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Chide for what ? Sec 1 only lehs . Follow gigabyte14 style .Originally posted by xShevchenkox:haha, big difference...then u never chide ur cousin for such behaviour mehz?
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Kids " .
I believe she one day will grow up and realize that sucking guys pocket dry will only harm her and make her detestable to guys who will treat girls well , and attracts those bad guys instead .
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hmm..but sec 1 to hav such mentality a bit frightening lehz. more or less if u can, say say her a bit.Originally posted by Scania N113CRB luver:Chide for what ? Sec 1 only lehs . Follow gigabyte14 style .
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Kids " .
I believe she one day will grow up and realize that sucking guys pocket dry will only harm her and make her detestable to guys who will treat girls well , and attracts those bad guys instead .
haha, but guess both of us tinks the same regarding this
Gals that expects or says that guys shld pay for everything during dates is a very BIG turn off -
It is BIG turn off for me !Originally posted by xShevchenkox:Gals that expects or says that guys shld pay for everything during dates is a very BIG turn off
But on the first date , i think guys might have to pay for everything bah . Subsequent dates think share among each other .
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Ah. Actually it is true lah.
If a girl likes the guy, she will not behave like a gold diggin biatcch...
because she wants the guy to like her also mah.
Everyone knows no smart guy will go for a gold digger lah.
Unless he damn desperate, or damn stupid lah.
But the first date hor.. guys must pay.. it is to leave a good impression.
This way the girl will not think you are a stinkin cheapskate lah. -
I have a friend who is like this one . Everything he expects to be waited on . And when girls played a prank on us , he said " I have little patience with girls ." Oh my .Originally posted by jojobeach:Ah. Actually it is true lah.
If a girl likes the guy, she will not behave like a gold diggin biatcch...
because she wants the guy to like her also mah.
Everyone knows no smart guy will go for a gold digger lah.
Unless he damn desperate, or damn stupid lah.
But the first date hor.. guys must pay.. it is to leave a good impression.
This way the girl will not think you are a stinkin cheapskate lah.
I've seen on TV how stingy the guy can be . Even a few cents drink also dont want treat . Let alone a $20 meal . -
haha okiesOriginally posted by Scania N113CRB luver:It is BIG turn off for me !
But on the first date , i think guys might have to pay for everything bah . Subsequent dates think share among each other .
hmm as for me...pay is will pay la..but not everything like l say -
l do giv treats to my guy frenz when they help me in sumtinz or sumtime l juz offered ...buy drinks for themOriginally posted by Scania N113CRB luver:I have a friend who is like this one . Everything he expects to be waited on . And when girls played a prank on us , he said " I have little patience with girls ." Oh my .
I've seen on TV how stingy the guy can be . Even a few cents drink also dont want treat . Let alone a $20 meal . -
These kinda guy... unless he looks like Leonardo Di Carprio.... it not ... hard to get a decent girl lor...Originally posted by Scania N113CRB luver:I have a friend who is like this one . Everything he expects to be waited on . And when girls played a prank on us , he said " I have little patience with girls ." Oh my .
I've seen on TV how stingy the guy can be . Even a few cents drink also dont want treat . Let alone a $20 meal .
Maybe those foreign talent girls who is looking for a PR sponsor willing to take him in lah.
If not hor, even aunties also spit on him leh.
Else he could just be gay ??? That's why don't give girls a damn
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hmm looks like alot of guys here insist that 1st date shld pay everything hor...Originally posted by jojobeach:Ah. Actually it is true lah.
If a girl likes the guy, she will not behave like a gold diggin biatcch...
because she wants the guy to like her also mah.
Everyone knows no smart guy will go for a gold digger lah.
Unless he damn desperate, or damn stupid lah.
But the first date hor.. guys must pay.. it is to leave a good impression.
This way the girl will not think you are a stinkin cheapskate lah.
shld l change my mindset...1st date must pay all?
