quiet ger

• soulwinner

  10 Jun 07, 23:33

  Those who can handle ice-breaking well should have no problem with this situation..
• CannyOng

  10 Jun 07, 23:34

  Originally posted by MyNickisZ:

  hmm what if the girl is unwilling to go those new places.. say dun wan to stay too late out

  She maybe quiet but is she the non sporty type too?
• BrUtUs

  10 Jun 07, 23:35

  during dates is the best times to get tknow her better so dun waste those quiet moments n talk to her anything under the sun....
• MyNickisZ

  10 Jun 07, 23:35

  Originally posted by Agenda:

  talk about yourself like how you would do to ur friends
  
  treat her nothing like a friend
  
  then you'll feel more natural and open up to her hence making her open up as well
  
  i once went out with a girl, we oso don't have much to talk about and there were awkward silence.. then my friend go ask her if she would go out with me again, she said yes
  
  then this week we going out again
  
  

  haha tt's great for u.. shows that she has some feeling for u.. unlike me.. problem with me, im normally quiet with my normal friends too, unless those type like to talk co-ck one, then i will join in liao
• CannyOng

  10 Jun 07, 23:39

  Originally posted by MyNickisZ:

  haha tt's great for u.. shows that she has some feeling for u.. unlike me.. problem with me, im normally quiet with my normal friends too, unless those type like to talk co-ck one, then i will join in liao

  Usually a bit of sarcasm is good for breaking ice(like a laughter). But don't try too hard and over it. It may foul her mood and worsen yr impression in front of her!
• KrU

  10 Jun 07, 23:45

  Ahh think of a place you two can spend some time having fun together. You know settlers or minds cafe? You two can play games, eat and basically just enjoy each other company. Through laughter, sparks will fly between you two.
• lageihsif

  10 Jun 07, 23:58

  yeah ice breaking games are nice.
  
  find common topics
  
  get into trouble tgt
  
  talk about funny stuff(like stupid things u have done)
  
  tell her jokes(refer to jokes forum)
  
  get ur sense of humour up(helps if u visit noiseology and UOC often)
  
  and
  
  be urself
• Sakuraflower

  11 Jun 07, 01:34

  Just be youself and treat her like a friend..
  
  chat casually..
  
  if u bring her to watch a movie, after movie, talk to her about the storyplot and maybe introduce some nice movie, not too violence ones la...
  
  ask her out again..
  
  jia you!
• dokono

  11 Jun 07, 10:32

  It's not that she is quiet. It's that she is using silence to kill you. understand?
  
  Plus she has already rejected you before, so no chance. And when you go out with her, don't initiate the conversation. See who starts talking first.
  
  doko
• huiz

  11 Jun 07, 10:42

  how did she rejected you the first time you asked her out? why she changed her mind and went out with you?
• FBI

  11 Jun 07, 10:58

  Originally posted by MyNickisZ:

  hi, lets say u and a girl went out for a movie date, but during the whole date, there were some awkward silence moments.. anybody knows how to handle this problem?

  there will be some quiet moment for sure.. jus don make it the whole journy silence..
• kristovorus

  11 Jun 07, 12:13

  find out her favourite activities and do those with her. people tend to relax and talk more when having fun
• de_middle

  11 Jun 07, 12:51

  erm, time........just allow some time. everything will be fine, talk too much can be bad too if its one-sided
• Darkness_hacker99

  11 Jun 07, 15:16

  Originally posted by Agenda:

  talk about yourself like how you would do to ur friends
  
  treat her nothing like a friend
  
  then you'll feel more natural and open up to her hence making her open up as well
  
  i once went out with a girl, we oso don't have much to talk about and there were awkward silence.. then my friend go ask her if she would go out with me again, she said yes
  
  then this week we going out again
  
  

  Good for you.
• gigabyte14

  11 Jun 07, 15:17

  Originally posted by Agenda:

  talk about yourself like how you would do to ur friends
  
  treat her nothing like a friend
  
  then you'll feel more natural and open up to her hence making her open up as well
  
  i once went out with a girl, we oso don't have much to talk about and there were awkward silence.. then my friend go ask her if she would go out with me again, she said yes
  
  then this week we going out again
  
  

  i wanted to say that
• MyNickisZ

  11 Jun 07, 19:10

  haha thx pple, hope to use all the suggested ideas.. that is if i ever get a chance to go out with her..
• nanren4ever

  11 Jun 07, 19:42

  Talk more is the only thing u can do, TS. Find out about her hobbies, interests, family, friends. Then if u have any common interest/hobby, expend on that topic. Suggest that the next time u 2 go out together, u 2 go and do that particular thing.
• Cool-gal

  12 Jun 07, 00:03

  mmmm, try to ask more abt her.
  like her olden days? her hobby? her family or frenz? anything!
  just open ur mouth and talk la. so many stuff to talk abt.
  if she is those one way traffic, then talk abt urself; preferrably funny or stupid things u've done.
  can earn points if u r humorous.
  eh, leo can adjust to any situation, dun lose face.