I need serious help~
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awww cute!Originally posted by Deportivo:
good luck. -
ok,
i do hope u pregnant, so u can forever n ever with ur bf....
this is wat u want isnt it?
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Hi sgGirlx, how's the results from the test kit?
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hmm ........ no answer .......
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I'm now going Eighteen and had regular sex with my boyfriend.
I hope you are very rich or your boyfriend is very responsible.I counted the longest period was 40days, it's now the 35th day.
Sounds like fun.My boyfriend and I is not ready to have baby and get married.
Arber then?Althought it could be late period, but I'm kind of worried.
Because you feel that this could be your last warning?My parents don't know about my one year plus relationship with this guy, but his parents knows.
So you feel quite confident of your relationship with him?My parents are of the older generation and might not accept this. I'm so so worried about it. Help?!
What is your boyfriend calibre? If you are really pregnant go counselling then with your boyfriend then. -
I tested it was negative.. Maybe beacuse of lousy brand? Getting another one tomorrow.. Can any tell me the symtoms of pregnancy?
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vomit?Originally posted by sgGirlx:I tested it was negative.. Maybe beacuse of lousy brand? Getting another one tomorrow.. Can any tell me the symtoms of pregnancy?
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These are few good links which can help you.Originally posted by sgGirlx:I tested it was negative.. Maybe beacuse of lousy brand? Getting another one tomorrow.. Can any tell me the symtoms of pregnancy?
http://www.womens-health-questions.com/pregnancysymptoms.html
http://www.babycenter.com/pregnancy-symptoms
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/symptoms-of-pregnancy/PR00102
http://pregnancy.about.com/ -
1) Did the test-kit uses blood or urine to test for pregnancy? Did you read wrongly?Originally posted by sgGirlx:I tested it was negative.. Maybe beacuse of lousy brand? Getting another one tomorrow.. Can any tell me the symtoms of pregnancy?
2) Did you follow the instruction? Check the expiry date of the test-kit?
3) Did you wait for a few minutes after dripping the urine/blood onto the test kit?
If you tested it today and it showed a negative result, then you should wait for another 2 or 3 days before testing it again.
Reasons why it show negaive reading could be
- Test kit not sensitive enough
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No point in saying so muchOriginally posted by sgGirlx:On April this year, my period came at the 2nd. On May, it came on the 2nd too. Its now 5th June and my period has not yet come. I'm now going Eighteen and had regular sex with my boyfriend. I counted the longest period was 40days, it's now the 35th day. My boyfriend and I is not ready to have baby and get married. Althought it could be late period, but I'm kind of worried. My parents don't know about my one year plus relationship with this guy, but his parents knows. My parents are of the older generation and might not accept this. I'm so so worried about it. Help?!
do the SOP then
1) Check kit if negative then ok
2) If still worry go doc to check
My question is even this time it turns out to be negative what will happen to the next time? Sex without protection is a time bomb. You can run from it this time but what about later?
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Sometimes test kits may give you false negative results.Originally posted by sgGirlx:I tested it was negative.. Maybe beacuse of lousy brand? Getting another one tomorrow.. Can any tell me the symtoms of pregnancy?
The test kit rely on the trace hormone in your urine.
If there is not enough hormone to react with the chemical it will not show as positive.
I suggest you go to a obstetrician/gynecologist to confirm this.
There is nothing to be ashamed about.
They will not report you to the police or tell your parent.
The ob/gyn will probably do a ultrasound scan or perhaps a blood test to confirm if pregnancy is present.
If you are not pregnant, please talk to the ob/gyn about contraceptives.
You will be surprised how many options you have other than condoms.
But remember that condoms can help prevent STD ( Sexually transmitted diseases).
Oral or intrauterine contraceptives will not prevent STD.
Symptoms of pregnancy differs with many people.
Some experience it, some don't.
So do not base your judgment on symptoms.
