mayb all tis wil end..

• CannyOng

  29 May 07, 23:28

  Originally posted by newbie06:

  STOP WAITING she will ruined ur life

  Agree! CLubbing gal never make it one. Of cos,there will be exceptional but better don try!
  
  I still remember a moderator call Troy married a Clubbing gal and end up in a miserable life. He post his sorrow in here and he realise it was a mistake in the first place.
  
  Free yr mind and open yr heart to more opportunities. Join more activities to know more good gal out there.
  
  It is the sole reason that u don't open yrself and limit yr opportunties that u can't forget her and move on with her life!
• Isis

  30 May 07, 16:59

  It's habit that u keep thinking about her and longing for her as u have been doing so for years .. It's natural for people to feel pain when they lose a good friend or lover. Stay strong now and soon time will wash off everythings.
  
  Probably she feel that you are pressing onto her. Perhaps it is time to let go of her. When i say let go of her meaning letting go of the pre-concepts that she can be urs when she wasn't urs in the first place.
  
  I think you should back off abit and respect her right, perhaps two of u can still be best friend if not...
  
  
• jefflim

  31 May 07, 01:18

  hi guys, thnx for the replies man.
  
  im kinda surprised that even tho i dont koe u guys, yr fast in offering some help.
  
  some of u guys told me that i shld ask for a answer, or even 'force' her for an answer.
  
  honestly i alrdy koe what her ans wil be like.
  n i also koe by askin her again, she wouldnt be happy. i dun like to c her being unhappy so i havent asked her for sometime.
  
  msg her ytd n told her that we'll be best fren for now. ill stay beside here.
  and when i finish my NS she stil doesnt have a gd bf ill go after her again.
  ive ever told her that ill wait another 3 yrs for her. 2 yrs in NS n 1 yr when im workin. i belives she know that im gd to her, bcuz she ever told me she nv doubt my love for her. and she told me im the one who love her the most
  
  mayb waitin wil bring some results? dun reli koe n dun wan to think too much and make myself unhapy again.
  i guess thats the only solution for now.
  
  i reali cant make myself break off all contacts with her jus bcuz i wan to 'free' myself..
  
  nth much i can reali do. but hey u guys rocks. thnx alot, going tekong 1 wk + time. jus wana spend alot of time with her now..cherish whatever is there. the rest.. dun think better
• the.owl

  31 May 07, 01:21

  thats pretty touching, but a proper ending would be something like one day you died and then she said "no!!! I never told him I love him!!"
• the.owl

  31 May 07, 01:22

  Originally posted by CannyOng:

  I still remember a moderator call Troy married a Clubbing gal and end up in a miserable life. He post his sorrow in here and he realise it was a mistake in the first place.
  

  lol what happened to that guy?
• jefflim

  2 Jun 07, 03:19

  is it true that when a girl makes up her mind, she wil nv change?
  it is very foolish to think that 1 day my sincerity can touch her? or does things like tis only happen in tv dramas...
  
  jus felt like a fool again..
  
  i somehow feel she was feeling down these days. wanted to do somethin to cheer her up. went to Q at donut factory. i know she wil sure like it.
  
  3hrs.. nv bought in the end.
  
  arranged to meet. she called me after her work.. i told her i Q for 3hr plus alrdy n its almost my turn.
  
  she jus said why r u so stupid, i duno what to say of u.. if u wan to buy eat yrself.
  i dun wan.. and i left the Q to went look for her.
  
  i wld nv do somethin like tis for any 1.. even if im eatin out, i wld alwiz buy frm the stall that has the least ppl Queuing up.. why she nv appreciate anythin ive done for her all this yrs.. its reali heart breakin ..
  
• agnelli

  2 Jun 07, 12:18

  wow she should at least appreciate ur effort in queueing for 3 hrs to buy something for her, instead she called u stupid, well done. TS, u deserve better girls, pls look for someone else
• Eternal-fire

  2 Jun 07, 15:07

  Come on, it's time to let her go. No point holding on, she dun appreciate the things you do for her and probably never will. So what's the point of being so good to her, unless you are a sucker for unrequited love that is.