wad shld i do?
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when im in sec 4 which was last year, i fall in love with this gal in my class, i got the feeling tat she also like mi, so i asked her to b my stead. after some considerations she agreed and she added tat she want a long lasting relationship, so i asked her if she wan to know everything abt my past.
she replied : anything
so i tot since she said tat she want it to b long lasting, i shld let her noe everything
so i told her tat i had sex b4 and...
b4 i finish my sentence she like sian sian liao
so i asked her if she mind
she said no
but later she sms mi tat ''it's not possible between us, i would rather u dun tell mi anything''
i almost cried
and now im still cant forget this incident
wad i wan to ask is did do the rite thing? -
of cos u did the wrong thing.. duhhh..
when u start a new relationship.... certain things in the past is no more in question already..
duuhh... u can still offer to tell her...
wad laa u... -
duno y guys like to tell their gf abt their sexual history..
gees..
for me ar, i can accept, but dun tell me details lor..
rem when my first love told me how it happened.. i cried.. and he felt so bad that he asked me to find someone as innocent as me.
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It is good to tell yr gf yr history... At least, u want to be true to her...
But even if u want to tell, tell diplomaticly lah... tell so straight forward... u really skin itchy... lol... (actually I really laugh after reading yr thread... pardon me)
I also dont noe what can u do... yr relationship not strong enough leh... Well, if u r persistent, wait lor... Probably, her image on u will turn out better in future... -
no you didnt do the right thing
but i think its nothing...
after all this is a free world -
U sec4 oredi not virgin ?!
Btw , u same as me sia ! I told my GF that i had cybersex with this girl bla bla bla ... A few days later , we broke up . After that , i learnt that she had mistaken my sentence . She thought i stead with the girl i had cyber sexed with . Kinda sad tho .
Oh btw , altho its good to be frank with your GF , but somethings are better not to be said .
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hmm.. i have never talk crap about with my gf before..Originally posted by browniebaobao:duno y guys like to tell their gf abt their sexual history..
gees..
for me ar, i can accept, but dun tell me details lor..
rem when my first love told me how it happened.. i cried.. and he felt so bad that he asked me to find someone as innocent as me. -
Gal sometime prefers guy to be discreet and independent...
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u so early talk abt sex... win liao... so wat age u did it?Originally posted by forgivemi:when im in sec 4 which was last year, i fall in love with this gal in my class, i got the feeling tat she also like mi, so i asked her to b my stead. after some considerations she agreed and she added tat she want a long lasting relationship, so i asked her if she wan to know everything abt my past.
she replied : anything
so i tot since she said tat she want it to b long lasting, i shld let her noe everything
so i told her tat i had sex b4 and...
b4 i finish my sentence she like sian sian liao
so i asked her if she mind
she said no
but later she sms mi tat ''it's not possible between us, i would rather u dun tell mi anything''
i almost cried
and now im still cant forget this incident
wad i wan to ask is did do the rite thing? -
16Originally posted by BrUtUs:u so early talk abt sex... win liao... so wat age u did it? -
learn from tis n dun ever tink or talk abt sex so early into r/s...Originally posted by forgivemi:16 -
yeah man. maybe the girl didnt expect that you are the type of person who did it before at secondary school level..
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u just need to find someone that can accept your past... obviously this girl is not for you and it is better that you find out sooner rather than later...Originally posted by forgivemi:when im in sec 4 which was last year, i fall in love with this gal in my class, i got the feeling tat she also like mi, so i asked her to b my stead. after some considerations she agreed and she added tat she want a long lasting relationship, so i asked her if she wan to know everything abt my past.
she replied : anything
so i tot since she said tat she want it to b long lasting, i shld let her noe everything
so i told her tat i had sex b4 and...
b4 i finish my sentence she like sian sian liao
so i asked her if she mind
she said no
but later she sms mi tat ''it's not possible between us, i would rather u dun tell mi anything''
i almost cried
and now im still cant forget this incident
wad i wan to ask is did do the rite thing?
