shhhhOriginally posted by gigabyte14:copy me 1![]()
You are already a nice guy and all she needs is a listening ear from you... as long as you are listening... "orh", " ok" and "sorry" is good enough.Originally posted by CheHyeon:My ex girlfriend is having a really bad time that I really cannot imagine sia...
She's having trouble with her boss at work. Her grandmother passed away 3 months ago. She quarrels incessantly with her current boyfriend. Her family's been in financial instability for half a year. To top it all up her father is in the last terminal stage of stomach cancer(adenocarcinoma) with a month left.
She calls me every other day (long distance to Australia) to tell me all about how she feels. I really REALLY pity her but I can't think of really good advice/condolences to tell her. I feel really bad everytime she calls me and pours her heart to me only to get the occasional "orh", " ok" and "sorry" etc...how sia...
i think its more of both 1 & 2.. since u had relationship before with her, you could be the next closest one she can confide with, you're just a temporary shoulder for her, until she finds someone else who's within proximity to her for her to really put her shoulders on (shes in australia, you in ???.., hopefully she meet someone whos nearby her who can really comfort her, too bad for her father though.. boy i can imagine the stress she's going through..Originally posted by kiss_my (_i_):two reson she call you..
1,
she got no1 to talk to, and u once her closer 1..
and this is the best timing to chase her back, if this is wat u want..
2,
she treat u as a sparetyre, only call whenver she need help..![]()
i knw liaoOriginally posted by CheHyeon:Oh well what can I say... Life really blows sometimes... _l7o...