Seriously duno wads wrong.. stupid r/s...
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Where do you intend to go from here?Originally posted by clueless007:sigh, the worst has come, she want it quits.. sigh.... -
i'm juz whining... sorry.......>.<
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Just wait for her to call you...it's like going back to your school to collect your result slip. Worry also no use.Originally posted by clueless007:i duno, it seems tt she wanna call it quits, she said she got smth to tell me today. but i called her, sms her and she didn't reply me...
wanna break up say properly mah, y lk tt.... -
i duno ar, driving me nuts le...
does she want a silent break?
or has she thinking otherwise abt breaking the news to me.... -
i rly do understand her.... she nv reply me bcos she has doubts abt breaking...
now she finally responded le and sge decided not to... i wanna cry le... wad a relief...
sigh, mz rly compromise.. -
Originally posted by clueless007:i rly do understand her.... she nv reply me bcos she has doubts abt breaking...
now she finally responded le and sge decided not to... i wanna cry le... wad a relief...
sigh, mz rly compromise..
the joy of youth. -
heng ar lol.. wad a relief... finally feel relaxed after 5 days of mind boggling treatment... rly stress sia but wad doesnt kill us makes us stronger.. i'm sure we will become closer after this....
真爱无敌！！ -
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Make the right choice before it is too late...Perhaps your gf felt that you are interfering with her personal life , or may be she is stress out... well why don't you let her calm down and have a nice chat to find out the cause of the problem?
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curiousorange.. what's the third stage of relationship? what defines mature love?
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From the above statement only shows the follow thingsOriginally posted by clueless007:it's getting more and more deep.. i should really re-evaluate...
well, she's really a nice person, treats her frens truely, no ulterior motives, wun ostracize others... sometimes, she's stuck in btw 2 grps of frens as the grps are loggerheads but she'll try to resolve and bring every1 tgt. She's helpful in the sense that she'll help her frens, brother who are not very good in their studies whenever they have problems. A typical kind and responsible model student. And she's the kind of goody two shoes girl that mums will like bah.. That's y she attracts alot of pple, guys, girls and every1 juz want to befriend her. Considering she's quite pretty, a lot of guys will somehow wanna woo her as well..
However, it seems to me that those pple closer to her will get the not so good things abt her... At times, she's kinda emo, bad tempered and she's very frank, wun spare a thot for others b4 she do or say things. Not picking up calls, not replying smses, and slamming down phone are the things may do if she's emo.. Luckily, i didnt get the slamming down phone part, only her best fren experienced before =S Compromise for others is not something she will do, and breaking promises is the latest thing i discovered abt her.. I strongly believe in jun zi yi yan, si ma nan zui.. but she's a girl, so dun apply to her ba.. But all in all, it's juz her...
Has my life become a standstill when i meet her??
definitely not.. there are so many things i'm occupied with.. in the past, work, sch work, frens, family is not smth i will be stressful abt, i'm confident i can handle all this things well... But when it comes to r/s issues, i'm quite helpless though... maybe as a single child, it's the kind of emptiness one will experience.. it's not that i dun hv loving parents, or buddies but i kinda put a higher importance in r/s. I have this thinking, maybe u'll find tt i'm stupid, no matter how well ur parents or buddies treat me, i'm very appreciative of wad they've done for me over all the years and i do repay their love and concern for me, but they're not the ones who's going to live with u for the nx half of ur life till ur deathbed.. maybe it's that i'm too demanding on wad i expect from my gf.. but i realised now that having too high hopes will only result in disappointment as no one is obliged to do wad u wish they would do.
What else she can respect or admire abt me?
i duno wad other good points i have but i strongly believe that i'll treat my other half truthfully, fooling around is not something i'll do.. well, i rly duno wad's good abt me.. i'm not rich, no car, avg looks, stubborn nature and kinda overly dependent on her sometimes.. the only thing i can give her now is my heart..
1) You like her cos she is pretty.
2) You said she is not your first but how many exs do you have before?
3) You can give her your heart but does she care or needs your heart?
4) goody two shoes girl ? Have you seen a goody two shoes girl treat their bf like this?
