3 years still never make love with gf...
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Anyone facing the same problem? I'm with my lst gf for more than 3 years and we still did not make love. Its so sad. I think the best moment to make love is the honey moon stage. Now its over. I feel so sad and feelingless. We pet only. I think i will still be petting even after marriage. I love her and will marry her. But seems like the more I wait the more i'm more tired. Now I understand why there is bad guy. I'm used to a 100% good guy that treasure relationship very seriously. But when i have this gf, i've changed over the years. I respect her decision to only sex after marriage. BUt who respected me? I so surpised. I can have ONS with someone I just knew and I cannot even make love to my gf! Life SUCK YA!? In my working place I can get as many gers as i want. I can even choose. But because of my gf, i resist them. I felt stupid to be nice guy! I have a short relationship with one ger but i broke up beocoz i stil love my gf even though I know I cannot make love to her. I ask her why we cannot make love and argued. She cried and told me to look for other gers! I nearly fatinted. All my loves wasted...I thought making love is a nature thing for couple... U make love to gf beocoz u love her. So she is telling me not to love her? sigh... Currently i'm very close to a pretty ger. How to resist her? I know my gf cannot live without me. But I'm sick of being fatihguy. Goodguy die earier. anyone can advise me? I'm evil now becoz of what my gf's decision affected me. I love my gf but i wanted to play around too. I'm going crazy! PLease help!!
Confused justguyz
End of nice guy, future playboy wannabe -
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seriously it doesnt pay to be good to be a good guy at times...
a good guy has only conscience...but he is often at a losing end...
be a flexible and neutral guy....means u are neither good nor bad...
be a bad guy..u can hav almost everything u wan..but remember retribution is waiting for all these guys..
actually l used to be a good guy..but now nope ..not anymore...
but neither do l want to be a bad guy...so l am now at the middle...
tink abt it..sumtimz being too good..is juz going to make ur life miserable.. -
SMLJ?
if you want to makan outside, please make sure, you wipe your mouth clean hor -
go f spider la... nb u love her or u wan sex? respect her decision... if u cant tahan till marriage then better leave her n go be ur 'respected' man... pls dun throw all the guy's face.....Originally posted by justguyz:Anyone facing the same problem? I'm with my lst gf for more than 3 years and we still did not make love. Its so sad. I think the best moment to make love is the honey moon stage. Now its over. I feel so sad and feelingless. We pet only. I think i will still be petting even after marriage. I love her and will marry her. But seems like the more I wait the more i'm more tired. Now I understand why there is bad guy. I'm used to a 100% good guy that treasure relationship very seriously. But when i have this gf, i've changed over the years. I respect her decision to only sex after marriage. BUt who respected me? I so surpised. I can have ONS with someone I just knew and I cannot even make love to my gf! Life SUCK YA!? In my working place I can get as many gers as i want. I can even choose. But because of my gf, i resist them. I felt stupid to be nice guy! I have a short relationship with one ger but i broke up beocoz i stil love my gf even though I know I cannot make love to her. I ask her why we cannot make love and argued. She cried and told me to look for other gers! I nearly fatinted. All my loves wasted...I thought making love is a nature thing for couple... U make love to gf beocoz u love her. So she is telling me not to love her? sigh... Currently i'm very close to a pretty ger. How to resist her? I know my gf cannot live without me. But I'm sick of being fatihguy. Goodguy die earier. anyone can advise me? I'm evil now becoz of what my gf's decision affected me. I love my gf but i wanted to play around too. I'm going crazy! PLease help!!
Confused justguyz
End of nice guy, future playboy wannabe -
finally, a good guy
keep it up
use protection -
i think u better go find another gf whom u can make love
But dun regret har? next time u cannot find a girl who will reserve her virginity for u already. -
if you want make love find dilip lumar. boy he will sure make a lot of love out of you.
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thks guy. i'm in the middle too. that y so miserable. I cannot leave my gf neither i can love another ger. Maybe you can love other ger but its just fair for all parties. BUt Seriously I doubt i have the feeling to make love with my gf even she initiate it now... I just cannot do it with you. How to surive through the marriage life....
Justguyz -
tsktsk.
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That is important in marriage, but it is not what makes up the foundation of the marriage.
If you have respected her decision for the past 3 years, why don't you hang in there for a while more, or consider making her your lifelong partner soon? -
Do you know what is 'make love'?
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l can understand ur feeling..dude..Originally posted by justguyz:thks guy. i'm in the middle too. that y so miserable. I cannot leave my gf neither i can love another ger. Maybe you can love other ger but its just fair for all parties. BUt Seriously I doubt i have the feeling to make love with my gf even she initiate it now... I just cannot do it with you. How to surive through the marriage life....
