in need of help over a girl. =/
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Sorry bro feel like Slapping you to wake you up.Originally posted by w33kphail:oh well, didnt needa call her. she replied.but it was a negative response.
she said she was too busy. c'mon man, its just a saturday night. sigh. dunno whether this is an excuse or not.
sian.
Look at your past actions. You seems to keep wanting her to do things your way. Have you seriously ask yourself why do you like her or not?
Maybe is hard to see from your view point, lets change to her view point then.
Imagine you are a jc girl. You wish to study well for exams and you cannot study in a group. When you are hard studying at home this guy keep smsing asking you out on a date. You do not like or love this guy so you ask yourself why borther ? I just reject him.
I know and understand to chase a girl is tough but if the girl refused to go out in groups with you what do you think she will go out with you alone? -
Sadly girls go for the looks first which is very true. I know and understand that you do not look good. The only way to handle the problem is to study hard, get good grades and get a good job. This will help you gain an edge over the other good looking.Originally posted by w33kphail:hey everyone.
i like this girl in my school. she's not that pretty but she appealed to me cos she's the quiet type. i wanna ask out on saturday night. but i don't know how she would react. her phone is on prepaid sim card, so i don't really message her alot. all my messages to her are mostly related to school work.
i don't look good. and nowadays, girls go for looks first. so yeah, if she goes for looks, i am as good as over.
sigh. help.
Girls peak beauty usually last from 14 to 26 then they start to lose their edge.
For us guys, 26 is the start for us. We become more and more stable with our life and this will help us get an edge over others. -
o ya..... guys out there, especially TS,
i wanna tell you all that, humorous is very very important...
dont always joke around, dont make jokes, but make jokes from the recent thing.......
funny anot is alright, but sometimes must be funny la.......
this increase the comfortability between the friends and u urself.
thus if u wanna ask someone out u can be a humorous chap and ask......
therefore, rejection wont be a big thing as u didnt ask seriously..... haha
but this is just my experience and opinion...... might not work on some ppl as not everyone is humorous ^^ -
o ya btw....
just my opinion.....
asking for a outing or date need not much sincerity.......
in fact, other thing like the way u help her or etc could be more sincere......
just my opinion.... -
agree..Originally posted by ItchyArmpit:o ya..... guys out there, especially TS,
i wanna tell you all that, humorous is very very important...
dont always joke around, dont make jokes, but make jokes from the recent thing.......
funny anot is alright, but sometimes must be funny la.......
this increase the comfortability between the friends and u urself.
thus if u wanna ask someone out u can be a humorous chap and ask......
therefore, rejection wont be a big thing as u didnt ask seriously..... haha
but this is just my experience and opinion...... might not work on some ppl as not everyone is humorous ^^
be lame but dont be a clown -
yeah, don't be a clown. but, if you're not born to be humourous, don't even try. you'll screw up and look like a clown.
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slowly build up the friendship with her first then jio her out, if u do things too quickly, confirm will buang one