in need of help over a girl. =/

• de_middle

  14 Jun 07, 10:57

  Originally posted by DarkDestiny:

  easy job la.. sms her bout homework 1st. den tell her u dunno how to do certain question. den ask her try to explain to u. after she explain. tell her u still dun understand. den ask her is she free on saturday nite so that she can teach u. remember to be a gentleman to treat for the foods.. lols

  nice, worth a try
• w33kphail

  14 Jun 07, 21:51

  i'm in jc.
  
  i feel that i have the responsibilty to juggle work and r/s so it shouldnt be a problem for me. =)
  
  i have already asked her out. waiting anxiously for her reply. all i can say is hope for a positive response! thanks everyone for the advice.
• LordIcarus

  14 Jun 07, 23:30

  so whats the results? : D
• w33kphail

  14 Jun 07, 23:32

  haha she hasnt replied yet. =/
  
  but she usually takes quite long to reply a message.
  
  so still hoping the wait is not hopeless.
• soulwinner

  14 Jun 07, 23:33

  Have confidence in yourself...
• LordIcarus

  14 Jun 07, 23:38

  have faith!
• w33kphail

  14 Jun 07, 23:42

  thanks for the encouragement, pple. =)
  
  i was feeling quite lifeless while waiting for her reply but you pple breathed some life into me. i realise i really need to have more faith and believe in myself much more! =)
• dbowie

  14 Jun 07, 23:45

  Hope you go well
• Scania N113CRB luver

  14 Jun 07, 23:51

  Originally posted by w33kphail:

  thanks for the encouragement, pple. =)
  
  i was feeling quite lifeless while waiting for her reply but you pple breathed some life into me. i realise i really need to have more faith and believe in myself much more! =)

  Just think this way : "I must have confidence in myself ! Who knows ? The reply she gave will be a positive one ! "
  
  Like that .
  
  That was what i did when i asked the girl i like to be my GF . I was kind of confident that i would receive a positive reply . And it was . She agreed .
  
  So you see ? Being confident in yourself will have a positive outcome !
• nanren4ever

  15 Jun 07, 08:46

  Originally posted by w33kphail:

  hey everyone.
  
  i like this girl in my school. she's not that pretty but she appealed to me cos she's the quiet type. i wanna ask out on saturday night. but i don't know how she would react. her phone is on prepaid sim card, so i don't really message her alot. all my messages to her are mostly related to school work.
  
  i don't look good. and nowadays, girls go for looks first. so yeah, if she goes for looks, i am as good as over.
  
  sigh. help.

  Dude, its not about how good u look, but how well you groove. Girls(most of them) tend to like guys who can sweet-talk. Otherwise how u think got girls who look like model get attached with guys who look like they are aliens?
  
  Is she from ur class? Coz u just say from your school and nothing else. If its frm ur class, it will be oh so much easier. Just talk to her in class and break times. Walk with her to the bus-stop or MRT(even if its out of your way), and ask her out.
• w33kphail

  15 Jun 07, 13:33

  she hasnt replied yet. i sent her last night. what shall i do now?
  
  just wait?
• LordIcarus

  15 Jun 07, 13:35

  yup. alternatively, you can just message her, saying it's okay if she doesn't wanna go out with you.
  
• Darkness_hacker99

  15 Jun 07, 13:36

  Originally posted by w33kphail:

  she hasnt replied yet. i sent her last night. what shall i do now?
  
  just wait?

  Yar. Calling her is more sincere.
• <Precious>

  15 Jun 07, 13:40

  A not-so-good looking chap with plenty of self-confidence is much more charming than a Tom Cruise or Brad Pitt with little self-confidence...... So work on what you can and let what you can't help be!
• de_middle

  15 Jun 07, 13:50

  Originally posted by LordIcarus:

  yup. alternatively, you can just message her, saying it's okay if she doesn't wanna go out with you.
  

  yes, follow this advice TS
• rainee

  15 Jun 07, 14:08

  You should have called her, asking someone out for the first time through SMS doesn't sound that sincere to me
  
  Maybe by tonight if she still hasnt replied, give her a call, to confirm her decision. If she is hesitant, tell her it is okie if she rejects or if she has something else to do, can always go next time
  
  I think first date better to do a study date, ask her to go out to McD and study together with you or have a homework session together in your school library
  
  Another thing to add: a girl who truly loves you would not be so bothered with your looks. First thing that attracts a girl is not looks, it is more like of your personality and confidence level. So just be yourself
• w33kphail

  15 Jun 07, 14:12

  maybe i'll message her that tmr afternoon. cos maybe she still hasnt read the message yet yeah.. sometimes she takes quite long to reply.so yeah.
• LordIcarus

  15 Jun 07, 14:18

  maybe when she read the message she became too excited, fainted. so chill, have faith.
• rainee

  15 Jun 07, 14:21

  Originally posted by w33kphail:

  maybe i'll message her that tmr afternoon. cos maybe she still hasnt read the message yet yeah.. sometimes she takes quite long to reply.so yeah.

  You are going out with her tomorrow right? Better not to message her so late, cos she would need sometime to prepare for the date. And if you ask her so late, she might have already planned her activities for the day.
  
  Call her up tonight...the latest
• w33kphail

  15 Jun 07, 16:23

  Originally posted by rainee:

  You are going out with her tomorrow right? Better not to message her so late, cos she would need sometime to prepare for the date. And if you ask her so late, she might have already planned her activities for the day.
  
  Call her up tonight...the latest

  i already messaged her on thursday evening already. still waiting..
• w33kphail

  15 Jun 07, 16:29

  Originally posted by LordIcarus:

  yup. alternatively, you can just message her, saying it's okay if she doesn't wanna go out with you.
  

  does that imply that i have given up on her? sounds like so to me..
• ifish

  15 Jun 07, 16:29

  Originally posted by w33kphail:

  i already messaged her on thursday evening already. still waiting..

  ok.. give her a call.
  
  talk crap for awhile or talk about sch work.. then after both of u very very high and u pretty much pretty comfy with her on the phone already.. ask her about the date.
  
  good luck!
• w33kphail

  15 Jun 07, 16:34

  Originally posted by ifish:

  ok.. give her a call.
  
  talk crap for awhile or talk about sch work.. then after both of u very very high and u pretty much pretty comfy with her on the phone already.. ask her about the date.
  
  good luck!

  she's not the type who will talk long long one and she's the rather serious type you know. haha. i wanna use the opportunity tmr night if i get to go out with her to find out more about her. cos we don't message each other a lot.(her phone is on pre-paid sim card.) she probably doesnt like me yet but i hope she gives me a chance. i think its kinda obvious to her that i like her already.
• ifish

  15 Jun 07, 16:41

  Originally posted by w33kphail:

  she's not the type who will talk long long one and she's the rather serious type you know. haha. i wanna use the opportunity tmr night if i get to go out with her to find out more about her. cos we don't message each other a lot.(her phone is on pre-paid sim card.) she probably doesnt like me yet but i hope she gives me a chance. i think its kinda obvious to her that i like her already.

  plan B..
  
  pretend u never msg her. Ignore her this holiday (even if both of you do meet up in sch for whatever activity).
  
  try again in a mth time.
  
  
• w33kphail

  15 Jun 07, 16:44

  even in school if we walk past each other or when we're in class?