true friends are kinda hard to find these days..
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An jian nan fang.Originally posted by Devil1976:You've seen nothing yet... Wait till you see 'friends' who say one thing in front of you and stabs you behind your back...
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my best frens r in my pri schOriginally posted by kenizaton:hmm..ya..i heard that there are lots of back-stabbing going on in the society..i'm mentally prepared for that..but dun ppl always make thier best friends in secondary schools?and if friends in secondary schools already with those kind bo chap bo chap attitude to the friendship le..how wld the friendship last long????hmm..curious..
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x2. Ming Diao is more worst!Originally posted by Patrik:An jian nan fang. -
friends come and go..
some may treat u like their impt friend while some are jus using u..
so erm.. don b too sad ya?
and make more friends if u can.. u will nv know when u will need em -
Friends come and go.
True friendship are those put under the test of time. Open up your eyes, and look around you.
Those who claim as your friends, might not be. True friendship is indeed rare nowadays - friendship are all based on benefits these days. Being a friend of yours, offer me certain benefits. So I'll be your friend.
But one day if the benefit is gone, then be prepared that the friend would cease to be your friend.
"Trust in those you can trust in, and forget the rest." -
I used to be very innocent.
I believe what my frens said.
Due to some family problemss and other factors,
i started going out almost everyday and reach home during midnights.
I don't regret doing that tho as i gain a lot experience outside.
When i'm out, i came across all kinds of people,
people who suck up to you for their own benifits, people who do things for you for a reason and so on..
You would be surprised how wicked some of them can be
Frens who are trueful to you, you can tell.
But to earn the respect of others, please remember to respect them too.
There a saying called, zai jia kou fu mu, zai wai kou peng you.
you will eventually find frens who are true to you=) -
poly is e place to see backstabbings.
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Please note that backstabbing does not only applies to teenager.
I've once saw a 70 plus auntie dunno blabbering about what who backstab her or wad
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Strangers stab u in the front.Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:x2. Ming Diao is more worst!
Girls stab u in the heart.
Friends stab you from behind.
Rest assured that i do not carry any knife with me.
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a friend, two person on good terms...
a good friend, always there for you
a close friend, alway close with you...
a true friend, always there with you... -
I think the best time to find or have a best friend would be during secondary school days, tts when u dont really study and play hard, at the same time ur already more or less mature.
For me, most of my best friends are in sec, cant seem to click with the poly ppl and its like there is always something up their sleeves. So try to grab the opportunity now and make some really good friends. -
haha. sec school friends are somehow better i always find.
not that i dun like my jc friends or those i know through working, but i still prefer my secondary school friends, somehow
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friendship in chinese is you qing. yi qi is loyalty
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But no matter what,
This is reality
Don't trust anyone too much. -
Learn how to be a good judge of character. Sometimes 'luck' also play a part in friendship.Originally posted by kenizaton:hmm..ya..i heard that there are lots of back-stabbing going on in the society..i'm mentally prepared for that..but dun ppl always make thier best friends in secondary schools?and if friends in secondary schools already with those kind bo chap bo chap attitude to the friendship le..how wld the friendship last long????hmm..curious..
Also learn to UNDERSTAND them more. Bo chup or no, if you have the heart and desire to make friends out of them. FIND OUT why they behaves like that and know more about them.
You want to have good friends, be a good friend to them first. -
stop dreamin lah. no such ting nwadays. eberione care fer demselves nia.
n there r alot more ppl like ur frds. u juz hv to live wif it or w/o. the ball's in ur court. -
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Justhelp if you can lor. You would want someone to actually help you up when you are down also mah...
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u knw y anot.Originally posted by TYING:I think the best time to find or have a best friend would be during secondary school days, tts when u dont really study and play hard, at the same time ur already more or less mature.