Justguyz
l noe it must be hard for u being faithful and good..and not getting u wan..or whatever
Maybe u can try to let her noe abt ur frustrations? being 3 years..and cnt make love with gf...is a bit..eh...maybe u can try to let ur gf noe that guys oso hav the needs and whatever
but if she still dun wan...den dun force la... cuz if the other party dun agree willingly..u hav sex with her..oso not shiok de...
then u tink lo..whether u can stand being with her or u wan look for another gal..
up to ur choice.. -
Marriage is not only abt sex.. It abt settling down with some one with trust and some one u can rely on in good or bad times.
It is not worth going for a short flirt to ruin a long term path down the road.
I hope u will not reach the stages where u regret yr action that borught eternal damages... -
As for me la..
of coz..if l hav a gf..l will like to ahem with her too..but if she dun wan..l wont force or wad de..cuz l dun like it..
Anyway l can only feel havin sex with a gal that l hav the feel and l really like her
so if l hav sex with a gal..it means l love her and l will take care of her and continue love her..unless she dun wan me la..then l will back off..but if 1 day..she wants me back and it happens that l am single..l will still take her back
that is my policy la..my way of doing things.. -
horny say horny lah.. stop finding excuses for urself... dun say till u are forced to be a flirt lah......
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she is probably having ONS with other guys while pretending to be chaste in front of u!
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i know she still virign. I can wait for her. But I just cannot imagine her asking me to look for other gers. If sex is all i'm after, i would'nt be so stupid to wait for so long. Marriage is not all about sex but knowing that she hate sex and finding its distusting really affect me alot. Hai my lst love and only love not smooth. I told her man's need and i will go crazy just like her having period. Most probably she cannot understand guy.
thanks alot guys! Your feedbacks help me alot!
Justguyz -
because of guys like you, nice guys feel ashamed being a guy.Originally posted by justguyz:Anyone facing the same problem? I'm with my lst gf for more than 3 years and we still did not make love. Its so sad. I think the best moment to make love is the honey moon stage. Now its over. I feel so sad and feelingless. We pet only. I think i will still be petting even after marriage. I love her and will marry her. But seems like the more I wait the more i'm more tired. Now I understand why there is bad guy. I'm used to a 100% good guy that treasure relationship very seriously. But when i have this gf, i've changed over the years. I respect her decision to only sex after marriage. BUt who respected me? I so surpised. I can have ONS with someone I just knew and I cannot even make love to my gf! Life SUCK YA!? In my working place I can get as many gers as i want. I can even choose. But because of my gf, i resist them. I felt stupid to be nice guy! I have a short relationship with one ger but i broke up beocoz i stil love my gf even though I know I cannot make love to her. I ask her why we cannot make love and argued. She cried and told me to look for other gers! I nearly fatinted. All my loves wasted...I thought making love is a nature thing for couple... U make love to gf beocoz u love her. So she is telling me not to love her? sigh... Currently i'm very close to a pretty ger. How to resist her? I know my gf cannot live without me. But I'm sick of being fatihguy. Goodguy die earier. anyone can advise me? I'm evil now becoz of what my gf's decision affected me. I love my gf but i wanted to play around too. I'm going crazy! PLease help!!
Confused justguyz
End of nice guy, future playboy wannabe
if you are so desperate for S*X, go F**K yourself -
please show girls some respect, they're not s*x toys ok? also, stop thinking of yourself as Mr. Wonderful, cause you are not, but a bastard. sick pervertic bastard who is just looking for S*X, not real love. i bet she can live without an asshole like you, and since you wan to fool around, it shows you are not faithful, she deserves better guysOriginally posted by justguyz:Anyone facing the same problem? I'm with my lst gf for more than 3 years and we still did not make love. Its so sad. I think the best moment to make love is the honey moon stage. Now its over. I feel so sad and feelingless. We pet only. I think i will still be petting even after marriage. I love her and will marry her. But seems like the more I wait the more i'm more tired. Now I understand why there is bad guy. I'm used to a 100% good guy that treasure relationship very seriously. But when i have this gf, i've changed over the years. I respect her decision to only sex after marriage. BUt who respected me? I so surpised. I can have ONS with someone I just knew and I cannot even make love to my gf! Life SUCK YA!? In my working place I can get as many gers as i want. I can even choose. But because of my gf, i resist them. I felt stupid to be nice guy! I have a short relationship with one ger but i broke up beocoz i stil love my gf even though I know I cannot make love to her. I ask her why we cannot make love and argued. She cried and told me to look for other gers! I nearly fatinted. All my loves wasted...I thought making love is a nature thing for couple... U make love to gf beocoz u love her. So she is telling me not to love her? sigh... Currently i'm very close to a pretty ger. How to resist her? I know my gf cannot live without me. But I'm sick of being fatihguy. Goodguy die earier. anyone can advise me? I'm evil now becoz of what my gf's decision affected me. I love my gf but i wanted to play around too. I'm going crazy! PLease help!!
