I think would be the same except that you would try to defend her,Originally posted by darkfuryex:to me its like...u tell ur fren u like her and they say all her bad point that will make u dislike her but u still doesnt care cos that "special feeling" already existed?
When you have the special feeling , you think with your heart.Originally posted by bladez87:how does it feel like? i mean how can you tell if you really have that special feeling for someone instead of just lusting over her , or maybe even just being desperate for a partner or lust?
ya correct i agrees lolx!Originally posted by jojobeach:When you have the special feeling , you think with your heart.
When you lust , you think with your organs underneath.
When you desperate, you think with nothing.
Oh please......... that is just way too romantic a picture.Originally posted by DeadPoet:When she smiles at you, you think you are the happiest man on Earth. When she rejects you, your world crumples and you feel like a zombie with a huge hole in your heart. She is like a goddess and you willing kiss the floor she walks upon.
Well, you are not me.Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:Oh please......... that is just way too romantic a picture.
Real life is not like that.... except maybe for the first few seconds... OK maybe the first few days... but I wouldn't expect this kind of feelings (so intense) to go beyond three months.
All the girls here, quick PM DP... if he falls for you, he will worship you...Originally posted by DeadPoet:Well, you are not me.![]()
I am already married liao lah friend. But the girl that gave me this feeling is not my wife although she knows about her.Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:All the girls here, quick PM DP... if he falls for you, he will worship you...![]()
you married someone you dont love!?!?!Originally posted by DeadPoet:I am already married liao lah friend. But the girl that gave me this feeling is not my wife although she knows about her.![]()
She was the person I wanted to marry when I was still schooling. We sort of “broke off’ and not long after that I went for my NS.Originally posted by bladez87:you married someone you dont love!?!?!
So, do you feel the same way about your wife ?Originally posted by DeadPoet:She was the person I wanted to marry when I was still schooling. We sort of “broke off’ and not long after that I went for my NS.
Just before I ROD, I met this nice girl on a blind date (she was my pen-pal) and now she is my wife.![]()
The feeling for my wife is different. It is slowly built and takes time to develop. How should I put it, my feeling for my ex is like cooking fried rice, fast and furious, but my feeling for my wife is like cooking soup, small fire, takes time to perfect. Till now we are still learning something new from each other.Originally posted by jojobeach:So, do you feel the same way about your wife ?
To be able to feel comfortable with each other and to be able to remain in his/her true form in the presence of the other person is imo also a kind of special feeling. Of course after all these years we do feel strongly for each other or else we wouldnÂ’t be celebrating our 10th ROM Anniversary this year.Originally posted by bladez87:wait wait wait. u didnt marry someone that gave u that kinda special feelings, but instead married someone who was nice???
where is the special feelings?!?!?
Maybe, guess I will never know. Oh, she broke off with me for my friend. A few years after that I heard they broke off too. I think she is now in US. Anyway, I am now with my wife, a woman I love and that my friend is enough.Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:You had that overwhelming feeling for the girl you did not marry and you broke off before you lost that feeling...
If you had continued with her... you would have gained her but lost that feeling...
Life is fair, you cannot have your cake and eat it.![]()
Blaze, frankly, you will never know for sure. That's what make life so interesting.Originally posted by bladez87:how does it feel like? i mean how can you tell if you really have that special feeling for someone instead of just lusting over her , or maybe even just being desperate for a partner or lust?
there is just something about my nick that people keep spelling it wrong...Originally posted by DeadPoet:Blaze, frankly, you will never know for sure. That's what make life so interesting.![]()
My mistake, sorry about that bladez87.Originally posted by bladez87:there is just something about my nick that people keep spelling it wrong...