the must-have question?
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see how first.Originally posted by Eiizumi:yupz.. just give him a pek. fastest way to test it out. lol
i'm going home. anything continue tml.
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xiao di di n xiao mei mei nowadays so cute.~~~
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No, not necessary. It depends on how the relationship progress. My bf did not ask me casually or formally whether he can be my bf!Originally posted by |=hAze=|:is it really that necessary to ask the 'Can u be my gf/bf?' question?
what if the guy/gal didn't ask but already take it as it is?
are they considered gf and bf like that?
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hint him what you feel...Originally posted by |=hAze=|:i'm waiting for him to ask actually. don't know how.
he don't know that you want a comfirmation so hint him.
But dun give wrong hint or he may though you dun treat him as gf/bf... -
Ya me tooOriginally posted by BadzMaro:xiao di di n xiao mei mei nowadays so cute.~~~
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Originally posted by |=hAze=|:is it really that necessary to ask the 'Can u be my gf/bf?' question?
what if the guy/gal didn't ask but already take it as it is?
are they considered gf and bf like that? 
Not necessary, but whatever he does, it must be blatant.
Some guys, on pretext of being shy, kept it silent. Similarly, some players use that sort of ambiguous modus operandi to fool around.
But whatever it is, if a man initiate chase to his woman, he should also have the balls to close his 'deal' and learn to say 'I love you.'
If a man has no guts to tell a woman he loves her, perhaps the woman should just accept the other man who does just that.
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Ask him " Can I introduce you as my b/f to my friends?"
And check this, does he introduce you as his g/f to his friends ??? -
Initially I thought the 'must have' you are refering to is 'must have... AIR! AIR!!' or smth...Originally posted by |=hAze=|:is it really that necessary to ask the 'Can u be my gf/bf?' question?
what if the guy/gal didn't ask but already take it as it is?
are they considered gf and bf like that?
Sometimes there are a few couples who do not need spoken acknowledgement or questioning to pronounce them as an official couple. They just simply went ahead a.k.a hold hands or what. This normally involves a certain level of mutual spiritual understanding.
Normally the question is asked to confirm the status of being merely friends or more. So its up to 'what is your character like' when the person you like is involved in? How do you behave in front of him/her? And how he/she behaves when being with you. -
my hubby didn't asked me that question leh.Originally posted by |=hAze=|:is it really that necessary to ask the 'Can u be my gf/bf?' question?
what if the guy/gal didn't ask but already take it as it is?
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yup. he does.Originally posted by jojobeach:Ask him " Can I introduce you as my b/f to my friends?"
And check this, does he introduce you as his g/f to his friends ???
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Can just pek him or not?!
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give a pek and she becomes pregnant how?Originally posted by Eiizumi:Can just pek him or not?! 
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u guys think too much. can't we juz take things slowly?
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Hey, its GIVE HIM a pek loh..Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:give a pek and she becomes pregnant how?
Not let him POKE... -
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oh... I thot people are being polite nia... say "pek" instead of "poke"... but mean poke all the same...Originally posted by Eiizumi:Hey, its GIVE HIM a pek loh..
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not the same.
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since you are TS... 90% of human communication hor, is unspoken U know? Must say then die lah...Originally posted by |=hAze=|:not the same.
http://zzyx.ucsc.edu/~archer/intro.html -
okayOriginally posted by AndrewPKYap:since you are TS... 90% of human communication hor, is unspoken U know? Must say then die lah...
http://zzyx.ucsc.edu/~archer/intro.html -
That's why. Action louder than words. Pek. LOLOriginally posted by |=hAze=|:okay -
okayokay. u not the one who's gonna be peked. so enthu for what?Originally posted by Eiizumi:That's why. Action louder than words. Pek. LOL -
And what if he never ask?Originally posted by |=hAze=|:i'm waiting for him to ask actually. don't know how.
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how are things progressing now?Originally posted by |=hAze=|:u guys think too much. can't we juz take things slowly?
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Lol. Nothing. Excited for your guy.Originally posted by |=hAze=|:okayokay. u not the one who's gonna be peked. so enthu for what? -
Originally posted by Yunhaier:
I might have to disagree with this statement. What if she is the one chasing? Not necessary, but whatever he does, it must be blatant.
Some guys, on pretext of being shy, kept it silent. Similarly, some players use that sort of ambiguous modus operandi to fool around.
But whatever it is, if a man initiate chase to his woman, he should also have the balls to close his 'deal' and learn to say 'I love you.'
[b]If a man has no guts to tell a woman he loves her, perhaps the woman should just accept the other man who does just that.
Cheers[/b]
so why can't she say "I love you" first?
just because she's a girl ?
There's no rule that says the guy must say "he loves her" first.
doko