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in short the guy must be a lengzaiOriginally posted by jojobeach:These kinda guy... unless he looks like Leonardo Di Carprio.... it not ... hard to get a decent girl lor...
Maybe those foreign talent girls who is looking for a PR sponsor willing to take him in lah.
If not hor, even aunties also spit on him leh. -
lei hei cantonese yan har ?Originally posted by xShevchenkox:in short the guy must be a lengzai -
Did she treats you like a friend? As in will she confide in u or at least chit chat with you when u didn't initate? If not, she is just treating you like an ATM. If got, then go ahead to confess, dun waste ur time. Cos you all have known each other for 4 years.Originally posted by soggy87:I have a crush on my friend.
Since last three or four months, i brought dinner to her workplace. Everytime I go out with her, i will pay everything. Although I didnt went out with her a lot of time. Is it possible that she know i like her?
Till now, I dont know how she feel towards me. The crush already lasted almost 4 years. But it wasnt strong all the time. My feelings recently grew strong for her. What should i do?
Wish u luck
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she did chit chat with me. sometimes i will wait for her to knock off and take the bus together. but she did mention i am too free already.Originally posted by Uncertain:Did she treats you like a friend? As in will she confide in u or at least chit chat with you when u didn't initate? If not, she is just treating you like an ATM. If got, then go ahead to confess, dun waste ur time. Cos you all have known each other for 4 years.
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sometimes i will have a feeling of mother lecturing me when she chit chat with me.
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hmm not like a very positive reply. If she likes u..she wont be saying that de.Originally posted by soggy87:she did chit chat with me. sometimes i will wait for her to knock off and take the bus together. but she did mention i am too free already. -
soggy y not u juz mia a while 1st lo...dun initiate chat with her or whatever
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hmmm... i will try that. but eh a bit hard.Originally posted by xShevchenkox:soggy y not u juz mia a while 1st lo...dun initiate chat with her or whatever
see if she will auto come and find u?
she got a singtel contract with my name on it. she will pay me every month when i asked her for the money. this is the fourth month le. -
U Mentioned about the age difference. I personally think that at mid-twenties, some gals will start thinking long term. Look at it this way. When she hit 30, u probably just finish university(if that's what u wanna do) or just come out to work. By then, she most probably thinking about marriage plans liao. What are u gonna do? You can wait, a woman's youth can't.
Besides, i am sure that physically, she is attractive for u to have this long crush. Other guys in her workplace will probably notice the same things that u like about her, and probably also tackling her. If I were the woman, and if I am thinking long-term, i probably will choose guys from my workplace, because financially, they are more stable, and probably, we will have more common interests since we are ard the same age, and more things to talk about.
There's 2 things u can do. one is tell her how u feel, and then move on with life. Or, u can continue to like her in secret, and wait for the dreadful day when she finally tells u she has a bf. I am not saying that u won't succeed, but chances are, you probably won't if you just keep quiet. Tell her how u feel, and then from her answer either go into a relationship with her, or go and find other girls. -
Wow!! mr ATM!!!
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Damn easy... just hold her hand in one of the date and u noe liao lor...Originally posted by soggy87:Is it possible that she know i like her?
Till now, I dont know how she feel towards me. The crush already lasted almost 4 years. But it wasnt strong all the time. My feelings recently grew strong for her. What should i do?
Omg... u have been with her 4 yrs... and she say that guys suppose to pay for the date... Then just go and hold her hand lah... -
TS, just get rid of her.
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just tell her ur in love......if she asks u who that person ur in love with......u might stand a great chance
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The main thing is if she's ever did anything more to show her appreciation other than saying, "Thank you."
If not, she's just making use of you.
Its a give and take r/s.
You give, she take.
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\Originally posted by Eiizumi:The main thing is if she's ever did anything more to show her appreciation other than saying, "Thank you."
If not, she's just making use of you.
Its a give and take r/s.
You give, she take.
Love is mutual, so give and take in love is two-way.
she did bought me a shirt after i gave her some presents some time ago. she did thank me in a way.