4years of relationship and said bye bye now...
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pat pat*Originally posted by thelesis:She said she don't like my strength/weakness... that's simple. I think it is time to let go. I will move on without her. Just that i feels i need time to mend myself into a good shape again. Is not easy but i will try...
Thank you guys.. Really feels better after all these... -
she got other candidate lah
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that is not prove that you care for her, it is prove to her that you do not trust her.Originally posted by thelesis:I truly don't understand my girlfriend... how can she break up with me who've been faithful to her for 4years. We known each other for 7years and yet now, she just said "this is my attitude that causes the problem" I was like "huh, dun tell me you dun have weakness mah" a relationship should just give and take. Appreciate his/her weakness... "although i like to check on her what she is doing but what i do is to prove that I do care for her... what did i do wrong to deserve this?
I think most of the guys are more faithful on relationship than girls..
it's all about the way you asks these questions. if you make her feel like she has to report to you, of course she'll be unhappy.
if u make it seem more like you are really INTERESTED in her day, then she'll be happy to tell you.
what you and your gal have is problem with communication.
give it time then try to talk to her in a CALM manner. -
Originally posted by thelesis:I truly don't understand my girlfriend... how can she break up with me who've been faithful to her for 4years. We known each other for 7years and yet now, she just said "this is my attitude that causes the problem" I was like "huh, dun tell me you dun have weakness mah" a relationship should just give and take. Appreciate his/her weakness... "although i like to check on her what she is doing but what i do is to prove that I do care for her... what did i do wrong to deserve this?
I think most of the guys are more faithful on relationship than girls..
It's funny how relationship always seemed to have the ability to fly on auto-pilot, only to crash in midair.
Amid the outcry, an investigation is conducted - more often than not, it was only then realised that the crash-factors surfaced long ago.
Neither alarm raised nor warning given. All were quiet and assuming.
And when the signs are certain, it's all too late.
You have to understand that everything happens for a reason - surely a relationship would also cease to exist if there are 'conditions' suffice for 'death' to occur. Though we can't reverse time to undo our errors, but at the 'point of death', you can perform an 'autopsy' on your relationship in order to determine the underlying cause/s.
Seriously, when relationships only have the length of relationship to boast, sometimes, that may be the only thing positive about the relationships. Like a scavenging ghoul, yes it does 'appear alive', but inside, it's pretty much inane and unwholesome, fueled by the crackling of some unholy energy that does not belong to the natural essence of life.
If love was life itself, then human is the perfect embodiment of what a good relationship would be. To remove the love in the relationship is akin to removing life from a human - nothing but a walking dead.
You are too accustomed in your comfort zone. Sure, you have to compromise in any relationships, but when that becomes a convenient excuse not to strive for self evolution towards enlightenment and the better of oneself, it's truly only an excuse. A lazy one in fact.
You mentioned that it's because you care that's why you conducted checks on her?
Or is it because you are insecure that's why checks are needed? Or should I say you probably only initiate things that subconsciously seek to appease or benefit your emotional state?
You ended your statement by claiming that guys are technically more faithful than woman. Actually, you are implying that what you did is right and needs no amendments, surreptitiously shifting blames to women as a whole.
Perhaps when you decide to practice humility and humbly learn what Love wants of you, you will one day understand why your woman left. Remember, everything happens for a reason - this is of no exception.
Cheers -
Thelesis,
In your next relationship,
What will you do differently ?
What kind of girl will you date, the same type or a different one ??
What do you think you can do to make it a lasting relationship ?
Do you think, you have matured from this failed relationship ?
Do you think, you have gained any experience points after this ? Or do you think you have lost someone you cherished. -
good luck TS, take up a new sport
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human enjoy fresh r/s...
so do i,
yes, although it really pain when she said byebye to you..
and u knew u cant live without her..
kk cut it short..
wat i try to say is,
now u go and get some1 to love.. and u will forget her.. really...
coz now i enjoy the "status of single" flirting around...