other day, i might not even be posting here now -
erm, no need to go to that extend. A councillor will do. TS, that was also my problem & i'm still trying to overcome it. The thought that "i'm never good enough for anything/anyone"Originally posted by Slipshade:Get yourself a pyschiatrist.
I try to take things lighter now, dun put unnecessary stress on urself & dun berate urself either. Just do your best that's enough, know that at least you have tried ur best.
Sometimes things are not meant to be & guess we just gotta move on, cheers
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Originally posted by jojobeach:You don't need to prove to others.
All you need to do is prove to yourself.
Expectations are just , expectations.
Learn to be more flexible, more adaptable, more self-forgiving.
The more mistakes you make, the more wiser you get.
Just don't repeat the mistake over and over again.
If you think you are already at the bottom of the pit.
Life won't get any worse, can it ?
Now is the time you bounce back up.
22 years old is the age your learning curve goes up steep.
Buckle up your seat belt and hold on to your head.
fantastic, i like this
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There are always things in life that we cannot control. Of course, there are things in life that we can.
Just like, we try to do our best in our studies and career. We know that we have worked hard, but sometimes the outcome is totally different from what we expected.
That goes to relationships as well. Or else, all of us will not be here in this forum.
Cheers! -
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* persistently sad or irritable mood
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