Losing Faith...
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I personally think u are a jerk , a bit sadistic
if the girl treat u nicely , treat them nicely.
So I assum u like girls to treat u bad mah? u are a bit crazy la...
just because u are rejected then u have no courage to express ur like..
Are u a guy??
just dun lose faith ! u must jia you and find the person u like and hope to be with!
I see that u fall in love quite easy and have a great imagination too!
Sometime , the girls wanted to be friend with you!
Jia you! be yourself and buck up!
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[quote]Originally posted by Sakuraflower:
I personally think u are a jerk , a bit sadistic
[b]if the girl treat u nicely , treat them nicely.
So I assum u like girls to treat u bad mah? u are a bit crazy la...
Lol.. I no longer behave jerky when i meet girls liao. But rather i treat them like normal friend. Furthermore, I will always convince myself that when a girl treats me nicely is because we are friends. Not like in past, i will think about y she does this or that, does she likes me? Well just share with u this incident, a female friend of mine got her ankle sprained when playing catching (sec sch days u know). Then, she asks me to help her remedy her pain, then i touch her ankle twist here and there and ask her pain a not. If u are a sec 4 guy, what will u think? to a guy, when we touch a girl ankle, we are like WTH y u ask me to remedy y not ask a girl, u must be liking me so that i can touch ur ankle, right? But to a girl, they are like i need ur help and can please help.
just because u are rejected then u have no courage to express ur like..
Are u a guy??
I am a guy but i am also a human, i need time to recover. Some more, i got pride one also. Ok if u say i cannot let go my ego. But.... is just a man thing, dun know how to explain.
just dun lose faith ! u must jia you and find the person u like and hope to be with!
I will try
I see that u fall in love quite easy and have a great imagination too!
I can't help but agree with u more.
Sometime , the girls wanted to be friend with you!
In the past, i will think is impossible. But now, i believe i can have girl as friend, but normal ones (those that says hi when met).
Jia you! be yourself and buck up!
I will
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hey TS, suffering from inferiority complex is normal.....dun have to shut urself off & behave indifferently.Originally posted by Uncertain:ya thanks for the advice, i think i will just be like bladez87 just wait and see. thanks jojobeach, i dun need supermodel gf, i just need a kind-hearted girl who is filial and decent-looking (that is the pretty that i am refering to) that's all. Ya thanks for the advice, i will be a nice guy in Uni. If we are fated, we will be together.
Just be urself, if someones catched ur fancy....no harm trying but dun rush, its good to wait & see. Afterall, ur still young -
woah, I hav to say those girls are really something .. reject reject lo, they think they are born in heaven, scarely in the end they are left on the shelf. no bid deal lo, when they reject, that means u either rush in or they are day dreaming.
see yourself as a good guy, make sure u r. if they reject you, that only means they lose one chance to find mr right. trying to sell 10 bucks for each pear, no deal. ask them wake up. -
After reading through all ur advices, i think i have regained a bit of faith in love again. Nothing can beat me except for myself. Though i have overcome falling in love readily now, i think i still need time to embark into a new relationship. As a saying goes, "love creeps in when one is the most unprepared". So, if i feel that i really like a girl, i will try to be her friend first. Like what Yunhaier says: you find yourself hastily falling in love with whoever that treats you nicely, you are just going to spoil the broth even if there's only one cook. And thanks Scania N113CRB luver. it is really sweet of u to compliment me as a sweet guy and also not to forget about ur encouragement. Thanks. And jojobeach, i still cannot help but can u explain this to me:" I get it that you like pretty girls. Would you accept an average plain Jane?" Dun tell me u are Jane? i am thinking this as a common phrase used nowadays. Ya bladez87 let's work hard, i believe one day we will find our true love as we remains optimistic. As for the others, thanks really.
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With 3 rejections you are on your way to an acceptance statistically speaking.
Giving up or holding back now is just plain not sensible. -
yo........nice to hear that.....wish you good luckOriginally posted by Uncertain:After reading through all ur advices, i think i have regained a bit of faith in love again. Nothing can beat me except for myself. Though i have overcome falling in love readily now, i think i still need time to embark into a new relationship. As a saying goes, "love creeps in when one is the most unprepared". So, if i feel that i really like a girl, i will try to be her friend first. Like what Yunhaier says: you find yourself hastily falling in love with whoever that treats you nicely, you are just going to spoil the broth even if there's only one cook. And thanks Scania N113CRB luver. it is really sweet of u to compliment me as a sweet guy and also not to forget about ur encouragement. Thanks. And jojobeach, i still cannot help but can u explain this to me:" I get it that you like pretty girls. Would you accept an average plain Jane?" Dun tell me u are Jane? i am thinking this as a common phrase used nowadays. Ya bladez87 let's work hard, i believe one day we will find our true love as we remains optimistic. As for the others, thanks really. remember to post when you found a girl k 
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It's common for guy to like gal.. Just build up you self-esteem and live a normal life.. Cheer.
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You can always look for the "less than average looking" but intelligent girls.
Don't tell people that you are 'Horny" only by girl's looks.
I have friends who are good looking but their intellectual properties fail to such a "blonde" level that ....................
Shifting in perspective will mostly help from within. Otherwise remain as it is until you realise that you are not alone in Singlehood. -
i think u better practise some self-control.
fall for pretty girls easily? lol.. -
Live life to the fullest.Originally posted by Uncertain:I am a 21 years old with no successful BGR before but with 3 unsuccessful confessions....
I am feeling rather dejected by this. I know there are others out there who suffer much worse fate than me (after reading through the AA forum) but i am starting to feel lethargic about relationship. I admit i get attracted to pretty girls easily but because of my look and past experience, I always try to refrain myself from liking them. To prevent them from being kind to me which always give me false hope, i will act like a jerk to them but not to the extent that i am so resentful (still can be normal friend that kind). The 3 confessions i made to the girls is because they are just being nice to me, then i thought they like me (but i also like them too la). Now i am going to UNI soon, i am wondering i should go for the orientation cos i hear from my senior that you will get to know a lot of people there, especially chio bu. I am scared of falling in love again, i rather to be single than to be hurted again. Now that i am no longer feeling much for girl (dun say i gay, i hate them to the core, i rather be a virgin till i die than to be a gay), i am reverting back to my true self now (no longer acting like a jerk) as i dun like to wear a mask if i can afford to. Despite saying all this, i am yielding that one day i can get a really good girlfriend so that i won't leave this earth with any regret. Sian..... Sry but i just wanna grumble....
if you are always afraid of getting hurt, then you'll never fully experience life and love.
I'm not going to kid you by saying that the next time it'll be better that if you do this this that that it will be sucessfull.
Life is uncertain. that's the only constant thing.
If you ever wanna love and live life happy,
You Will hurt.
You Will cry.
You Will fail.
You Will be disappointed.
You Will grief.
that's true but If you do not let that put you down, if you are unafraid, if you continue to reach for the things in life that you want, at some point,
You Will be happy
You Will be sucessful.
You Will be glad you tried.
the question is : do you wanna live your life in fear, letting the fear of getting hurt dictate what you do, or what you CANT do?
or Do you wanna live life without regrets.
no pain no gain. if u do not take the risk, then your life will just be a dull straight line.