Haiz getting dumped several times What to do??
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I do not wish to talk to someone who is bent on lecturing ..
I just need to confide in someone -
YAr lor.. TS, you must love yourself before others can love you.
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You will become who you think you are...
therefore you have to be positive... -
believe me i was something like u last time...totally low self-esteem n keep sayin no nice girl will like me...but then muz always rmb that u r unique...its not that all girls dun like u, its juz that not everyone knws what kinda person u r...in econs we call it imperfect informationOriginally posted by Evolution IX MR:if i get dumped so many times means there's something wrong le...
I have to say this...
I think that all girls in sg would not like me
And they would choose a handicapped guy over me
...dun wry la, problem will b solved over time...n plz la, ur onli 16, u still haf so many years ahead of u... -
what does appearance play?
appearance only give one a headstart,but keeping the flame is when effort comes in.
looks alone cannot acheive such.
I'm yandao but i'm asexual to a high degee
and i never have a gf before.
Hope that helps -
If you need someone to talk to, you can PM me. We can talk on MSN.Originally posted by Evolution IX MR:I do not wish to talk to someone who is bent on lecturing ..
I just need to confide in someone
Cheers. -
go frenster
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Change your way of thinking dude.
Carry on like this you won't even find a old auntie to be with you -
there are many not so good looking ppl in this world la..im also one of them la..so i know how u feel..some ppl say i look fugly some say i look cute...
thus proving my point tat diff ppl have diff taste..wats pretty to u may not be as pretty as wat others think.
TS u are able to get into a relationship it simply means the girl is willing to be with u despite ur looks.if u think its weird that u are dump several times...go ask ur close frens whether is it ur character tats the problem..if yes..then try changing..
n stop having low confidence in urself.having low confidence would not help in any way. -
*shrugs* the more you look, the more elusive it is.
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only 16Originally posted by Evolution IX MR:I bo NS
cause i hearing impaired, my teacher say no ns liao...
16 considered late in my sch.. to have a rs
bo bian f**K , why i so ugly
my my.......plenty of time 
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ya la ya la.. you ugly..
i see your friendster i thought i see ghost. must quickly alt+f4
i think u not crying loud enough. cry louder la.. maybe gals will pity u and gib u one night stands..
i know u very ugly. go plastic surgery la. oh wait.. u only earn $6 per day. not enough.. later no money take mrt.
bloody so low self esteem and no confidence at all. No wonder the auntie selling pork cute daughter dont want you. -
Wah eh
I dumped you guys rubbing in salt in wound
How to recover liddat?
At least give me advice lah
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Great, could you pm me your msn?Originally posted by binarynwitz:If you need someone to talk to, you can PM me. We can talk on MSN.
Cheers. -
we can tell u alot of advice till pigs can fly but the only person who can change is none other then yourselfOriginally posted by Evolution IX MR:Wah eh
I dumped you guys rubbing in salt in wound
How to recover liddat?
At least give me advice lah -
Originally posted by Evolution IX MR:
The thing is , will u listen to our advice? Think again . Read thru ur post , and i mean it . Read what you have said earlier .
Wah eh
I dumped you guys rubbing in salt in wound
How to recover liddat?
At least give me advice lah
My advice to you is , even if the whole world turns against you , never think negatively , it hurts you .
Think positive ya ! -
Emo syndrome?
Some little advises I have to offer here.
1) Stop all the negative whining like "I can't", "I definitely wouldn't". They are slowing killing your already low self-confidence and esteem.
2) Bring out all the positive stuffs and thinking. What's the best thing you can do? Gaming? Writing? Crafts etc? Indulge yourself more in it, make it become your forte. It will help build up your confidence, open more doors to meet new friends and have more topics to talk about when you talk to girls. -
This I agree
Did the girls say WHY they are dumping you?Originally posted by Evolution IX MR:if i get dumped so many times means there's something wrong le... -
You look ok what.... I know you from another forums, btw. *hint hint*Originally posted by Evolution IX MR:Haiz lah, i let you guys decide
i so ugly you look at my friendster pic sure alt+F4
http://www.friendster.com/user.php?uid=35504229
I can imagine you vomit first
U can go for image makeover. Change clothers, bags, hairstyle. You'll feel more confident and better image-based first impression.
I never had girlfriend too, I'm 4 years older than you.
Image is easy to change, personality is harder. -
Girls like guys who can laugh at themselves and be comfortable with...
You do not sound very satisfied with the way you are but how many peopple in the world are?
Being emotional to relieve some pent-up frustration is good. But overdoing it is a major turn off for girls. Answer this truthfully, if you do not like yourself, who are you expecting to like you? [not meant to be offending]
I bet you like being around with happy people more than people who are always sad and angry at everyone else.
Try to be more cheery k?
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Dude. Wake up from your fake nightmare. You're only 16. Not 60!Originally posted by Evolution IX MR:What rich....
I have to take MRT to school, just like any kid..
Dont assume that since i live in a condo doesnt mean that i have everything i need...
And i only get $6 a day
$6 a day, staying in a condo and you dare think you're not rich?
Come on lah. I get $6 a day as well, stay in a HDB flat and my parents don't even own a private car and i'm without a girlfriend. Yet i'm happy. And trust me, your looks are nothing compared to mine. If we both take part in an ugly looking competition, i guarantee you i will win top prize .