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err... If I'm not mistaken, if a girl is above 16, she is at legal for sex. I remember hearing it in TV shows and in school.Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:If he's younger than 18 hor, he's going boys home.
If he's older than 18, he's going to be cane.
Ok to back it up, I did some searching. According to this website - http://www.interpol.int/Public/Children/SexualAbuse/NationalLaws/csaSingapore.asp
Under (I. Ages for legal purposes)
Age of consent for sexual activity
The legal age of consent for sexual activity is sixteen (16) years.
Bad news is no rotan man for that guy cause the guy have consent of the girl.
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Originally posted by furb:
err... If I'm not mistaken, if a girl is above 16, she is at legal for sex. I remember hearing it in TV shows and in school.
Ok to back it up, I did some searching. According to this website - http://www.interpol.int/Public/Children/SexualAbuse/NationalLaws/csaSingapore.asp
[b]Under (I. Ages for legal purposes)
Age of consent for sexual activity
The legal age of consent for sexual activity is sixteen (16) years.
Bad news is no rotan man for that guy cause the guy have consent of the girl.
Good news is you can get married when both parties reached 18, however this is not an ideal option.
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Why 16?? Wah,I key in the wrong infor into enter into my brain 
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Originally posted by furb:
Seriously, whoever came up with this law has his/her head screwed on wrong.
err... If I'm not mistaken, if a girl is above 16, she is at legal for sex. I remember hearing it in TV shows and in school.
Ok to back it up, I did some searching. According to this website - http://www.interpol.int/Public/Children/SexualAbuse/NationalLaws/csaSingapore.asp
[b]Under (I. Ages for legal purposes)
Age of consent for sexual activity
The legal age of consent for sexual activity is sixteen (16) years.
Bad news is no rotan man for that guy cause the guy have consent of the girl.
Good news is you can get married when both parties reached 18, however this is not an ideal option.
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Pregnancy will not wait 2 years.
The law plays a part in pushing abortion rates up. -
On the first place if you and your bf not ready to have a baby what the hell you involved in sex??If you really want to have sex At least use a condom man...@@
Anyway good luck private hospital abortion fees is like 500bucks..
But thats too cruel...-.-'''
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90% must be the PAPies..Originally posted by jojobeach:Seriously, whoever came up with this law has his/her head screwed on wrong.
Pregnancy will not wait 2 years.
The law plays a part in pushing abortion rates up.
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any recommanded pregnancy kits? how much will a check cost?
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I have neither visited a gyn or bought a test-kit before.Originally posted by sgGirlx:any recommanded pregnancy kits? how much will a check cost? -
go do a test la.. down here say so mcuh also no use
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dont waste money buying test kit since pass so many days liao, either go to doc or just live on.Originally posted by sgGirlx:any recommanded pregnancy kits? how much will a check cost?
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Girl,Originally posted by sgGirlx:any recommanded pregnancy kits? how much will a check cost?
Please pick up a phone and call one clinic.
ASK them. They will let you know and make an appointment . -
My period came today...
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who told you to have unprotected sex with your boyfriend when you VERY WELL knew the consequences?Originally posted by sgGirlx:Its unprotected sex. If I really got pregnant, how should I tell my parents? Should I go for abortion? I can't afford.
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okay, sorry, I was being ... yeah.
but really, I'm not deleting what I wrote 'cause I really DO believe that you SHOULD learn.
dude, you're 18. do you really want a puny 14-year-old to tell you what to do?
you're lucky that you arent pregnant.
if you're going to go around doing those kinds of things, why don't you warn your parents first before you get pregnant?
then, maybe, when it comes, they will be prepared for it.
really.
and if you really DID get pregnant, you could always just have the child and put it up for adoption ... =S. dunno. -
sgGirlx ar.. You see so many people replied this thread, this shows that many people are concern about you.Originally posted by sgGirlx:My period came today...
Let this be a lesson leant ok?
If you and your bf doesn't have any plans for baby, then practice safe-sex next time.