Confused justguyz
End of nice guy, future playboy wannabe
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you're right, he's just finding excuses for himself, want to an wei himself for trying to stray. and shifting the prob to the girl, this kind of guy deserves to be hang upside down and get banged in the buttOriginally posted by I-like-flings(m):horny say horny lah.. stop finding excuses for urself... dun say till u are forced to be a flirt lah...... 
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I'd profile you as the self-righteous saint who probably live under the delusion of you being indispensable. You expounded on how deeply you love your girlfriend but yet had a short relationship with some other female. You claimed you even broke up with that girl because of your love for your girlfriend - another telling of self-righteousness.Originally posted by justguyz:Anyone facing the same problem? I'm with my lst gf for more than 3 years and we still did not make love. Its so sad. I think the best moment to make love is the honey moon stage. Now its over. I feel so sad and feelingless. We pet only. I think i will still be petting even after marriage. I love her and will marry her. But seems like the more I wait the more i'm more tired. Now I understand why there is bad guy. I'm used to a 100% good guy that treasure relationship very seriously. But when i have this gf, i've changed over the years. I respect her decision to only sex after marriage. BUt who respected me? I so surpised. I can have ONS with someone I just knew and I cannot even make love to my gf! Life SUCK YA!? In my working place I can get as many gers as i want. I can even choose. But because of my gf, i resist them. I felt stupid to be nice guy! I have a short relationship with one ger but i broke up beocoz i stil love my gf even though I know I cannot make love to her. I ask her why we cannot make love and argued. She cried and told me to look for other gers! I nearly fatinted. All my loves wasted...I thought making love is a nature thing for couple... U make love to gf beocoz u love her. So she is telling me not to love her? sigh... Currently i'm very close to a pretty ger. How to resist her? I know my gf cannot live without me. But I'm sick of being fatihguy. Goodguy die earier. anyone can advise me? I'm evil now becoz of what my gf's decision affected me. I love my gf but i wanted to play around too. I'm going crazy! PLease help!!
Confused justguyz
End of nice guy, future playboy wannabe
I wouldn't want to waste too much time elucidating what is love but you shouldn't be loving someone and expecting sex in return. Love doesn't work like that, so jump out of your abusing of love please.
I implore you to respect the decision of the poor girl who probably give a great deal about you and to fully commit yourself for the relationship to work out otherwise quit wasting the poor girl's precious time and youth. As for the "I know my gf can't live without me" part, no one is indispensable, your absense do not stop the Earth from revolving.
Detached -
thk you so much O_X
i will take into consideration. -
erm...other forms of sex got anot?
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Originally posted by justguyz:Anyone facing the same problem? I'm with my lst gf for more than 3 years and we still did not make love. Its so sad. I think the best moment to make love is the honey moon stage. Now its over. I feel so sad and feelingless. We pet only. I think i will still be petting even after marriage. I love her and will marry her. But seems like the more I wait the more i'm more tired. Now I understand why there is bad guy. I'm used to a 100% good guy that treasure relationship very seriously. But when i have this gf, i've changed over the years. I respect her decision to only sex after marriage. BUt who respected me? I so surpised. I can have ONS with someone I just knew and I cannot even make love to my gf! Life SUCK YA!? In my working place I can get as many gers as i want. I can even choose. But because of my gf, i resist them. I felt stupid to be nice guy! I have a short relationship with one ger but i broke up beocoz i stil love my gf even though I know I cannot make love to her. I ask her why we cannot make love and argued. She cried and told me to look for other gers! I nearly fatinted. All my loves wasted...I thought making love is a nature thing for couple... U make love to gf beocoz u love her. So she is telling me not to love her? sigh... Currently i'm very close to a pretty ger. How to resist her? I know my gf cannot live without me. But I'm sick of being fatihguy. Goodguy die earier. anyone can advise me? I'm evil now becoz of what my gf's decision affected me. I love my gf but i wanted to play around too. I'm going crazy! PLease help!!
Confused justguyz
End of nice guy, future playboy wannabe
Frustration flowed from unsatisfied needs.
But from your description, it served more like a justification to chase another pretty face.
Chances are, even if there was sex in this relationship, the appearence of this fresh beauty will sure to tousle your relationship and the exact result would occur. Simply because the root of issue is convoluted to appear like a problem with sexual frustration, but actually, it's more about keeping a weakening facade for three years as you pretended to be 'someone' you are not.
If you are still unable respect your woman's choice after three years, then perhaps you should probably change your title to '3 years... never truly love gf'
One single need... and that's all it takes to overwhelm you and everything good about the relationship, her and your future together. Also, it's extremely unfair to say that she would be sexually frigid after marriage - that's so one-sided presumption.
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Love? It's kind of complicated, kid -
But I'll tell you this.
The second you're willing
To make yourself miserable
To make someone else happy -
That's love right there."
" Is that why I eat all my vegetables
When my mother tells me to?"
Cheers