I have a friend who is short and he thinks he will NEVER get a girlfriend. Now, he has one girlfriend who is taller than him by a margin and they both are happy. Trust me, they are about the same age as you.
Your school says 16 year old too old to start a R/S? So are you going to get a crew cut if everybody in your school gets one? You're just following trends blindly.
How about those 30-40 year old+ people who are still single? Are you going to say they can start digging their own graves since they aren't even married, let alone in a relationship?
If i know you in person, i seriously WILL give you a good and hard thrash. There are so many people out in the world worrying for other things like whether they're going to sleep on the streets tomorrow, when they can have finally have a meal or whether if they can get a suitable bone marrow, and here you are complaining that you don't have a girlfriend?
Even if everybody in Sgforums comes in to give you advice, will you take it?
A girlfriend does not mean a wife. Do you even know what's a Bachelor? Admit it. You're just desperate for a girlfriend.
It's already something that you can even get into a BGR. But how long did all your R/S lasted? You're the one getting DUMPED. Isn't it starting to become obvious that it's your fault?
Face the facts, all of us means the same things even though we say different words.
First, start your studying
! Even if you look as handsome like Jay chou, but you work as a drink can collector, not even a gay will fall for you.
Second, socialise! socialise!! socialise!!! You think by sitting at home in front of your computer screen being pathetic will get you the girls? Go out with your classmates, get a religion or whatsoever.
Lastly, be who you really are and go to the gym to train up. A person with the looks of Tay ping hui but the size of Moses lim will scare off even the roaches. And stop acting so pitiful. If i had a M134 minigun in my hands and both you and a serial rapist stand in my way, i'll let the rapist go and start filling your body with bullets. (Although i much rather kill the rapist than you ;you still got hope
If you still try giving crap saying you're ugly and think you won't get a girlfriend, you can start digging your grave in Lim Chu Kang cemetery already
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I seem to be flaming. Because if i do, tell me so. I'll just delete this post with immediate effect -
just have more self confidence.
whenever i see a pretty gal, but the moment she opens her mouth she talks like an ah lian, I always feel 'gosh, what a waste'
similar to 'power is nothing without control', looks is nothing without a decent set of brains. -
What if the chio bu talks very gently and nicely leh? U go "aww....." arh?Originally posted by No9:
just have more self confidence.
whenever i see a pretty gal, but the moment she opens her mouth she talks like an ah lian, I always feel 'gosh, what a waste'
similar to 'power is nothing without control', looks is nothing without a decent set of brains. -
U mean humorous guys?Originally posted by VaultPrime:Girls like guys who can laugh at themselves and be comfortable with... -
Hi , thanks for your concernOriginally posted by RsSDumbSteR:Dude. Wake up from your fake nightmare. You're only 16. Not 60!
$6 a day, staying in a condo and you dare think you're not rich?
Come on lah. I get $6 a day as well, stay in a HDB flat and my parents don't even own a private car and i'm without a girlfriend. Yet i'm happy. And trust me, your looks are nothing compared to mine. If we both take part in an ugly looking competition, i guarantee you i will win top prize .
I have a friend who is short and he thinks he will NEVER get a girlfriend. Now, he has one girlfriend who is taller than him by a margin and they both are happy. Trust me, they are about the same age as you.
Your school says 16 year old too old to start a R/S? So are you going to get a crew cut if everybody in your school gets one? You're just following trends blindly.
How about those 30-40 year old+ people who are still single? Are you going to say they can start digging their own graves since they aren't even married, let alone in a relationship?
If i know you in person, i seriously WILL give you a good and hard thrash. There are so many people out in the world worrying for other things like whether they're going to sleep on the streets tomorrow, when they can have finally have a meal or whether if they can get a suitable bone marrow, and here you are complaining that you don't have a girlfriend?
Even if everybody in Sgforums comes in to give you advice, will you take it?
A girlfriend does not mean a wife. Do you even know what's a Bachelor? Admit it. You're just desperate for a girlfriend.
It's already something that you can even get into a BGR. But how long did all your R/S lasted? You're the one getting DUMPED. Isn't it starting to become obvious that it's your fault?
Face the facts, all of us means the same things even though we say different words.
First, start your studying ! Even if you look as handsome like Jay chou, but you work as a drink can collector, not even a gay will fall for you.
Second, socialise! socialise!! socialise!!! You think by sitting at home in front of your computer screen being pathetic will get you the girls? Go out with your classmates, get a religion or whatsoever.
Lastly, be who you really are and go to the gym to train up. A person with the looks of Tay ping hui but the size of Moses lim will scare off even the roaches. And stop acting so pitiful. If i had a M134 minigun in my hands and both you and a serial rapist stand in my way, i'll let the rapist go and start filling your body with bullets. (Although i much rather kill the rapist than you ;you still got hope
If you still try giving crap saying you're ugly and think you won't get a girlfriend, you can start digging your grave in Lim Chu Kang cemetery already.
I seem to be flaming. Because if i do, tell me so. I'll just delete this post with immediate effect
I Finally and i mean it, have found another special person ....
Going for our first date on 15 july watch movie