Love getting stale
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there will come a time when the rs will become stable and for some people, they think that it has become dull compared to when they first dating...
The excitement will still be there at times, but I have come to love the stability, the routine, the knowledge that there is a special person who will be there for me, the peacefulness, able to feel comfortable even when there is silence...
Love is not all about fireworks everyday...try something out of routine once in a while but to expect it to be "exciting" every single day after a few years of being together is a bit unrealistic... -
The spark of a new relationship seems so exciting and sweet. After awhile, you get to know each other and you get into a routine of things. And then you realise that there is "less excitement".
If you think you have lost it, then all you need to do is to find it! Plan something out of your routine. Or just do something you don't normally do. Surprise her!
Sparks don't happen by doing nothing. You have to make it happen
That said, what really counts is the love you have one another. If both of you are comfortable with a "unexciting" relationship, just let it be lor. -
Sometimes u can just quietly sit one corner and observe her doing her stuff (ie, packing, ironing, doing schoolwork etc etc).
Look at how she flicks her hair, or that frown on her face when she working out a difficult homework, etc
You will feel why is she so special that you made u go after her in the 1st place and it your heart melts again.
Remember..excitement is like fire....and you both are the fuel for it.
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How old are you? If you are still in your teens, forget it. It's just puppy love. If you are in your early twenties, you are just experiencing the phase of life going through the motion whereby everyone is enjoying the same thing like you - partor with no real inkling of having a permanent relationship that would eventually lead to marriage.Originally posted by NYPD^blue:Partor wif my gf for 2 yrs liao....we r v happy together....but i guess e excitement is not there liao lehx.
How?
True love doesn't always need excitement. True love can be just two person sitting at home over a game of chess or just sitting down and doing completely nothing at all.
So don't think yours can qualify as 'love' yet. -
agreedOriginally posted by TinySue:True love doesn't always need excitement. True love can be just two person sitting at home over a game of chess or just sitting down and doing completely nothing at all.
So don't think yours can qualify as 'love' yet.
I have always loved this phrase,"The closest friends can sit together in silence, and feel perfectly comfortable."
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a small surprise here and there might be good...
like... fetching her to and from work w/o tell her?
if u alwats been doin that give a excuse 1st?
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simi excitement. create 3rd party to join chase ar
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Not everybody can do that. If u do it often,I doubt u can take it!Originally posted by rainee:agreed
I have always loved this phrase,"The closest friends can sit together in silence, and feel perfectly comfortable."
I suggest plan a holiday trip with yr gf,see whether she can take leave anot since she is so tiring working. Must take a rest ma... -
if i could, i would enjoy doin that, even everyday, cause it isOriginally posted by rainee:agreed
I have always loved this phrase,"The closest friends can sit together in silence, and feel perfectly comfortable."
a blessing juz to ahve her?