troubled.
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I have a crush on my friend.
Since last three or four months, i brought dinner to her workplace. Everytime I go out with her, i will pay everything. Although I didnt went out with her a lot of time. Is it possible that she know i like her?
Till now, I dont know how she feel towards me. The crush already lasted almost 4 years. But it wasnt strong all the time. My feelings recently grew strong for her. What should i do? -
wow... so noble...
did she say anything when u keep paying for everything?? -
she didnt say anything. but she did mention something about guy should treat the girl when going out.Originally posted by mhcampboy:wow... so noble...
did she say anything when u keep paying for everything?? -
wow. u r either real rich. or u r real generous. keep paying for a girl for 4 years???
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hmmm, this is tough....Originally posted by soggy87:she didnt say anything. but she did mention something about guy should treat the girl when going out.
Was she jokingly saying it? Cos I dun think i would pay for my just galfren.
Didnt u feel any vibes from her?? -
bullsh|t. she taking advantage of your generousityOriginally posted by soggy87:she didnt say anything. but she did mention something about guy should treat the girl when going out. -
LOl..well, my guess is, the girl noes u like her and is waiting for u to just tell her (:
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no la. i didnt went out with her a lot of times. just a few times only. i wasnt that close with her for the first 2 years. only recently.Originally posted by bladez87:wow. u r either real rich. or u r real generous. keep paying for a girl for 4 years??? -
besides her, i also went out a girl before. in the end that girl ignored me. so she said maybe because i didnt treat her so she ignored me.Originally posted by mhcampboy:hmmm, this is tough....
Was she jokingly saying it? Cos I dun think i would pay for my just galfren.
Didnt u feel any vibes from her?? -
hmm. everytime is i auto 1. she didnt open her mouth to ask me to treat her.Originally posted by bladez87:bullsh|t. she taking advantage of your generousity -
wtf..l dun like such gals lehz. They happy but they never tink abt the pockets of the guy.Originally posted by soggy87:she didnt say anything. but she did mention something about guy should treat the girl when going out.
what is this stupid theory..then u joke back with her say...ya..guy shld treat the gal only if the gal agreed to be his gf.
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To TS, tell u sumtinz bah
if a gal really like u, u wont hav to spent alot of $ or efforts to get her
l tink she is juz taking advantage of u. Thinking u as a robert to chop
a gal who really likes u will help u tink and wont like u always paying for her de -
hmmm... that means its my wishful thinking?Originally posted by xShevchenkox:To TS, tell u sumtinz bah
if a gal really like u, u wont hav to spent alot of $ or efforts to get her
l tink she is juz taking advantage of u. Thinking as a robert to chop
a gal who really likes u will help u tink and wont like u always paying for her de -
u can say that...but l am not really sure abt the whole situation oso..Originally posted by soggy87:hmmm... that means its my wishful thinking?
hmm from what l see, it seems that it is ur wishful thinking...she tell u that guy go out with gal must pay everything, from this sentence she say..she makes a beri poor image of herself le...such gals no good...
can skip liao
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hate to say this but..
ts move on bah.. -
time to pluck up courage ask her out and ask her be gf
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does age matters also? she is mid twenty.Originally posted by xShevchenkox:u can say that...but l am not really sure abt the whole situation oso..
hmm from what l see, it seems that it is ur wishful thinking...she tell u that guy go out with gal must pay everything, from this sentence she say..she makes a beri poor image of herself le...such gals no good...
can skip liao -
if it is that easy to move on, i will already did that.Originally posted by hatemeifuwantto:hate to say this but..
ts move on bah.. -
haha. I dun even know whether she like me or not.Originally posted by anhydrouscoppersulphate:time to pluck up courage ask her out and ask her be gf -
and how old r u?
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if u r my age. born in 87. then jio her. if she accept good. if not forget her. what are you thinking sia. she is mid 20s, probably working, and probably earning a lot more than u r.
what makes you think u can support her financially? dont say support la...but if she wanna go high class dining areas u can afford ma? Zzz
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she is at her golden age..it is to her advantageOriginally posted by soggy87:does age matters also? she is mid twenty.
juz think, not only u vying her..there are oso other guys that are vying too -
i have a crush on this girl for 4 years also..
n even broke up with my ex for her...
i did move on..i bet u could too. -
I knew this girl , when i say i wanted to treat her to eat and buy presents for her , she keep insisting dont want and kept saying "Dont want lah ...Very pai seh der..." and "Dont want lah...I poor ...But i dont wish anyone treat me bah...Quite pai seh.."Originally posted by xShevchenkox:wtf..l dun like such gals lehz. They happy but they never tink abt the pockets of the guy.
But i also got this cousin of mine , who will go steady with a guy ...and suck his pocket dry . When he dont have any money left, she will kick him far far .
Both girls are the same age , Sec 1 . See the differences . -
that is y...sum gals out there is juz wanting to suck $ out from guys. dun like the guy but still lingers ard the guy.Originally posted by Scania N113CRB luver:I knew this girl , when i say i wanted to treat her to eat and buy presents for her , she keep insisting dont want and kept saying "Dont want lah ...Very pai seh der..." and "Dont want lah...I poor ...But i dont wish anyone treat me bah...Quite pai seh.."
But i also got this cousin of mine , who will go steady with a guy ...and suck his pocket dry . When he dont have any money left, she will kick him far far .
Both girls are the same age , Sec 1 . See the differences .
haha, big difference...then u never chide ur cousin for such behaviour mehz?
l prefer gals that are independent and more zi dong, and offered to pay sum of the $ by themselves on the date. at least be considerate.