Fear
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i dont understand.
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Don't. Bad for health.Originally posted by SGpork:i dont understand. 
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i disagree. her fault is her silliness by agreeing to go on a one to one date with someone she hardly knows.Originally posted by 798:take care. i believe u can do it as u have shown all of us a strong gal u r here!
seriously, i have already mentioned... it is not your fault dat tis kinda thing happened.
stop shielding her. she gotta learn that she makes a mistake. otherwise she will just repeat this again. -
As if by posting here asking for "helps" will really "solve" your "FEAR".....
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"Nothing to do lah"...too free.....don't you get it?Originally posted by rainee:His face that common meh?
Ask yourself, do you find it hard to forget because you still blame someone for this incident? Either you are blaming yourself or you are still blaming him?
You gotta learn to put this episode behind. You have so much more in front of you. If you let this incident ruin your life from now on, you are not strong at all. Not strong how to survive in this world?
Learn how to let go and forgive and forget. I know it is traumatizing, but it is over and done with. Learn from your mistake, you have so much more to face in the future. -
Based on this quote, Sad to say, no solution for you...Don't expect ppl to help you when you don't help yourself....Originally posted by Quinsy:As much as one tries, somethings done by others can never be forgiven, only forgotten. -
You are funny...Originally posted by CoolMyth:Aiyoh! You knew my intention!
want to go out with an old uncle with years of experience?
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i was giving her the benefit of the doubt...but i guess i shud cease doing that...Originally posted by dcx:"Nothing to do lah"...too free.....don't you get it? -
I believe this thread was started on a boring tuesday.
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Tuesday was a bad day for me.Originally posted by ditzy:I believe this thread was started on a boring tuesday. -
cant be friends with you doesnt meant cant friends othersOriginally posted by viciouskitty74:Like that how to make friends? More like providing good excuses to switch the forum off.
afterall, too many juveniles here. repercussions are just likely to kill off the webmaster, server host whatever.
juveniles is ok, can tame them
thinking adult is the worst, cant really get what they are thinking 
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The case is over.. stop living in the past...
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yawnz....
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Move on...
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Heres a tot, just a tot only.
It could be that TS has a much seeded fear, of the opposite sex being as common as her recent 'traumatic' experience.
A comon face, a common person, someone so common, it can be found anywhere in Singapore.
The Fear, that because this kind of person is so common. She is seriously fearful that she cant find someone to respect and to love in future. -
Its okay. As long as adults can understand the juveniles. thats what is called compromise which is what works in life.Originally posted by Quiet Guy:cant be friends with you doesnt meant cant friends others
juveniles is ok, can tame them
thinking adult is the worst, cant really get what they are thinking -
more likely attention seekerOriginally posted by viciouskitty74:Heres a tot, just a tot only.
It could be that TS has a much seeded fear, of the opposite sex being as common as her recent 'traumatic' experience.
A comon face, a common person, someone so common, it can be found anywhere in Singapore.
The Fear, that because this kind of person is so common. She is seriously fearful that she cant find someone to respect and to love in future. -
sorry i afraid that this might not be valid as she's is currently engaged in a new relationship....Originally posted by viciouskitty74:Heres a tot, just a tot only.
It could be that TS has a much seeded fear, of the opposite sex being as common as her recent 'traumatic' experience.
A comon face, a common person, someone so common, it can be found anywhere in Singapore.
The Fear, that because this kind of person is so common. She is seriously fearful that she cant find someone to respect and to love in future. -
Right on!!!Originally posted by LinYu:more likely attention seeker -
You didn't have to be so blunt.Originally posted by LinYu:more likely attention seeker -
Originally posted by ditzy:You didn't have to be so blunt.
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well, time will tellOriginally posted by viciouskitty74:Heres a tot, just a tot only.
It could be that TS has a much seeded fear, of the opposite sex being as common as her recent 'traumatic' experience.
A comon face, a common person, someone so common, it can be found anywhere in Singapore.
The Fear, that because this kind of person is so common. She is seriously fearful that she cant find someone to respect and to love in future.
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Put it in a nice way...Originally posted by LinYu:more likely attention seeker -
Rainee,Originally posted by rainee:i disagree. her fault is her silliness by agreeing to go on a one to one date with someone she hardly knows.
stop shielding her. she gotta learn that she makes a mistake. otherwise she will just repeat this again.
"Hardly knows" is very subjective.
How do you know if you are beyond "hardly knows"?
Are there specific perameters one can count on to determine who you can truly trust and who one should avoid going out with?
Isn't it ironical that even the ones you trust can also betray you ?
Mistakes can only be learned if she sees the truth in it.
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How can you be so sure that her experience on this incident does not affect her current/future relationship ?Originally posted by soulwinner:sorry i afraid that this might not be valid as she's is currently engaged in a new relationship....