in need of help over a girl. =/

• w33kphail

  13 Jun 07, 17:51

  hey everyone.
  
  i like this girl in my school. she's not that pretty but she appealed to me cos she's the quiet type. i wanna ask out on saturday night. but i don't know how she would react. her phone is on prepaid sim card, so i don't really message her alot. all my messages to her are mostly related to school work.
  
  i don't look good. and nowadays, girls go for looks first. so yeah, if she goes for looks, i am as good as over.
  
  sigh. help.
• red_amoeba

  13 Jun 07, 17:52

  hmmm ok, noted. I will think about it, meanwhile, ps complete your holiday homework and don't think so much...u got streaming this year remember, boy?
• Darkness_hacker99

  13 Jun 07, 17:58

  Call her and ask about some homework questions.
  
  At the end of the call right, then use this trick.
  
  You: "hey, saturday night are you free? Let go dine at xxxxxxx place, ok?"
  
  
• Eiizumi

  13 Jun 07, 18:00

  Originally posted by w33kphail:

  hey everyone.
  
  i like this girl in my school. she's not that pretty but she appealed to me cos she's the quiet type. i wanna ask out on saturday night. but i don't know how she would react. her phone is on prepaid sim card, so i don't really message her alot. all my messages to her are mostly related to school work.
  
  i don't look good. and nowadays, girls go for looks first. so yeah, if she goes for looks, i am as good as over.
  
  sigh. help.

  Aw...
  
  One solution.
  
  Either you go study or you go profess your liking for her and ask her out for a date.
  
  If not regret forever. If you fail, you also regret forever.
  
  So its up for you to decide wat to do.
  
  Summon your courage and do wat you're suppose to do in hand right now.
• ispyyy

  13 Jun 07, 18:04

  lol... u need help on yr look ,hah???
  I cant help... coz, I dont look good too ...
  ><
  
• Darkness_hacker99

  13 Jun 07, 18:09

  Originally posted by ispyyy:

  lol... u need help on yr look ,hah???
  I cant help... coz, I dont look good too ...
  ><
  

  x2.
• LordIcarus

  13 Jun 07, 18:25

  pertaining to work right.
  okay lor, choose nice nice place, ask her go there study with you. after that go eat. tada.
• Darkness_hacker99

  13 Jun 07, 18:26

  Originally posted by LordIcarus:

  pertaining to work right.
  okay lor, choose nice nice place, ask her go there study with you. after that go eat. tada.

  yup! Bingo!
  
  Then ThreadStarter remember to treat her the meal leh.
• DarkDestiny

  13 Jun 07, 19:03

  easy job la.. sms her bout homework 1st. den tell her u dunno how to do certain question. den ask her try to explain to u. after she explain. tell her u still dun understand. den ask her is she free on saturday nite so that she can teach u. remember to be a gentleman to treat for the foods.. lols
• ifish

  13 Jun 07, 19:06

  open your mouth and ask. easy
• zenden9

  13 Jun 07, 19:46

  Originally posted by w33kphail:

  hey everyone.
  
  i like this girl in my school. she's not that pretty but she appealed to me cos she's the quiet type. i wanna ask out on saturday night. but i don't know how she would react. her phone is on prepaid sim card, so i don't really message her alot. all my messages to her are mostly related to school work.
  
  i don't look good. and nowadays, girls go for looks first. so yeah, if she goes for looks, i am as good as over.
  
  sigh. help.

  How long do u know her? U shall more or less find out a bit abt her character!
  
  She can be quiet but she maybe the day dream type ,looking for a charming prince(then u are gone!)
  
  If she is a easy going type,I bet she might not mind look that much!
  
  Don lose heart first but has some mental preparation for rejection is good! I bet u are still very young, plenty of opportunities.
• WiNtEr'SkiLL

  13 Jun 07, 19:47

  if she goes for looks , shes as good as nothing
  
• sgFish

  13 Jun 07, 20:20

  forgive me if i offend you, but going by your nick, you sound like a geek with low self esteem. and that's not good >.<
• UandMe

  13 Jun 07, 20:37

  Originally posted by w33kphail:

  hey everyone.
  
  i like this girl in my school. she's not that pretty but she appealed to me cos she's the quiet type. i wanna ask out on saturday night. but i don't know how she would react. her phone is on prepaid sim card, so i don't really message her alot. all my messages to her are mostly related to school work.
  
  i don't look good. and nowadays, girls go for looks first. so yeah, if she goes for looks, i am as good as over.
  
  sigh. help.

  she's not that pretty and u dun look that good.
  
  Not such an uphill task right?
• anhydrouscoppersulphate

  13 Jun 07, 20:39

  if she go for looks. then this girl is as good as over. if she doesnt and goes for the heart. she would be the girl to consider.
• w33kphail

  13 Jun 07, 21:37

  thanks pple for your advice. keep them coming in alright? you guys rock! (:
  
  i am gonna msg her tmr to ask her to go out with me on saturday. haha. cos it's like near my birthday so yeah wonder how she would feel if someone asks her out because it's near or around that person's birthday. would she feel honoured since someone wants to spend his birthday with her? haha.
• bladez87

  13 Jun 07, 21:45

  hey. a guy with confidence can charm a girl easily. looks are a bonus. of course if you are cute or handsome, girls will be picking you up, not you pick them up.
  so have confidence in yourself. ask her out.
  
  the confidence part is bull. i lack that too. lol. but u need a certain level of confidence or you will look like a loser to her.
• gunner77

  14 Jun 07, 02:28

  aiya
  
  just tell her tat u wanna study with her on a saturday night lor
  
  tats makes life easy for her as she don need to sms u !
  
  dude take it easy..
  
• DC+

  14 Jun 07, 02:36

  Social skills can be trained/gained.
• allentyb

  14 Jun 07, 02:51

  You lack of confidence for yourself
  
  don't blame everything on looks
  
  and how old are you?
  
  don't you think, you should just focus on your studies first, then talk about relationship
• Scania N113CRB luver

  14 Jun 07, 03:23

  Just as i thought . I bet there are people going to post " Forget about it . Concentrate on studies ." Its as good as not helping .
  
  But i will tell you , you should know whether or not relationship stuffs will affect your academic results . If it does, then its better not to go into any r/s . If it does not affect , why dont you give it a try ? Try to balance r/s stuffs and academic performance .
  
  Have more confidence in yourself ! Dont say "Im ugly , she wont like me." You wont know until you've tried . Maybe you can ask her out for dinner or something like that , aftern you popped a question such as about school work .
  
  Hope it helps .
• WiNtEr'SkiLL

  14 Jun 07, 03:31

  cmon... there are better girls out there..
• Fatum

  14 Jun 07, 03:36

  
  haven't even asked people out yet you're already thinking of the surrender .... habis lah like that ....
• tut4nkh4m3n

  14 Jun 07, 03:42

  you are as good as over. aw. =p
• Honeybear1990

  14 Jun 07, 07:49

  I would like correct your last sentence.
  
  Not all girls go for looks. If one truly love you, she would love you for who you are, but not for how you look.
  
  Learn how to dress, since you suggested that you don't look good, at least look presentable.
  
  Stop looking down on yourself, no one perfect, there definetly something good about you that would charm someone
  
  Have more confidence in yourself,
  
  Just be yourself.
  
  Failure is not the worst thing in the world, the worst thing is not to try.