Should i ask him or not?
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There is this guy whom i really like alot. We have been having a non committed relationship for awhile. My friend feel that i should have a talk to him ask him where i stand. Although i really hope to get a confirm answer but i am also afraid of the answer
What should i do?
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"Never seek to tell thy love, for love that never told could be..."
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Ask him out for a dinner.. Then ask him the question..
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care to elaborate more on ur "non-commited relationship"?
advice: just do it.. -
Chim...Originally posted by Ferret:"Never seek to tell thy love, for love that never told could be..." -
Originally posted by Ferret:"Never seek to tell thy love, for love that never told could be..."
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man, i like that! thanks.Originally posted by Ferret:"Never seek to tell thy love, for love that never told could be..." -
Till now I didn't know Ferret has a degree in Cheemlogy.Originally posted by Ferret:"Never seek to tell thy love, for love that never told could be..." -
wad is ur age and his age? are u schooling?
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show ur body to him...
then u will get the ans tat u wanted.
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Non-committal , as in f buddy ?Originally posted by Ke_Xin:There is this guy whom i really like alot. We have been having a non committed relationship for awhile. My friend feel that i should have a talk to him ask him where i stand. Although i really hope to get a confirm answer but i am also afraid of the answer
What should i do?
I think you already know the answer lor.
Do you really want such irresponsible guy to be your bf ?
Are you sure you are his one and only no string attached gf ?
Seriously, what are you expecting out of this kind of person?
A person will not all of a sudden becomes willing to commit just because you ask him where you stand.
Role play :
You : Erm.. where do I stand in your heart ?
him : hmmmm..... what do you mean ?
you : I mean ... am I your girlfriend ?
him : girlfriend ?... hmmm why do you ask ?
you : well.... I want to be your gf.
him : OK... from today onwards, you will be my official girlfriend.
you: yay... sob.. sob..... I'm so glad.
him : ok.. gota run . I need to go meet the other unofficial girlfriend..... -
dont ever choose a guy who treats you as a ssex slave as bf. guys like this are jerks.
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make the guy make the first move, he will treat you sweetly.
but, advice, tell him or atleast clue, you duwan wait. -
"Don't ask, don't tell." - Bill ClintonOriginally posted by Ke_Xin:There is this guy whom i really like alot. We have been having a non committed relationship for awhile. My friend feel that i should have a talk to him ask him where i stand. Although i really hope to get a confirm answer but i am also afraid of the answer
What should i do? 
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ask your friend to help u on this,pose some questions indirectly and see how he reacts....
good luck -
dun ask lest u get hurt but if shld do, be prepared for rejectionsOriginally posted by Ke_Xin:There is this guy whom i really like alot. We have been having a non committed relationship for awhile. My friend feel that i should have a talk to him ask him where i stand. Although i really hope to get a confirm answer but i am also afraid of the answer
What should i do? 
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rejections is part and parcel of life.
use it to make u a stronger person. -
Nowhere in her post do I see her saying he treat her as a sex slave.Originally posted by MichelleTan:dont ever choose a guy who treats you as a ssex slave as bf. guys like this are jerks.
Secondly, she was the one who likes him.
Hence don't jump to conclusions and treat the guy as a criminal and as if the girl is an angel also. If she likes him, why can't she make the move?
doko -
LOLEDOriginally posted by jojobeach:Non-committal , as in f buddy ?
I think you already know the answer lor.
Do you really want such irresponsible guy to be your bf ?
Are you sure you are his one and only no string attached gf ?
Seriously, what are you expecting out of this kind of person?
A person will not all of a sudden becomes willing to commit just because you ask him where you stand.
Role play :
You : Erm.. where do I stand in your heart ?
him : hmmmm..... what do you mean ?
you : I mean ... am I your girlfriend ?
him : girlfriend ?... hmmm why do you ask ?
you : well.... I want to be your gf.
him : OK... from today onwards, you will be my official girlfriend.
you: yay... sob.. sob..... I'm so glad.
him : ok.. gota run . I need to go meet the other unofficial girlfriend..... -
Bear with the 5min for first 20 post..
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u haf the same name as my fren hmm....lol anyways how old r u?muz see la, if u havin impt year then better not go into r/s yet...if not too young then go ask loh...sometimes guys oso shy to ask themselves mah so if u like him, take the initiative to ask....
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Don't be afraid of the answer. It is for best if you can get a confirmed answer, even one that you don't like, but you definitely can live with it.Originally posted by Ke_Xin:There is this guy whom i really like alot. We have been having a non committed relationship for awhile. My friend feel that i should have a talk to him ask him where i stand. Although i really hope to get a confirm answer but i am also afraid of the answer
What should i do?
Then you can decide to stay in this relationship or move on to other pastures.
I believe on this earth, there is one ultimate guy for every girl. Some people make the comittment before meeting that ultimate. A lot of times, we won't know either. Until you try....
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If he has not committed to you anything, life goes on. Spend time with your family, go out with your friends, work/study to your best.
If you are really curious, go and ask him -
LolOriginally posted by jojobeach:Non-committal , as in f buddy ?
I think you already know the answer lor.
Do you really want such irresponsible guy to be your bf ?
Are you sure you are his one and only no string attached gf ?
Seriously, what are you expecting out of this kind of person?
A person will not all of a sudden becomes willing to commit just because you ask him where you stand.
Role play :
You : Erm.. where do I stand in your heart ?
him : hmmmm..... what do you mean ?
you : I mean ... am I your girlfriend ?
him : girlfriend ?... hmmm why do you ask ?
you : well.... I want to be your gf.
him : OK... from today onwards, you will be my official girlfriend.
you: yay... sob.. sob..... I'm so glad.
him : ok.. gota run . I need to go meet the other unofficial girlfriend..... -
What the hell is that?Originally posted by Ke_Xin:We have been having a non committed relationship for awhile.