Would you go after someone whom you know is attached?
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sum things wrong that means is wrong!
u cnt possibly kill a person and tell the police that u kill becos u hate the person.
no much of excuses can make up for it -
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They rationalise because they gone head over heels in 'love'. I dunno what is their defination of 'love' but mostly its one that will bring more harm than good.Originally posted by rainee:I have heard of people rationalizing their action when they become the third party.
They said as long as the rs is a happy one, a third party will not change anything. So nothing wrong with rocking the boat if it is a stable one. Some only backs off if there is a marriage in place.
I despise such people. If it is a girl, there is only one name for her.
Even if there is no marriage in mind for a couple, they should never test their relationship with a 3rd party. What for you want to rock the boat? However praying for the couple to break mah...
Personally I don't go with that because that is not in my control. They are meant to be together, they get together. If they are not, then try the best to repair what ever damages that occur.
There is this so-called 'Integrity' for a number of individuals that when they see a person they like bu tthat person is attached, then these individuals do not cut inbetween the relationship and wishes them the best, even if its hurting to the individuals who cannot have the love they wanted. -
Excuses are often given as condolences to lessen the guilt they feel on the wrongs they themselves knew they are doing. :3Originally posted by xShevchenkox:all these are merely juz excuses
l hate ppl who do wrong things liao still keep giving stupid and ridiculous excuses
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if they dun wan to feel gulity, they shldnt hav done such things in the 1st place.Originally posted by NekoRin:Excuses are often given as condolences to lessen the guilt they feel on the wrongs they themselves knew they are doing. :3
den dun nid tink of excuses or being gulity -
Hmm for these people. Their definition of 'love' is centered around they themselves. They want to take/have more than give, it's pretty harmful is one expects to keep taking and not giving. Something which needs to be drilled into their heads = =Originally posted by Bontakun:They rationalise because they gone head over heels in 'love'. I dunno what is their defination of 'love' but mostly its one that will bring more harm than good.
Even if there is no marriage in mind for a couple, they should never test their relationship with a 3rd party. What for you want to rock the boat? However praying for the couple to break mah...
Personally I don't go with that because that is not in my control. They are meant to be together, they get together. If they are not, then try the best to repair what ever damages that occur.
There is this so-called 'Integrity' for a number of individuals that when they see a person they like bu tthat person is attached, then these individuals do not cut inbetween the relationship and wishes them the best, even if its hurting to the individuals who cannot have the love they wanted. -
hmmm depends
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Yup, because this is sort of like a gray area.Originally posted by Bontakun:They rationalise because they gone head over heels in 'love'. I dunno what is their defination of 'love' but mostly its one that will bring more harm than good.
Even if there is no marriage in mind for a couple, they should never test their relationship with a 3rd party. What for you want to rock the boat? However praying for the couple to break mah...
Personally I don't go with that because that is not in my control. They are meant to be together, they get together. If they are not, then try the best to repair what ever damages that occur.
There is this so-called 'Integrity' for a number of individuals that when they see a person they like bu tthat person is attached, then these individuals do not cut inbetween the relationship and wishes them the best, even if its hurting to the individuals who cannot have the love they wanted.
I believe that even if there is a 3rd party, it is not really that easy to break up a rs as long as it is a secure and happy one. If the presence of the 3rd party matters, that means there is seriously something lacking in the rs. -
on ?Originally posted by allentyb:hmmm depends
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Some don't even feel guilty...Originally posted by xShevchenkox:if they dun wan to feel gulity, they shldnt hav done such things in the 1st place.
den dun nid tink of excuses or being gulity
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Yea lor...Originally posted by NekoRin:Hmm for these people. Their definition of 'love' is centered around they themselves. They want to take/have more than give, it's pretty harmful is one expects to keep taking and not giving. Something which needs to be drilled into their heads = =
rs is all about giving and taking...striking a balance between these two is very important
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Self-centered love then. Loving the person based on that, more than likely, will NOT yield a good outcome in the relationship. To love is to give. If both sides give, then wouldn't it feel good to receive when you least expect it?Originally posted by NekoRin:Hmm for these people. Their definition of 'love' is centered around they themselves. They want to take/have more than give, it's pretty harmful is one expects to keep taking and not giving. Something which needs to be drilled into their heads = =
However quite a number of people cannot resist the temptations of self-centered loving. What they want compared to what they can give. What they desire compared to what they can do for others. Such selfishness will destroy not only yourself, but the people around you as well. -
do wrong things le, feeling gulity...a bad person but still got a bit of hopeOriginally posted by rainee:Some don't even feel guilty...
do wrong things le, dun feel anything, that is the worst kind of ppl..worst than an animal, this kind l really wan throw eggs at them le -
Aye. The main focus is on the relationship. Outside intereferences only serves to test the bonding of the relationships and at many times, unfortunately, brings out the ugliness in a relationship that is not stable to begin with.Originally posted by rainee:Yup, because this is sort of like a gray area.
