Time to say goodbye...
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Well... i don't know...maybe he just wanted me to forget him and move on as well? i mean somehow or rather...it will affect our friendship...sometimes seeing him on the streets makes us feel a lil distant?Originally posted by stellazio:i don't really believe in not meant for each other especially if u guys have so much fun together and shares so much interest.
anyway if he really has feelings for u, he might come back.
i also find it hard to believe that while being so close to you, he can just get another gf just like that. -
i know i'm not supposed to be asking u to wait for him, but to urge u to move on in ur life instead.Originally posted by fairlady_xoxo:Well... i don't know...maybe he just wanted me to forget him and move on as well? i mean somehow or rather...it will affect our friendship...sometimes seeing him on the streets makes us feel a lil distant?
but maybe u can go ask 1 or 2 of his close friends on what he felt or is still feeling for you.
from what i read, its a real pity you're not together. -
Reading the thread, it brings back memory of a phase in my life I would rather forget
But I know I will never forget. I am happily attached now, but sometimes I will still reminiscent about the past, sometimes the "what if" question might haunt me, but the frequency is getting lesser lately, and even when it pops up, I know that I am not the one for him, and it would be better that we end up the way we are now.
I am happy now, and I hope, wherever he is, will be as well. And these well wishes come from me as a friend. When I decide to forget him, I cut off all contact with him, and since graduation until now, I have not spoken even a word with him. It did help to heal my wound and find the happiness I have now.
So I understand when you say there are people when you are meant to only be close friends with, but not more. Don't worry, time will heal your wound, as it does to mine
You will find someone else one day and you will be sure that this is the person for you, like I have now -
Hmmm actually a lot of people who know us for a long time felt it was a pity...because we are always seen together and all...back then when all this stuff hasn't happen....we were often mistaken as couples...Originally posted by stellazio:i know i'm not supposed to be asking u to wait for him, but to urge u to move on in ur life instead.
but maybe u can go ask 1 or 2 of his close friends on what he felt or is still feeling for you.
from what i read, its a real pity you're not together.
Hmmm...i don't think i will wanna ask or probe anymore...because i rather keep these memories... -
Ya...it's the "what if" questions that made me feel like holding on...but i realised that it's not going to help me ease the pain....rather i should just let it go....let it remain in my heart for as long i live?Originally posted by rainee:Reading the thread, it brings back memory of a phase in my life I would rather forget
But I know I will never forget. I am happily attached now, but sometimes I will still reminiscent about the past, sometimes the "what if" question might haunt me, but the frequency is getting lesser lately, and even when it pops up, I know that I am not the one for him, and it would be better that we end up the way we are now.
I am happy now, and I hope, wherever he is, will be as well. And these well wishes come from me as a friend. When I decide to forget him, I cut off all contact with him, and since graduation until now, I have not spoken even a word with him. It did help to heal my wound and find the happiness I have now.
So I understand when you say there are people when you are meant to only be close friends with, but not more. Don't worry, time will heal your wound, as it does to mine
You will find someone else one day and you will be sure that this is the person for you, like I have now -
well if u decide to let go, then i hope you wont have any regrets and move on.
you'll do just fine... -
Yea, the memories will always be thereOriginally posted by fairlady_xoxo:Ya...it's the "what if" questions that made me feel like holding on...but i realised that it's not going to help me ease the pain....rather i should just let it go....let it remain in my heart for as long i live?
Cherish them as part of your life ba.
I think if a guy is serious about a girl, he would have made a relationship happened within the 5 year time. Maybe the feeling isn't just enough on his part. -
Ya...i guess so too...=)Originally posted by rainee:Yea, the memories will always be there Cherish them as part of your life ba.
I think if a guy is serious about a girl, he would have made a relationship happened within the 5 year time. Maybe the feeling isn't just enough on his part.
The only thing i fear is....if this cycle happens again...but i will try not to make it happen =) spare me the hurt again... -
My condolences.
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Originally posted by Pitot:
My condolences. 
si peetoot! 
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if the cycle happens again, you shud be able to detect it earlier and put a stop to it faster compared to now...Originally posted by fairlady_xoxo:Ya...i guess so too...=)
The only thing i fear is....if this cycle happens again...but i will try not to make it happen =) spare me the hurt again... -
Cheer up...
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Take care friend, just start up a new chapter of ur life, look forward and not backward
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lols. we were on the same boat! lets move on. though i m saying this for like 2 years, yet i still nvr really get going! =)
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Ya we shouldn't be victims anymore =) it's too unfair to people like us?
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Yes. Definitely it will affect your relationship.Originally posted by fairlady_xoxo:Well... i don't know...maybe he just wanted me to forget him and move on as well? i mean somehow or rather...it will affect our friendship...sometimes seeing him on the streets makes us feel a lil distant?
The advice that I can give is to maybe avoid him for a while and also if can move on. Pursue what you like and keep yourself occupied.
I have a similar experience and the worst is mine is lack of fate. Can read my situation on this thread that I have contributed.
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=236300&page=2
Take heart that at least both of you have memorable moments together. -
bye bye...
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haix. singlehood is hard, when we look at couples, i mean for most of the singles, we felt alittle of envy and is jealous, but thats only when u were single looking at couples, as when you were in a relationship yourself, if any side is too demanding, you feel a pressure but you still feel a hold on to the relationship. hais. LOVE is so powerful!Originally posted by fairlady_xoxo:Ya we shouldn't be victims anymore =) it's too unfair to people like us? -
Chin up xoxo, you will get past it.
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Thanks peeps... =)