Originally posted by machiko:
find you own things that youre good at.. and pursue them.. develop interests/hobbies.. they can help you to become more confident and happier as a whole..
when you are satisfied with your life and dun feel a need for rships to fill in that empty hole in your heart..
thats when it works magic.
when you dont look, everything falls in place magically..
and before you know it, the right girl for you will be beside you!
I fully agree except for the last part about "the right girl for you will be beside you". One still have to open eyes big big.
The most important is still to pursue and develop one's own interest and dreams.