some people can keep secrets until they die... if you are not the type then it isbetter to be honest and face the consequences sooner rather than later... -
she's a good girl, that's why she said it's impossible......seriously. but then again, go find others, good luck dudeOriginally posted by forgivemi:when im in sec 4 which was last year, i fall in love with this gal in my class, i got the feeling tat she also like mi, so i asked her to b my stead. after some considerations she agreed and she added tat she want a long lasting relationship, so i asked her if she wan to know everything abt my past.
she replied : anything
so i tot since she said tat she want it to b long lasting, i shld let her noe everything
so i told her tat i had sex b4 and...
b4 i finish my sentence she like sian sian liao
so i asked her if she mind
she said no
but later she sms mi tat ''it's not possible between us, i would rather u dun tell mi anything''
i almost cried
and now im still cant forget this incident
wad i wan to ask is did do the rite thing?
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nt really. but, for his age, u think 16 years old girls can take it meh?Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:u just need to find someone that can accept your past... obviously this girl is not for you and it is better that you find out sooner rather than later...
some people can keep secrets until they die... if you are not the type then it isbetter to be honest and face the consequences sooner rather than later...
some things are better left nt said. really. until when the relationship is strong, den ya. LOL.
16 years old hav sex already?omg. -
Did she explicitly ask you if you had sex b4 ?
Or did you offer to let her know you had sex b4?
I mean, good grief, when a girl ask you about your past.
Meaning she interesting in what you did in your life before she met you.
You can tell her about your family.
Your friends.
Your past hobbies.
You past achievements.
Why do you have to tell her about your sexual experience ???
First comes to mind.
You are bragging that you have experience, then ofcourse, that you expect sex from this relationship.
IF this sex thing is your FIRST info about your past, then die lah.
Meaning you are in for sex only !!! She probably think you're a pervert.
I know you must be kicking yourself now, but don't make the same mistake again with your next one dude. -
Being honest is not a wrong thing. If she cannot accept the past, it is good for both of you to move on.
Forget your past, and forgive yourself. Look forward. -
aiyoo..
I think sometimes its best not to tell about your past.
Yes, one should be honest in a relationship but i think if that information has the potential to break up the relationship, why should you risk telling a secret that in the first place was meant to make the relationship stronger?
Even, if the gal accepts you as you are, one day she will bring it up again and this happens especially in an argument.
I guess secrets are best kept a secret unless of course you have AIDs or a life threatening disease. And thats a different story altogether.
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duno y gurls cannot accept historical facts..Originally posted by browniebaobao:duno y guys like to tell their gf abt their sexual history..
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You only 17 and you have a SEXUAL HISTORY?????
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LOL. this is funny..
seriously, i wont touch about past sexual history unless the gal reveal about hers first. -
another clone?
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wah sad.. girls really do mind about guys sexual history..
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Originally posted by forgivemi:when im in sec 4 which was last year, i fall in love with this gal in my class, i got the feeling tat she also like mi, so i asked her to b my stead. after some considerations she agreed and she added tat she want a long lasting relationship, so i asked her if she wan to know everything abt my past.
she replied : anything
so i tot since she said tat she want it to b long lasting, i shld let her noe everything
so i told her tat i had sex b4 and...
b4 i finish my sentence she like sian sian liao
so i asked her if she mind
she said no
but later she sms mi tat ''it's not possible between us, i would rather u dun tell mi anything''
i almost cried
and now im still cant forget this incident
wad i wan to ask is did do the rite thing?
Seriously, what are you trying to prove?
I agree with Jojo about the bragging part - if you reckon it's fine to give that sort of answer, then I am not surprised with her sort of response.
Dude, if you want to relate your sexual adventures, you will hold that sort of discussion with your guy friends in private because you can't impress woman, you see as love, with that sort of 'truth' as ultimately they are more likely to be turned off than to be whatever you wanted her to feel before you make claims to your 'victories'.
Furthermore, you wanted this to last? Isn't this an oxymoron?
Cheers