I believe that even if there is a 3rd party, it is not really that easy to break up a rs as long as it is a secure and happy one. If the presence of the 3rd party matters, that means there is seriously something lacking in the rs. -
No I would not do that.
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How would they feel guilty if they think that it is not wrong in the first place?Originally posted by xShevchenkox:do wrong things le, feeling gulity...a bad person but still got a bit of hope
do wrong things le, dun feel anything, that is the worst kind of ppl..worst than an animal, this kind l really wan throw eggs at them le
From their viewpoint they are thinking: this person is not in a happy relationship, I am helping him/her to get out of it, so that he/she can be happier with me.
If you put it this way, actually there is nothing wrong with being a third party at all (lolz I am amazed I can say this ) 
Now I would say the fault lies with the person who gives in and goes off with the third party. Hmm.
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Found something written by someone in another forum regarding the issue of giving in to temptation...Originally posted by Bontakun:Aye. The main focus is on the relationship. Outside intereferences only serves to test the bonding of the relationships and at many times, unfortunately, brings out the ugliness in a relationship that is not stable to begin with.
"I encounter a lot of stupid people each day. I'm tempted - very strongly - to rid the world of them. But... I just don't have enough motivation to risk prison over them.
Likewise, I encounter a lot of women each day. I find a lot of them very attractive. But... I just don't have enough motivation to risk divorce over them.
Getting back to stupid people, even if I wanted to act on those temptations, I never seem to have the opportunity to get a clear shot at them and make a clean getaway.
Likewise, despite being willing to risk everything to have sex with Demi Moore, in the real world, that's an opportunity that will NEVER come up.
Temptations alone isn't usually enough to act. You need both the motivation and the opportunity to follow through. And he might be motivated to do it under some circumstances, but the opportunity would have to be there too.
The other issue is trust. A lot of people believe in god without ever having tangible proof. Yet they still don't believe that their loved ones aren't cheating on them..." -
Yes. I will definately go for her, whether she is attached or not.
In fact i am thats what i am currently doing now.
I don't care whether her relationship 1yr or 10yrs, BF threaten me or not, virgin or not, married or not.
Thats the true meaning of love, not backing out the moment u see that she is attached. This is so superficial. -
-_-" plz la..the gal attached liao means belongs to other ppl le..u wan snatch for wad. fight simi!Originally posted by pinkish purple papayas:Yes. I will definately go for her, whether she is attached or not.
In fact i am thats what i am currently doing now.
I don't care whether her relationship 1yr or 10yrs, BF threaten me or not, virgin or not, married or not.
Thats the true meaning of love, not backing out the moment u see that she is attached. This is so superficial.
u like ppl snatch ur things? if u dun like..dun go do such things -
What do u mean by gal belong to other people? Females are free to choose whatever people they wanna be with. What a sexist statement u are making.Originally posted by xShevchenkox:-_-" plz la..the gal attached liao means belongs to other ppl le..u wan snatch for wad. fight simi!
u like ppl snatch ur things? if u dun like..dun go do such things
If they can snatch my things, it proofs that i nvr take care of my things properly. vice-versa.
Love should not be limited only to the singles. Its free and we are living in a free world.
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but hey there are so many gals around..u dun hav to resort to go buaya attached gals bah.Originally posted by pinkish purple papayas:What do u mean by gal belong to other people? Females are free to choose whatever people they wanna be with. What a sexist statement u are making.
If they can snatch my things, it proofs that i nvr take care of my things properly. vice-versa.
Love should not be limited only to the singles. Its free and we are living in a free world.
(free) as in no boundaries.
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Attraction is an arrow that flies to any direction. Doesnt restrict to only single gals.Originally posted by xShevchenkox:but hey there are so many gals around..u dun hav to resort to go buaya attached gals bah.
suay suay my arrow fly to a gal that is already attached.
I rather give it a try rather to spend the next 20yrs of my life wondering, what if?
and so far it has been working out fine.. -
I won't.
But I will make myself by the ready-made standby replacement. -
but certainly l do think that the way u do tis thing is wrong la.Originally posted by pinkish purple papayas:Attraction is an arrow that flies to any direction. Doesnt restrict to only single gals.
suay suay my arrow fly to a gal that is already attached.
I rather give it a try rather to spend the next 20yrs of my life wondering, what if?
and so far it has been working out fine..
is like u are snatching other guys gf..and l am sure if u succeed, the guy sure hate u for sure..and if the gal could leave with u, she definitely is not a good person. she can do to u one day oso.
and l guess if u ask around, not much ppl will agree with what u say -
Erm, may i know how is she responding to you?Originally posted by pinkish purple papayas:Yes. I will definately go for her, whether she is attached or not.
In fact i am thats what i am currently doing now.
I don't care whether her relationship 1yr or 10yrs, BF threaten me or not, virgin or not, married or not.
Thats the true meaning of love, not backing out the moment u see that she is attached. This is so superficial.
and how is her r/s with her bf?
