Love getting stale
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Partor wif my gf for 2 yrs liao....we r v happy together....but i guess e excitement is not there liao lehx.
How? -
and?
do you love her?
does it have to be 'exciting' all the time?
do you really love her or do you love the 'excitement' of the chase? -
of course u add spice to it la... intro new things... go new places....
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yes, tot of getting married once i grad in 3 yrs timeOriginally posted by the Bear:and?
do you love her?
does it have to be 'exciting' all the time?
do you really love her or do you love the 'excitement' of the chase?
erm.....it will be better if it is exciting most of e time
thing is we do too many things couple do...on a routine basis...ie cinema, pool, stay at home watch vcd/dvd, kbox....run out of things to do le
ehx, i love her, but i love e chase too -
What excitement u want?Originally posted by NYPD^blue:Partor wif my gf for 2 yrs liao....we r v happy together....but i guess e excitement is not there liao lehx.
How?
The initial excitement of trying to hold her hands? Then after, getting her kiss and proceed to under her blouse and getting under her pant and further to the grand finale?
It's only 2 years......what about 10years? 20years? 30years? It's not all about the above...you create excitement togather with your gf/wife...Excitement isn't just a procedure.
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Pengang it - Turn up the heat. Do a threesome!
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Oh.. this is a tough question.
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Define excitement?
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Excitement as in climate in sex?
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face it... it will never be 'exciting' everyday... marry her? grad 1st then say la...Originally posted by NYPD^blue:yes, tot of getting married once i grad in 3 yrs time
erm.....it will be better if it is exciting most of e time
thing is we do too many things couple do...on a routine basis...ie cinema, pool, stay at home watch vcd/dvd, kbox....run out of things to do le
ehx, i love her, but i love e chase too -
well, maybe excitement in my context, will be tt special feeling u get when u first date e ger
tt tingle of electricity down ur spine when u hold her hands for e first time, ....
how to recreate tt special moment?
or izzit lost forever? -
Originally posted by NYPD^blue:yes, tot of getting married once i grad in 3 yrs time
erm.....it will be better if it is exciting most of e time
thing is we do too many things couple do...on a routine basis...ie cinema, pool, stay at home watch vcd/dvd, kbox....run out of things to do le
ehx, i love her, but i love e chase too
You only do things with one another; not so much about doing things together. What you have describe is merely how you spent your time with each other.
So right now, you two can consider investing time, effort and money into a interest/hobby together. For example: learn Salsa.
Cheers -
To lost it or to recreate or create, it'll be you to discover...Originally posted by NYPD^blue:well, maybe excitement in my context, will be tt special feeling u get when u first date e ger
tt tingle of electricity down ur spine when u hold her hands for e first time, ....
how to recreate tt special moment?
or izzit lost forever?
Do things togather rather than ownself bah...you don't just enjoy by yourself, your other half also need to enjoy, dude... -
That excitement feeling is a kind of gamble feeling... It is placing all yr bet and gamble for a better relationship... lol... if u want to recreate the special moment, let her break up with u lor... Then again, u put yr bet down... But this is dumb... There are also other ways to recreate that kind of "special moment"...Originally posted by NYPD^blue:well, maybe excitement in my context, will be tt special feeling u get when u first date e ger
tt tingle of electricity down ur spine when u hold her hands for e first time, ....
how to recreate tt special moment?
or izzit lost forever?
If u want this kind of electric feeling, u can always go for dangerous ride or gamble in casino...
Differentiate between love and yr electric feeling... >< -
try thisOriginally posted by NYPD^blue:yes, tot of getting married once i grad in 3 yrs time
erm.....it will be better if it is exciting most of e time
thing is we do too many things couple do...on a routine basis...ie cinema, pool, stay at home watch vcd/dvd, kbox....run out of things to do le
ehx, i love her, but i love e chase too
imagine you found that she got a bf out there and you try to find out who the other guy is. Is a true kick. -
It is about keeping the flame alive!
Continue to be romantic! Continue to experiment! There is no exact formula
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you are still studying?
Time is the test of your relationship. Relationships take effort, even after marriage, it takes effort to maintain. Time can dull, time can wear out, time can even be your ally. Thinking out loud, I am not sure when you start working will you get distracted by some "excitement". -
sex might be the key?
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she is young....just 20....dun wanna ruin her life la....Originally posted by NewAge:sex might be the key? -
I am already "distracted" in school liaox,.,...but yahx, no actions, still guai guai go studyOriginally posted by mistyblue:you are still studying?
Time is the test of your relationship. Relationships take effort, even after marriage, it takes effort to maintain. Time can dull, time can wear out, time can even be your ally. Thinking out loud, I am not sure when you start working will you get distracted by some "excitement". -
i will look at it differently.
the r/s is becoming stabilised now..
xi shui chang liu type also good. -
Sigh...Originally posted by NYPD^blue:I am already "distracted" in school liaox,.,...but yahx, no actions, still guai guai go study
Good luck -
Instead of feeling loss and sad abt the lack of excitement. Why not u start to think of things to do bring in new excitement? I am sad to say that in these kind of things,guy shall take the lead! Try some sports and romantic places,I believe the feeling for yr ger will be as good as newly know...
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i am a undergrad, and she is working...Originally posted by CannyOng:Instead of feeling loss and sad abt the lack of excitement. Why not u start to think of things to do bring in new excitement? I am sad to say that in these kind of things,guy shall take the lead! Try some sports and romantic places,I believe the feeling for yr ger will be as good as newly know...
thing is she work shift hrs....most of e times, she is too tired to go out
she's realli gd to me la, she noes her shift hrs is quite bad for our relationship, she 's looking for a new job liaox
well, c how it goes la -
that's nice.......excitement.........check if time permits 1stOriginally posted by NYPD^blue:i am a undergrad, and she is working...
thing is she work shift hrs....most of e times, she is too tired to go out
she's realli gd to me la, she noes her shift hrs is quite bad for our relationship, she 's looking for a new job liaox
well, c how it goes la