My mother just do not trust me at all
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Spent the whole of today and yesterday revising for the mid years in the library..
8 hours a day..amounting to 16 hours of revision
but when i reach home..
what did i get?
got a scolding from her of not spending my time wisely as home to revise
wth is this man...
i explain to her le that i was out at the library...
but she just refuses to believe me
dam pissed off -
anyone encountered this b4? where ppl ard u simple refuse to believe or give u credit for what u have done..??
how do u cope with it? -
if she doesnt do tat... she is not a mother..
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I never encounter this b4. My mum very lax with me de..
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scold already, then scold already lor. why so bitter?
the more important thing is that you did your job. don't bother about the rest. -
go pm eric cartman on wad to do.. he have the best advice for u
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i mean..shes my mother leh....
even my friends ( outsiders ) place more faith in me than her...=/
wth...
what eva it is...anything la ...i dun give a shyt anymore..
shall continue going to the library every SINGLE day during the holidays to prepare for my midyears..=/
at least i know i did not betray my own conscience...
if she scolds me..i juz bo chap her liaos... -
Originally posted by ifish:go pm eric cartman on wad to do.. he have the best advice for u
advice.. -
I hope my son will not think that when I show him concern.Originally posted by AMEN567889:Spent the whole of today and yesterday revising for the mid years in the library..
8 hours a day..amounting to 16 hours of revision
but when i reach home..
what did i get?
got a scolding from her of not spending my time wisely as home to revise
wth is this man...
i explain to her le that i was out at the library...
but she just refuses to believe me
dam pissed off
But I have to say, your mom was quick to jump. -
haha... up till now... my mother always nag at me...
one ear in, one ear out lor
In general, people who are very senior, have the experience but generally their mind is more inflexible. Therefore, dont place so much heart in their naggings as long as u noe they r doing for yr own good. Also as, they r much more senior, u still have to show respect to them. Showing respect allows you to tap their experience. With their experience and yr ideas, just choose yr own path.
If u still want more example, read Albert Einstein's biography
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Albert_Einstein
He influrence the world with his revolutionary ideas. In the beginning, his ideas are not accepted by people who are more senior to him. -
showing concern does not include accusing me of doing the things i did not do without any solid proofOriginally posted by Xiaozzhen:I hope my son will not think that when I show him concern.
But I have to say, your mom was quick to jump.
showing concern does not include raising her voice at me when i did nothing wrong
showing concern does not include TELLING MY COUSINS HOW UNFILIAL AM I AS A SON
showing concern means caring for me..and most importantly...have trust in me...
i m not those pia kia who goes in and out rehab centres
i also dun have any bad discipline records...
my academic records are fine too...
why cant she just trust me? -
Yes. I see Prof. Albert Einstein as my Mentor.Originally posted by ispyyy:haha... up till now... my mother always nag at me...
one ear in, one ear out lor
In general, people who are very senior, have the experience but generally their mind is more inflexible. Therefore, dont place so much heart in their naggings as long as u noe they r doing for yr own good. Also as, they r much more senior, u still have to show respect to them. Showing respect allows you to tap their experience. With their experience and yr ideas, just choose yr own path.
If u still want more example, read Albert Einstein's biography
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Albert_Einstein
He influrence the world with his revolutionary ideas. In the beginning, his ideas are not accepted by people who are more senior to him. -
Originally posted by AMEN567889:i mean..shes my mother leh....
even my friends ( outsiders ) place more faith in me than her...=/
wth...
what eva it is...anything la ...i dun give a shyt anymore..
shall continue going to the library every SINGLE day during the holidays to prepare for my midyears..=/
at least i know i did not betray my own conscience...
if she scolds me..i juz bo chap her liaos...
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They always think they are correct..Originally posted by ispyyy:haha... up till now... my mother always nag at me...
one ear in, one ear out lor
In general, people who are very senior, have the experience but generally their mind is more inflexible. Therefore, dont place so much heart in their naggings as long as u noe they r doing for yr own good. Also as, they r much more senior, u still have to show respect to them. Showing respect allows you to tap their experience. With their experience and yr ideas, just choose yr own path.
If u still want more example, read Albert Einstein's biography
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Albert_Einstein
He influrence the world with his revolutionary ideas. In the beginning, his ideas are not accepted by people who are more senior to him.
they are superior...
some times when i correct her...she will tell me not to be so proud..blah blah blah...
i guess ur right...
but den...
nag and scolding are 2 completely things...
if she nags at me...
nvm one..i know she cares abt me...
but once she starts to raise her voice and scold me or accuse me...
its another story liaos... -
ya ...wadeva la...Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99: -
HmM~ Do you have any siblings?
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only son...Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:HmM~ Do you have any siblings? -
haha good cause you suck your mother dont trust you. YOU must have done something behind her back so she dun trust you. ORBIE!!!
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I am going to learn from your mom, not to do what she did.Originally posted by AMEN567889:showing concern does not include accusing me of doing the things i did not do without any solid proof
showing concern does not include raising her voice at me when i did nothing wrong
showing concern does not include TELLING MY COUSINS HOW UNFILIAL AM I AS A SON
showing concern means caring for me..and most importantly...have trust in me...
i m not those pia kia who goes in and out rehab centres
i also dun have any bad discipline records...
my academic records are fine too...
why cant she just trust me? -
dun make ur son hate u..Originally posted by Xiaozzhen:I am going to learn from your mom, not to do what she did.
u better learn from her mistakes...=/ -
Did you ask her why she say that you're unfilial son?Originally posted by AMEN567889:only son... -
She said I dont respect her as my mother...Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:Did you ask her why she say that you're unfilial son?
talking back to her...raising my voice sometimes at her ( rarely =/) not heeding her advices...say i m a pai kia...etc
i mean wtf la... say i pia kia?
wad those those ginas who get into a fight every day? or worse drug addiction...
i m sure they are worse than me...=/
my discipline and academic records are fine..completed my o's last year and now in jc 1...how pai can i be?
i bet she haven seen those who steal money from their parents and beat the shyt out of them...wth... -
nvm lor..gonna continue wacking my lecture notes tml again and for the whole of this june holidays..
after that show her the report card full of As to make her zip her mouth up...
i guess thats the only thing i can do now...=/
haiz... -
[quote]Originally posted by AMEN567889:
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She said I dont respect her as my mother...
talking back to her...raising my voice sometimes at her ( rarely =/) not heeding her advices..
I sometimes feel my son does not respect me. He is mostly rude and say hurting words. Likes to do his own thing and not heed advice, almost any adults, not just mine.
He is only 12 and undergoing puberty. -
lol.. I use the word "nag" is actually to give a better impression on mothers...Originally posted by AMEN567889:They always think they are correct..
they are superior...
some times when i correct her...she will tell me not to be so proud..blah blah blah...
i guess ur right...
but den...
nag and scolding are 2 completely things...
if she nags at me...
nvm one..i know she cares abt me...
but once she starts to raise her voice and scold me or accuse me...
its another story liaos...
I remember many years ago...
My mother badmouth me to my gf on the phone. Telling my gf that I have no future, gambler and always so late come back home... My gf told me after that. My gf also noes that what my mother say is not true coz it is not the truth. haha... until now... I still wonder y my mother do that. Probably, from my mother's point of view, she see that his son is really what as she say. Therefore, she wants to reduce his son's sins ... But I never feel displeasure towards my mother. Coz, I noe my mother cares for her son.
The above case is much better than outside world. Haha... few care for u if u are against them. Therefore, u either have two ways. Follow them or Out smart them.