Can someone tell me wat this is?
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Oh, I know about unequal yoke thing but the bible also says to love your neighbour and do unto others what you want others to do onto you. Just that I find the way she asked another person to answer the phone... quite mean. It's no longer a matter of shy or not. Most of the posts only tell half the story you know.Originally posted by Retrac:I agree wif luvofmine on the fact if she is a devoted christian.... she won't choose to let the relationship work out.
However, you really can try to noe her fwends better and maybe see if when they go out then can tag along.... at least you won't make her feel so uncomfortable as to asking her out one on one....
Since her fwends already noe that you like her, considering what tat guy said, i tink it's time to go ask her.... at least if she gives ya a direct 'no' then it's better now then you drag on, which will result in you feeling more hurt.
Oh well, but Christianity is good. There are a lot of differences within denominations but I won't go into detail here. Whatever you do don't just become a Christian for the wrong reason, k?
T|rEd ahhhh T|rEd... not suanning you lah. I'm compiling my notes here and there loh. So people around can benefit what... hahahaha... just kidding. Take care of yourself, yah?
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yoz ppl!!!!
i was surfing the net and happen to come across this site....in fact it was someone who told me got pics of gals here one
apparently, i cant see any
aniwae do expect to feel my presense from now onwards
hahahaha
so wats ur problem chokobo?
wif gals? all the ppl here have problems wif gals?
then tell u
don love anione lah, u think it will help?
hahhaa
ok lah, so y u so bothered by small stuffs like that??
do u guys all think the gal aint like this choko pal?
well have it ever occured to u the gal don even want to have a relationship?
maybe she knows u r nice but no....not now...get wat i mean?
do u see her in your life a few years from now? do u dream of her? do u wanna kiss and hold her?
if yes, then wats stopping you?
u are a guy leh....wat if the gal playing hard to get?? so many possiblities...are u gonna stand here and guess?
so wat her frens tease u? maybe they snatch the phone frm her? or maybe they know u like her and decided to tease u abit?
u so petty one meh? look it might not be a bad thing what.
of coz neither can be good too.....
juz play play only
i don suggest u go tell her now or anything
juz keep going, don ever be stopped by small obstacles
if she is matured enough she will know who is always there for her and who really ever care for her
what is this thing about moving on if the gal don like u? crap!!
if its like that, then love was never meant to be
go the extra mile for her man
hahhaaa
ciao ppl -
Yeah, i agree with Klac on the point about "don't be a christian for the wrong reason" ... The bible quotes that not because non-christians are not good enough for christians but because there might be a clash in thinking between believers and non-believers which may result in broken relationships that God definitely won't want to see
It's good to know that there are guys out there who are this serious about relationships and love issues ( like Chokobo ) ...he's not making a big fuss out of a small issue ~
I see hope ~~~~ *dreamily*
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There are so many stars in the sky, but only some are radiant enough to be noticed... Among those you choose to ignore, is the one which is willing to shine for you forever, even if your glance remains elsewhere....[J]
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hee, mayb she scared to b hurt? mayb chokobo shld let time pass n see how's her attitude towards u?
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well, all i wanted to say has been said by retrac, klac n luvofmine......haiizzzz...you gen wo qiang shen yi......nvm, me wun qi nei one! =)
basically, do consider wat they r saying lo. =)) it's like, ask urself properly, wat do u rreally hope n wish to get from her lo......do u actually really wan her to reciprocrate ur love? or i dunno....i mean wat's da main reason behind u going after her..........=) oh n, ya, look at things from her point of view tooz (like i've said b4). i realised tt u may not know much abt christianity, but from wat has been given to u here (which is rather a lil' more than enuff), put urself in her shoes, and think of wat U would haf doen if u were her.....
bear in mind the major things here.......1) christianity, 2) her shyness. mebbe there's more la, but i tink u noe la hor? no need me to quote everything down rite? hee~
oya, n 1 very very important thing to stress on.............i'm encouraging u to go to church, but rem, do not become a christian for anyone else but God Himself.......okiez???
and also, i think u could n should try going to church with the mindset tt u wanna learn more abt christianity, and about God, coz thru' God, u'll also be able to know more abt her. realise tt there's a huge difference between going to the church to learn more abt God, and going to church just to c her.....or even just to get closer to her......=) CheeriOz!! -
hi guysz......im reali thankful for everything....but i guess i wont be needing any thing anymore
becoz i have juz recieved a letter from her.and she said she has always wanted to onli be friends with me
i tink it is all over....although i tink i need a long time to get over this -
awww...realli sorrie to hear that. but on a cheerful note, now u can find other girls n other girls can find u ( pple, feel free to bash me up for being so idiotic to type that )
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*sayangz* dun b dejected la.....(okok, crap.....like if i were u i wouldn't b...) anywayz, b glad tt at least u gave it a shot at trying to get her lo....for now rite, since she oredi said she onli wants to be a fren, den go ahead befriend her lo......c-riously, i dun tink it's a direct rejection lo....and somehow, u noe, ri jiu shen qing ma.....but i dun wish tt u put too much hope into it lo....now tt she said bfren onli...den u open up ur horizon lo. =))) (ps: wat i meant is it may not b necessary 4 u to give up totally....coz it wasn't a direct rejection....hee~ ie u still stand a chance, but mebbe onli in the future, when she's willing to consider bgr....dunno la, just guessing. =) dun get ur hopes to high!!)Originally posted by chokobo:hi guysz......im reali thankful for everything....but i guess i wont be needing any thing anymore
becoz i have juz recieved a letter from her.and she said she has always wanted to onli be friends with me
i tink it is all over....although i tink i need a long time to get over this