For me, most of my best friends are in sec, cant seem to click with the poly ppl and its like there is always something up their sleeves. So try to grab the opportunity now and make some really good friends.
the bunch of u went thru alot 2gether durin ur growin-up phase. -
aiyah, u hw gd to dem, they gd to u anot oso nt impt lah.
in time to cm, u all will become frds who catch up occasionally nia.
fer wat pin so much hope. wait u c dem advancin in life n havin a shift in their prorities, u wud b devastated. so get ahead.
anyway, it makes more sense fer u to build a betta r/s wif ur family. whn u gro up, u wil knw lah. -
Family will olways help u in times of trouble lo. sure one. blood thicker than water mah. heh. sec3 brothers, we kp teachers together, slack together, punish together, play together. thinking back, it was wasting time, but it was FUN.
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Thats what friends are for...Originally posted by Devil1976:You've seen nothing yet... Wait till you see 'friends' who say one thing in front of you and stabs you behind your back... -
the most miserable period of my life was back in secondary school days. sec 3 and 4.Originally posted by kenizaton:hmm..i dunno abt u guys..but i find that true friends are kinda hard to find these days..hmm..i'm a secondary school student now..and i think that my friends sometimes concentrate more on their studies than on friendships..in chinese we call them 'yi qi'...
right...i have a 4 hr tuition on every sun..while my 3 other frens come for a 2 hr tuition becoz i have math and sci tuition while they only have sci tuition..and so when it's sci class,they wld den join me in the class..and so...4 hrs tuition..imagine that..wld u be dam hungry after the tuition?i wld..and so everytime after tuition..i wld ask if they wanna go for some snacks or teabreak what so ever de..and guess wad..they said they wanna go home study..sometimes i really bui tahan..and so i said i wld treat them and wld kinda beg them to accompany me for teabreak..and when they heard the word 'treat'..they wld change their mind and said ok le..wth?
and sometimes among these 3 frens,there's a couple..everytime when the couple quarrel,my male fren wld always come and ask me how to solve the prob de..hmm..we're frens wad,so i dun mind spending time giving him advice...but..everytime when i have prob,and when i tell him abt it..he's always not being serious abt it..it's like he wld give replies like ...'i dunno?' or...' sry..i nv encounter these kind of prob before' ..seriously,i felt very lost at that point and therefore i'm here to hear frm u guys for ur comments..what should i do?Do u think i shld ignore him in future when he has prob?
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i made some really good frens in secondary one and two coz we were in the same class. they were good in studies so all of them went to better classes in sec 3 n sec 4.
i did well for science but poorly for maths and was posted to the lousier class. and i can tell u i don't even have a companion to talk to in class for 2 miserable years and my good frens i got to know in my sec1 and sec 2 days started making new frens from their class and i know they have their new clique they hang out with and i start to keep a distance from them.
perhaps just hi bye when we ran into each other at corridors at times.
apart from going to school for classes, i am not active in ECA. no other activities outside school.
i have no idea how to get over the misery and everyday i wish i graduate from sec school as soon as possible.
everyday after school i just rush home, any places i go to i will go alone. for lunch in school i will also eat alone, quickly finish it up and go back class.
when i look back, i feel that i should be more active in my social life outside school. at that time i have this mindset that school is my life, that my life is my class and if i got lousy classmates that i am destined to be lonely and won't have any friends.
perhaps u can take part in more activities.
actually when make frens, cannot everything must expect returns. like when u treat people nice, u cannot expect people to treat u nicely in return. if u have this kind of mindset then life will be very miserable. continue to treat them nicely. if they tend to take advantage of u or ignore u when u seek help, next time just avoid going to them. if they seek help, just treat them nice.
if u r kind and patient, i am sure u will attract true friends with similar character and personality. -
true friendship is how on how one define it.
some pple think this guy is his friend becos he always side wif him even if he is in the wrong. but he will nvr learn his mistakes.
true friends r actually those who told him off straight by correcting him, but not many pple can take this kinda humilation.
actually it's all depend on how u want ur type of friends to be.
for me, i dun mind having friends who badmouth me from my back as i treat it as they r showing concern for me.
the only friends who i severe tie r those who happen to be gf-snatchers or ego-manic who think only for himself. -
whatever just stay close to your principles, its sick to know ppl who try to appear to be on good terms but back stabbing behind.