true friends are kinda hard to find these days..
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but most teens tend to place more importance on frds.Originally posted by ah koh:Family will olways help u in times of trouble lo. sure one. blood thicker than water mah. heh. sec3 brothers, we kp teachers together, slack together, punish together, play together. thinking back, it was wasting time, but it was FUN. -
x2Originally posted by Devil1976:You've seen nothing yet... Wait till you see 'friends' who say one thing in front of you and stabs you behind your back...
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ya..i always give my 100 percent to my frens..and sometimes i dun receive the 100 percent back frm them..some of them not even returning me 50 percent..and i think if u're in my shoes..u wld oso be dam sad bahx..isnt it?Originally posted by Bontakun:Learn how to be a good judge of character. Sometimes 'luck' also play a part in friendship.
Also learn to UNDERSTAND them more. Bo chup or no, if you have the heart and desire to make friends out of them. FIND OUT why they behaves like that and know more about them.
You want to have good friends, be a good friend to them first. -
wow..i'm really impressed in how u maintain the friendship with them..but my pri sch best frens all in different schools le..and it's really hard to maintain that friendship in that way..Originally posted by darkhour:my best frens r in my pri sch
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Different schools do not stop you from contacting them. Infact its alot easier to get into contact with them using current day technologies like internet and telecommunications.Originally posted by kenizaton:wow..i'm really impressed in how u maintain the friendship with them..but my pri sch best frens all in different schools le..and it's really hard to maintain that friendship in that way..
In my time, writing letters was the more common used way. Of course there is the 'travelling-to-visit-them' way using bus or taxi or private transport. -
oh..icic..Originally posted by Bontakun:Different schools do not stop you from contacting them. Infact its alot easier to get into contact with them using current day technologies like internet and telecommunications.
In my time, writing letters was the more common used way. Of course there is the 'travelling-to-visit-them' way using bus or taxi or private transport. -
We cannot control what types of friends we encounter in our lives nor could we control the treatment we recieved from them. However what we can control will be our treatment of the people around us, this include current and future friends. The way we conduct ourselves and the way we communicate or care for the friends will influence the responses we receive from the friends.
So my friend, do not have high expectations from your friends but do treat them well, the way you like to be treated. In this way, you will become a good friend, and that itself will attract true friends who will want to treat you well too. -
ya..i will de...thanks alot man..haha..Originally posted by chin36:We cannot control what types of friends we encounter in our lives nor could we control the treatment we recieved from them. However what we can control will be our treatment of the people around us, this include current and future friends. The way we conduct ourselves and the way we communicate or care for the friends will influence the responses we receive from the friends.
So my friend, do not have high expectations from your friends but do treat them well, the way you like to be treated. In this way, you will become a good friend, and that itself will attract true friends who will want to treat you well too.
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It's always d same wan lar ..
Friends are flickle ..
They change friends almost err ... everyday ? seconds? Year ? Mth?
Whatever lar ..
But some are just simply bootlicker friends...
Smart in class , good-looking, rich , popular , hold lots of "power" .. <
But once you left the school , they leave you alone .
You can have fun , go out and fool around , movie etc etc .. but in the end when you leave the school >> Ending : Bye bYe ..
I shall also urge you to take actions instead of waiting
Don't always sit around and wait for people to come to you.
Instead you got to "join in" and so on ..
" A true friend is not like the rain that pours and goes. It's more like air, sometimes quiet but it's always there."
A few friends will do .. don't go to those ermm .. "proud"
friends , thinking that they are super-b rich or what shit they are . Afterall , your goal is more important than your friend ..
Best of all ,
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yeah.....
a true friend is NOT a friend who is helpful only...
a true friend is always thinking bout u....
when going out, he will always stick to u or follow u....
a true friend cant do most of the things properly without u
a true friend is a friend who can help u when ur in the dark
a true friend is a friend that is always thinking about ur feeling....
i am fourteen this yr
i am also in sec sch,
but so far in my life, i have not met anybody who is stated in the above....
just dont search for ur true friend,
keep making friends,
and through situations, a true friend will be identified....
only through situations u can noe whether ur friend had the things stated above.....
and do not put all ur heart to ur friends.....
i put all my heart to my friends......
all treat me like dirt
all treat me like shiit,
thus, the damage in myheart is bigger and more hurtful.......
and good luck........ to me and u
Cheers
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Not just these days. Good friends have always been hard to find. That's why they are called good friends.
I only have one good friend. And I always quarrel with him, sigh! He is my hubby.
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yeah man. true friends are hard to find.
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"true friend" ... is very hard to define one hor...
just because you define "true friend" one way does not mean that others have the same definition as you...