5) You are just a fling to her thats all. How do we know ?
a) Has she done anything big for you?
b) Has she told her parents that she wants to be with you no matter what?
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C'mon now Clueless007,
She's only 17.
What do you expect from a 17 year old girl ?
At this age, I was still chionging night spots and having fun with my friends.
Exploring what possibilities life has to offer.
Boyfriends at this stage are a convenience. NOT A COMMITMENT.
She is too young for you.
If you want a serious relationship which is mutually commital, please, go find a girl who is at least your age.
If you still want to keep her. Stop complaining and just be with her. -
I think she still a gal gal and not serious in r/s yet. Just having some fun and forget abt it later. She is still looking around and do not want to be tie up by r/s.Originally posted by clueless007:intefering with her personal life??
i'd beg to differ.. she always does tt, and now it;s becoming more and more difficult to meet up as she doesnt wanna go out with me alone, afraid tt mum will noe... but today is a chance and she chose not to.. wad the hell is she thinking...
it's so bloody insensitive and she doesnt need to see me at all bah... i rly wanna juz break up with her le... no point being tgt... wad for??
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alamak, now then you know many girls are very unreasonable one issit? Live with it lah....Originally posted by clueless007:.......................................
Just sms her "I am not happy because I was looking forward to see you and you disappointed me."
Then, forget it and go out with your guys friends... or issit you got no guy friends one????!!!!
See? I have discovered your problem for you... she has a life while you do not... your life revolves around her only... how you expect her to take it????!!!!
You are very lucky (because many girls are really sticky)... but you don't know it. *sigh* -
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You wait till you are 30.Originally posted by clueless007:duno leh, 2 r/s all got non-sticky gf... wanna experience how sticky can one be.. lol
i got social life de la... but bo bian, dun wanna meet me also LL... think she still young need want to play la... let her go ba, things will go naturally de.. no need hold on too much
Girls get stickier as they grow older. -
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Seriously Clueless007,Originally posted by clueless007:yet another thing pisses me off...
her fren's fren asked her on frenster tt there's a guy wanna noe her cos she's very pretty and she agreed by replying her fren on frenster, asking the guy to add her if she wants to... i was like =S
wad is she thinking ar.....
anything i can close one eye and not take it to heart but being flirtatious rly is a (*^(*%*& $ thing to do...
Do you really love her ?
Or is she merely a trophy to you ?
I hope this is not going to end up another senseless tragedy.
Your possesive and jealousy is turning you into a monster. -
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Hey Brother Clueless,
I experienced somewhat simliar situation as you when i was young. SMS her to finding out the reason for breakoff and ignoring my msg. I chose to let go,
Dun waste your time on immature girls if she is not ready for relationship, and she may not be your type. Just move on, and you will get a better one.
In midst of finding a new one, go and upgrade urself and develop your own personal character. Find one day meet up with her and tell her abt your personal achievement. Even though she is not yours nw, make her regret. Jus too bad tat she had MISSED you. BEST you had a gf, jus tell her or show her that wat she is missing... HAHA..
Its hard to forget a relationship, when you once love her. As an old saying, " if you love her just let her go ba" no point persist if the other side is nothing willing to.. GOod luck for your future! -
You cannot force a girl into a committed relationship when she is not ready for one.Originally posted by clueless007:so u mean i shldn't be and i shld juz condone all her actions and juz dun give a shit?
Love cannot be willed, it cannot be forced, it cannot be molded into what form you desire.
If you chose to be with an immature girl, you cannot expect much from her. -
I agree with the other parts of your message. Just not this portion.Originally posted by Rod1984:In midst of finding a new one, go and upgrade urself and develop your own personal character. Find one day meet up with her and tell her abt your personal achievement. Even though she is not yours nw, make her regret. Jus too bad tat she had MISSED you. BEST you had a gf, jus tell her or show her that wat she is missing... HAHA..
Such is childish behaviour.
What happens if she achieved more than you. What happens if she has a better partner than you. What happens if she ended up happier than you. Arn't you making a fool of yourself ???
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btw it is jus an illustration, to let him move. My apologies!