quiet ger
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hi, lets say u and a girl went out for a movie date, but during the whole date, there were some awkward silence moments.. anybody knows how to handle this problem?
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always like that one.. not close enough yet.. after a while then got more things to talk about
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I am waiting to benefit from this thread.
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actually the movie date was alr the 2nd date, the first one was a lunch date.. the lunch date also like that.. haiz.. i think the girl will b disappointed in the performance of the guy
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Don't be sad.. Some people doesn't have the chance to go on for a date.Originally posted by MyNickisZ:actually the movie date was alr the 2nd date, the first one was a lunch date.. the lunch date also like that.. haiz.. i think the girl will b disappointed in the performance of the guy
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maybe it's time for you to take a step back and find out about her interests first before going on another date.
awkward silences kills relationships before they can start -
erm.. actually i sort of tio rejected the first time i ask her out for movie la.. not even sure she consider this "movie date" a date somemore.. sianz.. anyway back to topic, any ideas?
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Try to ask her questions about herself, what she do during her free time, basically anything under the sun. Then you won't have awkward moments.
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TS must be a shy, uncreative and always silent guy...
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y?u oso like tt arh?Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:TS must be a shy, uncreative and always silent guy... -
haha ya basically im a quiet guy too.. but then when mixed with those cock pple, i will also tend to talk cock also.. how to get like "open her up"?
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yar.Originally posted by darkhour:y?u oso like tt arh? -
Dunno leh..Originally posted by MyNickisZ:haha ya basically im a quiet guy too.. but then when mixed with those cock pple, i will also tend to talk cock also.. how to get like "open her up"? Me is like you also.. very guiet.. except for the latter part. 
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any suggestion on any activities that can like improve communication one?
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haha so u got went out with the ger u like?
for me i think chances has juz went down.. alot.. -
HmM~ I only know that in order to communicate efficiently, you must not be shy in the presence of her.Originally posted by MyNickisZ:any suggestion on any activities that can like improve communication one?
Now I'm stuck here, How to not shy in the presence of her?? -
Yar. Once.. That was loooooong time ago. very silent..Originally posted by MyNickisZ:haha so u got went out with the ger u like?
for me i think chances has juz went down.. alot.. -
TS are you an Aquarius??
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nope im a leo.. few years back, i was with another ger.. she quite "siao" one, i also follow suit haha.. so i got the trouble trying to b more initiative
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Originally posted by MyNickisZ:nope im a leo.. few years back, i was with another ger.. she quite "siao" one, i also follow suit haha.. so i got the trouble trying to b more initiative
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this forum got no other pple liao eh?
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Sunday night of course less people. Usually there's more people..Originally posted by MyNickisZ:this forum got no other pple liao eh? -
Somehow or rather u can improve on yr dating places. Lunch at a special or interesting places,some how or rather it may bring her new experiences and past events or thoughts to bring out topic to talk until endless night.Originally posted by MyNickisZ:any suggestion on any activities that can like improve communication one?
It may cost a few bomb but if it work well,won't u feel worth it?
Then on yr second outing,try to go for a outing that let u do something like cycling in ubin or wild wild wet. All the chit-chat or laughter may come along.... -
hmm what if the girl is unwilling to go those new places.. say dun wan to stay too late out
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talk about yourself like how you would do to ur friends
treat her nothing like a friend
then you'll feel more natural and open up to her hence making her open up as well
i once went out with a girl, we oso don't have much to talk about and there were awkward silence.. then my friend go ask her if she would go out with me again, she said yes
then this week we going out again