how to end a quarrel? tell me your tricks!!
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hey guys, recently i had a bad quarrel with my gf. but it seems like it could be avoided... quarreling over petty things as usual. but i realised that sometimes we quarrel over certain things but in fact, its not about that but its about another, chim hor. anw i wish to resolve it cos it hurting each other and i want things to go back to our happy selves. pls help me!!
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hug her tightly and apologise. and MEAN IT. this kinda situations, have to throw aside our pride lah, even if you're not in the wrong just apologise.
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i did it.. apologise but didnt get to hug her.. she still refuse to pick up my calls.. seems like she still hurts alot.. haiz
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go to her house la. when she open the door just hug her.Originally posted by brotherNoSpace:i did it.. apologise but didnt get to hug her.. she still refuse to pick up my calls.. seems like she still hurts alot.. haiz
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try givin way loh...when shes still angry that time juz give in to her...if u wanna explain ur stand, do it after she cools down...wrks for my gf la...duno abt urs...we oso quarrel quite alot one lolOriginally posted by brotherNoSpace:i did it.. apologise but didnt get to hug her.. she still refuse to pick up my calls.. seems like she still hurts alot.. haiz -
But her expensive stuff and apologies. and boys, admit your mistakes lah.
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haha that wont work. im still quite afraid of her dad haha... i think i will be meeting her tml so i'll prolly hug her then. but i want her to know whats my view about somethings which can nv be put across becos i keep apologising in a quarrel. and she just wont listen!! stuborn gal!
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Give her sometime to cool down first, then either text msg or call her saying your sorry and you love her. Mean it when you say those. Alternatively, you go to her place without telling her in advance and give her a surprise, and hug/ kiss her
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she is in the heat of a quarrel so of course she wont listen.Originally posted by brotherNoSpace:haha that wont work. im still quite afraid of her dad haha... i think i will be meeting her tml so i'll prolly hug her then. but i want her to know whats my view about somethings which can nv be put across becos i keep apologising in a quarrel. and she just wont listen!! stuborn gal!
let her cool down first. -
buy her something special that makes her want to cry and forgive you and forget about the past.
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it seems like i dunno what have i done wrong, and the way she explains it, i always have a reason to counter. but i just kept quiet becos its rather useless to say, it will only make things worst. so in the end i apologise without knowing why, i dunno if i can take it if this conts... what shld i do?Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:But her expensive stuff and apologies. and boys, admit your mistakes lah. -
It must be fate that you both can be together. Cheerish her while you can because you never know when is she going to ditch you for a better guy.Originally posted by brotherNoSpace:it seems like i dunno what have i done wrong, and the way she explains it, i always have a reason to counter. but i just kept quiet becos its rather useless to say, it will only make things worst. so in the end i apologise without knowing why, i dunno if i can take it if this conts... what shld i do?
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ask her out for a meal in some restaurant, wear nicely, make sure the place is quiet, talk about your problems and ask her to talk about yours and lastly, be sincere
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sound niceOriginally posted by ifish:ask her out for a meal in some restaurant, wear nicely, make sure the place is quiet, talk about your problems and ask her to talk about yours and lastly, be sincere
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Usually in TV hor, the female lead will surely pour water onto the male lead.. so maybe bring an extra clothings ok?Originally posted by ifish:ask her out for a meal in some restaurant, wear nicely, make sure the place is quiet, talk about your problems and ask her to talk about yours and lastly, be sincere -
haha.. but i seriously did that..Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:Usually in TV hor, the female lead will surely pour water onto the male lead.. so maybe bring an extra clothings ok?
lucky she never pour hot tea on me.. -
Originally posted by ifish:haha.. but i seriously did that..
lucky she never pour hot tea on me..
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yar.. i agree to this method.Originally posted by nyox:hug her tightly and apologise. and MEAN IT. this kinda situations, have to throw aside our pride lah, even if you're not in the wrong just apologise. -
i'm sorry. it's all my fault +
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Duh!Originally posted by LinYu:i'm sorry. it's all my fault + -
too drama liao...Originally posted by LinYu:i'm sorry. it's all my fault + -
thx guys! okay i got to go to school soon!
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i just go all quiet n sleep.
sleep it off wake up i can think clearer. -
clap clap! admirableOriginally posted by BadzMaro:i just go all quiet n sleep.
sleep it off wake up i can think clearer. -
One of you has to swallow your pride and give in, usually its the guy.